ANSWERS: 86
  • I think people (including you) should stop acting like it's such an abnormal thing.
  • Me too. We've been married 7 years and never had any problems. I'm white and she's Pacific Islander.
  • I have been in 2 in my life and found little resistence from friends and strangers.It is very common to see intercial relationships these days.Anyway I don't base relationships on one's race.
  • People are people if you love a person what colour they are, or their ethnicity has no bearing on the relationship whatsoever. Stop worrying about it or what others may think.
  • I think it's your life to do with it what you want. Good luck. : )
  • I think there should be no such thing...we are all human and that is my race human not white not black not asian HUMAN
  • I never give it a second thought...When i see an interracial couple walking down the street, it is just like seeing a same-race couple. They are just people.
  • i dont think anything to be honest. if you are happy in your relationship it doesnt matter what colour skin you have etc etc. just be happy and dont worry :)
  • This song describes it perfectly for me. "What would they say if we were blind people?" One should not love by the color of their skin but by their personality and how well you get along with each other. "Long Way To Go" By Gwen Stefani and Andre 3000 We've got a long way to go When snow hits the asphalt, cold looks and bad talk come We've got a long way to go It's beyond Martin Luther, upgrade computer His/Her skin wasn't the same color as mine but he/she was fine, he/she was fine If all men are made equal then he/she was fine, he/she was fine Up until the time we went out on a date, I was fine, I was fine Now I'm getting dirty looks I wonder what they'd say if we were blind,we were blind people We've got a long way to go When snow hits the asphalt, cold looks and bad talk come We've got a long way to go It's beyond Martin Luther, upgrade computer We've got a long way to go When snow hits the asphalt, cold looks and bad talk come We've got a long way to go It's beyond Martin Luther, upgrade computer Beauty is beauty, whether it's black or white Yellow or green baby, you know what I mean What if Picasso only used one color? There shouldn't be a rule how to choose your lover Lovers in love such a wonderful thing Maybe in time we'll get together and sing I really hope so, there's nothing wrong with this picture We got a long way to go, we gotta get there quicker We've got a long way to go When snow hits the asphalt, cold looks and bad talk come We've got a long way to go It's beyond Martin Luther, upgrade computer We've got a long way to go When snow hits the asphalt, cold looks and bad talk come We've got a long way to go It's beyond Martin Luther, upgrade computer What color is love? [x3] We've got a long way to go When snow hits the asphalt, cold looks and bad talk come We've got a long way to go It's beyond Martin Luther, upgrade computer We've got a long way to go When snow hits the asphalt, cold looks and bad talk come We've got a long way to go It's beyond Martin Luther, upgrade computer ... that all men are created equal... ... children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by... ... the color of their skin... ... but by the content of their character... ... this will be the day when all of God's children... ... will be able to sign with a new meaning.... ... not only that.....
  • I love Black Women I think they are totally HOT.
  • It's great. I mean, it would be united into one Human race. I'm black and attracted to white girls. There be less racism. It's the 21st century.
  • there is only one race--the human race...that's what I think.
  • As long as you both really care about one another and are in love for the right reasons, I couldn't give a flying rat's but what your skin looks like. The key is in finding the right person.
  • Whatever makes you happy..I have no opinion on the subject :)
  • I think that if you like/love someone, their race is irrelevant. Anyone who thinks otherwise is racist as simple as that.
  • I dated a Puerto Rican for 2 years and almost married her and I am white for me it was not an issue. I loved her for who she was on the inside and her race did not bother me one bit.
  • Fantastic i am from uk girlfreind from Kenya never been happier, still get the odd luck, we just laugh at them, good luck hope you have many happy years together.
  • Alright by me, and by many, but not yet by all.
  • Fine by me.
  • In my opinion, skin color shouldn't make a difference of anything at all. A relationship is a bond between two people that's intangible to others because of what they share. It's not about what they look like/their skin color/anything of their appearance, it's just like I said -- that special rapport that involves the character of one person meshed with the character of another. Hope that flips a switch.
  • I think that it's YOUR business who you date, and noone else's. Anyone who argues against interracial relationships is a bigot, plain and simple.
  • Who do people think they are to put love into a color-coded, sterotyped filing system. That might work for your socks but love is not like that. Love is any age, sex, color, religon, race and creed. We need to embrace the love for what it is. Anyone who believes otherwise is very myopic and narrow minded - just reducing their chance to see a bigger world.
  • I lived in Hawaii where over 50% of couples are interracial. No one gives it a second thought there nor do I, considering I'm a part of the over 50%.
  • I am white and I dated a guy from the Dominican Republic, and wow was he hot. My parents are old school and so are my grand-parents they don't believe in it, but obviously I cool with it.
  • I think it's great. I'm a Black Irish and I'm totally attracted to white girls. Though, color has no meaning to it though. This is the 21st century.
