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  I'm in love with my friends younger sister. He knows and ok with it. It was love at first sight for me but she was 16. Now shes 25. I wanted to ask her out for a long time but she had a boyfriend. Help me sweep her off her feet. How should I ask her out?
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  How do I get my ex girlfriend back? Hi so I’m in a situation where I know my ex still loves me and is in love with me. However the reason for this breakup (48 hrs ago) was for us to work on ourselves, to get the ball rolling on our careers and after we do that she said she promised we’d try things out again. She said she has no time for me rn because her mom just went through a kidney transplant and she needs to focus on her plus she said she doesn’t feel like she loves herself enough and before putting all 100% into me she wants to do that for herself. We took a 2 week break and she told me she felt awful because she wanted to give me attention it’s just she needs to be strong for herself and show herself that she can be responsible. So she broke things off so she doesn’t feel like I’m waiting on the sidelines for her. She also wants time for herself to do yoga and make new friends. Our breakup wasn’t bad. We talked and talked and even had sex and took a last picture of us kissing before going our separate ways. She contacted me the next morning telling me she hopes work went good and we talked for a bit then the conversation ended and restarted again at night while we were both at work. She told me during the breakup that she felt uncomfortable in the relationship because when we argue or fight I’d be an a**hole and yell and cuss at her. I told her I wanna change for myself but also for us because I realized that it’s not cool of me to be yelling over dumb things. She said she doesn’t know if things will workout in the future between us but we will try again and as long we work on ourselves rn then only good things will come. Any advice would be helpful as this time for me is hard because we told each other we’d work through anything and that our relationship could go to hell and back and we’d still love each other. I know this is hell rn I just want things to workout again.
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  I find this guy cute. We re in the same school but we don t have any classes together . We hung out with a group of friends a couple of times. we were once talking about being crushed on ( with a group ofc) and tells us how he told another girl he wasn t looking for anyone right now. I don t know whether or not to take him seriously. Plus even if I shouldn t worry about that, how would I know whether or not I should spend my time liking him. But he s a real catch tho T.T.
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  I find this guy cute. We re in the same school but we don t have any classes together . We hung out with a group of friends a couple of times. we were once talking about being crushed on ( with a group ofc) and tells us how he told another girl he wasn t looking for anyone right now. I don t know whether or not to take him seriously. Plus even if I shouldn t worry about that, how would I know whether or not I should spend my time liking him. But he s a real catch tho T.T.
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  One of my best friends asked a girl out, she said no and that she wasn't ready for a relationship, she just told me that i was her type of guy, i kind of like her. no girl has ever shown interest in me, wht do i do?
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  So I joined college a week ago and it's been great so far. Haven't made a lot of friends yet but it's fine. My roommate is some girl I've never met before till like 4 days ago and she and her friends seem pretty cool. I'm not a very talkative person (probably awkward af) and I try to be social but it just turns into a very awkward situation. The hostel I stay in usually offer meals and since I can't eat some foods (tummy issues) I decided to order takeout on my first day stay. My roommate and her friend were on the top bunk talking during dinner and they told me to go get some food and I declined saying I was full and all but then my takeout arrived and when I got to eating, she and her friend weren't there so there's no way I could offer it to them. So when they came back, the food was already cold and I felt bad offering them cold food (bc it seems like I'm giving them my leftovers; rude) so I just kept it there till the next morning when I threw it out. A few days later, I hear her talking to her friends telling them how selfish I am. It really hurts bc we don't know each other that well and she's already making judgements about me. We don't talk much but I feel like I've been nothing but good to her despite being quiet and all. God knows what nonsense she's been feeding her friends. What should I do? I really do like her friends
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  My name is Fabian. So there is this girl i have a big crush on, (not dating) I'm not ready to ask her out yet. But her name is Alyssa . I met her in middle school and me and her still text ALOT, like everyday. We sometimes hang out and chill. me and her care and love eachother alot, she loves me because i always been there for her, and i always made her feel better, she said she wouldn't know what she do without me. She said i am like one of the realest people out there. she said me and her will rock together forever. but these past 7 days i feel like me and her were getting dry, like if our bond wasn't the same , like if something was wrong with her. I miss texting her more, laughing and having funny and enjoyable convos, where we texted more and she replied faster. I noticed she has been sleeping in all day until 5 or 6pm , and she goes to bed earlier then usual, it made no sense to me. She also hasn't been texting anybody that much and she hasn't been on social media that much, i asked her and she "said You're the first person to actually notice. but idk, I've been sleeping a lot and idk why . Then i asked her what is causing all that and she said " I just got out of a really toxic friendship and it's been taking a huge toll on my emotions lately ". Turns out it was her bestfriend (Jony) they were really close. She really cared and trusted him. I asked what happened and she said "A lot of manipulation and mental abuse". What do you think she meant by that and what do you think might of happened? She said "We still talk a lil bit,, I just needed some space" But to be honest i don't know how to really help her, i need to find the right words to have her move on and whatever they have wasn't real anymore. I don't want her to think i am trying to talk her out her feelings, i also don't want to make her sound guilty or anything like that, i don't want to sound like An Asshole either. I am that type of person that is always going to be real with people and she knows that. I want her to be strong. Alot of people hurt
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  for a relationship that has ended because of lost trust but you are still corigal to each other because you still love each other and have been together for 9 years and have 2 kids. is it better to talk as friends and not try to get back with her or give her space? My goal is to mend the relationship and be a better husband and father.
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  Hey I'm 17 and I met this one girl over the December holiday at a party. We made out that night many many times we were kind of drunk....I've seen her a lot since, we are in different schools so I see her only on weekends. We've kissed a lot since, but I'm not shure of she actually likes me or if we are just friends because I know she usually has many guys around her - but still I see that she makes an effort to see me. Do you think she actually likes me?
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  Theres a girl but shes 16, she likes me alot she says and I think I like her. She acts more responsible and mature than most 20 year olds. Shes my good friend who is in jail's little sister, I'm 19 and I've known her since she was 10 tho. Wat U think?