Older women can manipulate younger men into having sex against their will. She can get him drunk enough that she can have her way with him or slip him a roofy.

Male on Male Rape exists... Female on Male Rape does too. Is your friend's name Pollyanna? http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/106364

I disagee. There is absolutely no doubt that it exists; but its not reported or heard of as much. Considering child abuse, international sex trades, and other illegal happenings, Id wager that it is probably as prevalent as female rape. Id also wager that your friend is very naive to make such a ridiculous statement.

It does exist. There are stories in the news quite a bit about it.

I hear it on the news almost every month. It can happen. A women can trick a man or drug him, and force him to have sexual intercourse with her, while the man in unconscience.

Yea, there is, woman have sex with them tie them up posing to be kinky, then they do twisted shit, strap ons, gags.... ect.

Male rape can happen.....even if he doesn't get an erection. There are all sorts of other things someone could do to a guy, man or woman. You don't think a man could degrade and use another male? You don't think a woman could drug a man, tie him up and stick something somewhere? That's not rape to you?

No, I don't agree with him. Definitely, male on male rape exists, even more so than female on male. MUCH more so, according to statistics. I would hazard a guess that VERY FEW female raping male cases get reported. I think most men would be ashamed to say a women took advantage of them. I do think it would be extremely hard for a woman to actually rape a man, unless she was using sexual toys and raping the man the other way.

Not counting child abuse I would have to say No. I don't think a males penis becomes erect if he is scared, angry, or upset...

Ha...you ask any young or fairly good looking guy who spent time in prison or jail....unless they are very powerful in one way or another...or freaking lucky as hell...I'd almost bet they can tell you all about male rape...Rape is Rape...it's a brutal lesson in power, in dominance...It might include deceptions, manipulations and "sweet talk" or simply physical force with as much pain included for the victim as is "needed" or desired by the rapist to get what they want. I'll be honest, I've heard enough stories to make me cringe every time I hear a guy laugh and say..."oh yeah, I wish I could get raped." The Women, Men and children I've known who WERE raped, once, or multiple times...have pretty much stripped any jokes or giggles from my mind with regards to THIS topic. It's not CONSENSUAL. It's not two ADULTS, who want to spice up their love life together by playing a little game of bondage or blindfolds, or some "dirty talk" that they have AGREED to do together...NOT a fantasy that they have scripted to their mutual desires, or to add an element of something "different" to the routine. With RAPE...there is no SAFE WORD to say if you decide you are starting to feel uncomfortable, or you decided that "spanking" actually doesn't excite you, or you're getting a cramp in your leg or back and so want the rope, or belt or handcuffs taken off NOW. With rape there is a chance you will be hurt MORE than just sexually, emotionally, or more than just punched, or slapped. Knives can cut OFF body parts, or slice you deep enough to bleed to death. Having your head bashed in can kill you or damage your eye (s) t the point of blindness. Surviving rape and NOT getting KILLED is HUGE...A REAL SUCCESS, even if the Victim WISHES they were dead for a good while...hopefully they get help and survive the EMOTIONAL part as well as they did the physical... Rape has NOTHING TO DO WITH SEX...and...EVERYTHING TO DO with AGGRESSIVE POWER OVER ANOTHER HUMAN BEING.

His attitude is silly, but also disquieting. Rape is rape...whether the victim is a woman, man or child. It is very sad that it is so prevalent in our society, and so misunderstood.

Yes male rape exists and is probably much more common than we realise as men would be much less liable to report a sexual attack.

wtf. i have a guy friend who was gang-raped when he was 11. it's not funny and it's not any less rape than anything else.

Your friend is a fool. Male rape can and does exist. The (UK) Defition of Rape by law in the Sexual Offences Act 2003 is "non-consensual intercourse by a man with a person; the victim can be either male or female. Intercourse can be the penetration by a penis of the vagina, anus or mouth of another person." Before 2003 only penetration of the vagina or anus was considerd rape in the eyes of the law. anything else was classified under different sexual offences. It is not considerd rape if an older woman tricks a man into sex etc. only if penatration of the male (anal, oral) occurs

Yes, male rape does exist. A man can be raped by a man either anally or orally. A man can be violated with objects in his rectum while heavily intoxicated or unconscious - some violent women find this empowering and sexually arousing. A woman can force a man to perform a cunnilingual act upon a man while either intoxicated and unconscious, and before your friend should consider this to be amusing or arousing, remind him that not all women are attractive, washed, and / or disease free.

I am a male and as a young child I suffered sexual abuse by a babysitter for two years. So yes male rape exsists.

see: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Male_rape#Rape_of_males_by_males

guys can be raped just as easily as girls can, and in more emotionally devastating ways than women can be raped.

The worst kind of rape is undoubtedly destitute rape

This is all well and good, but you all seem to be brushing over the real subject which we all should be discussing....destitute rape.

one word, anal

Oh christ. Of course male rape exists; the event of rape isn't choosy for gender. It can be male on female, male on male, female on male, or female on female. Still rape.

Of course it exists. Just read the new about the Pakastani man who was raped and killed by Musilim yesterday for not converting to islam. Great peaceful religion.

It does exist. He may not know about it because he's ignorant of it happening. The others who have posted have taken away all the excellent suggestions so I wil just say inform him - he needs to know in case it will be vital for him to know later on in life.

no just go visit young boys in catholic schools or prison of course it exists and it traumatizes them and they can repress and regress

Yes it does exists, it is normally men rapping other men, although women have raped men it is not very common because in general a men can fight a women off!

Three fat ladies tied a man up, raped him by putting a rubberband around his penis to keep him erect. Then they all took turns humping him and physically torturing him.They even set fire to his penis. Many female babysitters have sexually and physically hurt young boys. And in all cases the victims did not enjoy it. They were in pain and emotionally upset!

I believe that men can be forced into sex. Just because they are a man doesn't mean they are going to want to have sex with that particular person. Plus there is anal rape, it doesn't have to involve his penis, which what most people refer to in cases of male rape. And I don't neccisarily think just because you can get it up means he wants it either. Just like when a woman is raped, it's a natural reaction for the vagina to get wet when there is something in it (for some woman anyway)but it doesn't mean she's enjoying it.

Male rape happens and i think it is even worse then women being raped and thats not being funny. When i was 17 i was at a party in a hotel and ended up on my own there was three men who offered me a lift home so i said yes. First we must go to the room to find the keys so off we went when we got to a room we had a drink they they started to play around. To cut a story short i was forced to put on of the mans penis in my mouth, i ended up doing this thinking that once that was over i could go. We ended up in the bedroom and one was lying on the bed i was pushed over the end of the bed to perform oral on him. As i was doing what he wanted i felt some cold liquid on my back and running down between my check. Then it happened i was held down and penetrated i have never felt such pain. Two of them penetrated me until they finished the other finished in my mouth. A women being raped must be bad but at least they are made to except a penis men are not and the pain was something i will never forget. I did become bi after that as i did not really mind the oral part but any mention of anal and i am gone, just wish i had the guts to report it but then my friends would know and i would not have liked that.