  • i dated this guy a few years ago. half white half black 6'5"...then there's me 5'5"....we looked famous when we walked down the street, no lie! So when we would see another black/white couple we would silently say "Right on"
  • I don't have a problem with interracial relationships of any kind. Race is just another way people like to divide things so that they can have some way to think they are better than another group of people. But, I'd like to add, dating a Pacific Islander or Hispanic and being white is different and sometimes more difficult when you're black dating white or Pacific Islander or anything not black. You get more crap for it, being black, and I say this because I know from my own experience. So although everyone on this page is okay with it that does not mean the entire world is. But in all honesty, it doesnt matter what anyone else thinks because at the end of the day it's just you and the one you love, so screw everyone else.
  • really, unless you subscribe to all the little theories held by Darwin, we are all of one race. Mixed cultural relationships can be difficult, but if the people love eachother and actively work to realize their hopes and dreams together, then its none of my business.
  • I think thankgod for them, If there werent any, i wouldnt here. :D
  • There's more to interracial relationships than Black and White, which are almost at a point of complete acceptance (Mainly because it is not hard for Black/White couples to find many other like them). However, other interracial relationships, such as mine (I am White and my girl is Asian) are still far from accepted, thus we oftentimes end up friendless and in some cases even family-less.
  • Love transcends color of skin.
  • I don't see how it's any different the a non "interracial" relationship.
  • I think they are great but I know there are to many people that don't like it.
  • I think it's hard enough to find someone to love and who loves you in this world, so if that person just so happens to be a different race, who cares? you cant help who you love!
  • The only time I think about interracial relationships is when I day dream and see myself in one. But other than that, when I see a mixed couple, I think nothing of it. I smile on the inside, knowing that more people are mixing and hopefully breaking racial barriors.
  • Everyone has different thoughts. All that matters is what you think. Also, if skin color matters so much then why not eye color too? Interiris relationships.
  • I don't care. I want to be in one.
  • I think they are fantastic! You get to understand different cultures and religion. Im an Australian with a Vietnamese background who is Buddhist. I have actually dated anyone with my background or my religion. Instead of I have dated croatians, half aussie/greek, half chilean/ aussie and currently dating an englishman. I really like the diversity of cultures and find it fascinating. People that look down on it are just uneducated people who are not open minded for this century.
  • i think its wonderful, two different cultures becomes one under the same roof. the kids will be rich of cultures from their parents and all the people who involved in that relaionship will be able to learn the good thing from the different culture..
  • Im black and i slept with a few white girls but i would never marry a white girl or have kids with her, never ever
  • i'm a fan of obama, martin luther king, booker t washington, lincoln, my favorite college professor was african-american, the man who saved my life was african-american ... i'm also living in the southeast. i think that of the interracial couples that i've known, they often emit difficulties at a greater rate than would be expected statistically, and in a manner that tend to reinforce some of the old stereotypes. i suspect that, over time, those old stereotypes are more prone to balance out. my wife and i are friends with an interracial couple and it poses some unique challenges for them and their daughter. i think that they've been very blessed and have been able to work through difficulties.
  • Speaking from exprience some people will have a problem with it. but you have to learn to deal with it. I have lost friends because im engaged to a white guy and i also sometimes get bad looks. But as long as your happy who gives a dam about what other people think.
  • I, for one think nothing of them. Color mattters nothing to me. Our family has such a couple and we love them dearly and see no difference. No one should.
  • I couldn't care less about it ;)
  • love comes in many differnt shapes, sizes and colors
  • People rarely look twice or bat an eye. The children of interracial relationships have, in the past, had some "identity" issues, but I think that is becoming less prevalent.
  • A white friend of mine who dated every color of woman imaginable had a great phrase (pardon me ladies): "It's all pink on the inside." It's the content of your character...
  • It would not matter to me, not in any circumstances, not what color of the skin, religion or race is concerned, not for myself nor my children or relatives. Our body is our outer shell which incompasses the soul and the personality with it. Good or bad would be the criteria for me.
  • There is absolutely nothing wrong with interracial relationships. Most people are of mixed descent in America, anyway. Why is it still considered taboo by some people? Go on with your bad self.
  • Thats awesome that you are in one. I have been in them too. I think that it's not a big deal and that in the end it's all about who you love. Not skin color.
  • I have absolutely no problem with them. I think it always looks unusual to the human eye to see mixed-race couples initially, no matter what we're 'suppossed to think.' It's human nature to observe that a couple is of different races. The only problem I have with mixed-race couples is when they act indignant when people stare at them or ask questions about their relationship. Hoping that people will overcome their human nature and not notice that a couple is of mixed race is a very passive aggressive attitude, in my opinion.
  • well,im in one now!! i love it.this is my second time in a interracial relationship.the first time i married for about a year.then it was over.he was a buthole!!my guy now is good.im his first black women he has had a real true relationship.i think interacial relationship is awesome.but you have to be real. it's not nice to play with someone feelings,or heart.doesn't matter what color a person maybe.everyone have a heart and feelings.
  • I think it is no different than any other relationship! Good luck with everything!
  • Who cares what everyone else thinks? Be happy!
  • I am in one, and I love it. I think living in neutral territory is part of the key to success. If you live in the community of either party, the other is bound to feel left out in some way.
  • People are people not matter what race or colour. The problems come in the clashes of cultures. And that can happen between people of the same race and colour.
  • I think it is awesome!!! <3
  • In one also,couldnt care less what someone else thinks.
  • I was in one for 7 years... I don't think it is any different than people of the same race dating! people are people!
  • Unless you mean you're dating someone outside the human race, then I don't think anyone would care.
  • I'm all for it!! =D Genetics need a little shaking up,they tend to get stail = /
  • I am a dark skinned Black American female and my husband is a white Turk; we're both highly educated and there is a six year age gap. My only issue is that I love to support those who love others that have been constantly derided by this American society. Those people such as Black females or Asian men who have, for some reason or another, not been considered as a valuable commodity as a potential life partner. I found the statistics in this Wikipedia article based on the US 2006 Census interesting; and, it makes me wonder if I want to raise my children (since I have the option of Turkey) in a mainstream America that seems to still be suffering the aftershock of Reconstruction? Here is the article: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Interracial_marriage Maybe every person doesn't know; but I know that every Black or African American person at or above the age of 25 clearly knows and has experienced in some way the disgusting, dark side of race in this country, particularly against Black females (and vice versa). Therefore I support and deeply appreciate any man who loves Black women (or any woman who will consider dating an Asian man). I would love to write all these ideal answers, but this is not an ideal world we live in and no matter how I live in my pretty circle I've always been highly sensitive, observant and analytical of the world around me. PS If anyone knows Park Slope, Brooklyn, now with a high yuppie and interracial population, then you can better understand my environment as a young Black female. LOL
  • At first i was a little skeptable about them, but now i totally accept them and i am in one right now. It's hard at first because my parents aren't fully accepting, but i'm happy and thats all that matters.
  • I hope your relationship is a happy and lasting one full of love and good times, that's what counts to me in ANY relationship... By the by,ditto on the same race comment, we're all people plain and simple.
  • I've been in one for years. In fact I've never dated a half latino, half white woman in my life.
  • personal question for sure but it's not for me
  • Not my bag but I don't frown upon it. I just don't find non caucasion women that attractive.
  • I don't think most people are concerned about it these days.
  • Its a matter of the heart. We all have the same color blood when we bleed. I think God is just into colors and loves people. Enjoy your relationship its a personal thing. With any relationship the more you have in common, the closer you will be. Religion, etc. But color makes no difference. Enjoy.
  • STICK TO YOUR OWN RACE YOU FUCKING PIG
  • I don't have a problem with it at all....I am an American Indian and hispanic and the husband is Irish and German.....we have two georgous sons together....People always comment on how all 5 of my children are so beautiful. My first husband was full-blooded Inca Indian from Arequipa Peru. So my older 3 children are just as beautiful as the last 2. The thought I have on interracial marriages is that they sure do produce beautiful children!!!!
  • I married a black man and I can tell you that everybody will tell you that they accept it and are not racist, but they will start leaving you out and not talking to you as much. All will do their best to break it us. Nobody will be honest to you about it. And they will talk behind your back about you. The females will try to have sex with him behind your back. Most will like him because he is dating you, but all will not like you because you are trash for dating him. That is the way it works. My husband and I made it because we were aware of the way the pubic lies to you about it.
  • 2nd Kings 5, Leviticus 13-15, and Numbers 12
  • There is nothing wrong with them. It is the person, not the race, that matters.
  • love has no colour. you only live once so be happy
  • &quot;Guess Who's Coming To Dinner?" I am white and I married a black woman. Never been happier and here in California, it is no problem. Now, in the south, where she is from, it might have been a problem. But not on the west coast.
  • I think there's nothing wrong with it. I'm white and think black women are the most attractive. I'd love to date(and marry)one someday. The only problem is going to be finding a black lady that shares the same political views as me-I'm a non-democrat.
  • My moms Asian my fathers Hispanic, it's intresting to see how differint ethnic backgrounds families live... which is basicly all the SAME. The only people who are againts interacial relationships would be racists..plain and simple.
  • I live down south and a lot of people down south frown upon interracial relationships. I feel people here have gotten better about it and accept it more, but it is still talked about in a bad manner. For me, I am fine with whatever one chooses as long as they are happy.
  • If it makes you happy, then I'm all for it. God knows, there's little enough of happiness in this sad, old world.
  • I don't even know why people feel the need to ask these things. If it feels right, do it. The hell with what people think, good or bad. It's not like it's important.
  • They happened alot in my family,and I view people as themselves,biologically made up of differenes for all to be apart from one another as well as the induvidual.*+++++*
  • Our world has become a global village. Inter-racial relationship has become more acceptable now than before. It is because there are more opportunities for peoples of the world to interact in areas like studies, work and social interactions.
  • I am white, my wife is black. "Guess Who's Coming To Dinner?" In California there is no problem. In the south, it is another issue.
  • Sometimes women of another race are the only ones who will date you.
  • One day in the distant future Earth will only have one human race. Not to say there wont be other races other than human to cause controversy but in this day and age the only people who have problems with it are people you really shouldnt care about.

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