Not necessarily. And conversely, her not doing it is no indication that she is not in love with the man. Some women are more comfortable with this practice than others. Sex, and sexual acts, when between the right people are physical REPRESENTATIONS of love...not determining factors for it. Many men enjoy it when women swallow because it "draws them in" to their partner. It literally makes them a part of her...creating a feeling of closeness. Do not use this to judge whether or not the woman loves the man. shaggy

That question was a joke, right? Funny

OK, I'm a woman: No. edit: Well I was answering on the "ask a stupid question..." assumption here. But if I must spell it out -as a woman I have personally swallowed cum belonging to men I have most definetely not been in love with. (Soemtimes I wonder whether I should really be sharing the finer details of my sexual habits with fellow answerbaggers, but there we go.) Like all sex acts, this is purely physical, on its own it means nothing, and has no emotional connoatations whatsoever. What supporting information could I possibly give? The mind boggles. Maybe I'll do a survey...

When I was in high school, I had a girl friend who loved to give me oral sex. It was our first experince. I would always tell her I was geting excited. After the 3rd time she would not let me "pull out" unless I came in her mouth. Boy! have I been dissapointed since. Some women will like to perform oral sex but will tell you staight out, "Don't cum in my mouth". I guess I was spoiled. I do not get it. I saw an episode of "Oprah" about sex. The women talked about a "blow job" being just that , "a job".

Actually, this is a relative question... and no pun intended. "If a woman 'lets' a man cum in her mouth, then swallows it, does that mean she really loves him"? Here are the perspectives in answer to the question: First of all, "If a woman 'lets' a man..." which is indicative that she might not otherwise willingly want to do it. To re-phrase the question then, If a woman willingly wants a man to cum in her mouth, then swallows it, does that mean she really loves him? Yes. It does... AND she likes swallowing a mans cum, too. But it does not mean that swallowing a mans cum is the specific motive of her love for him, either. If she "Lets" him cum in her mouth and she swallows his cum, but would not otherwise necessarily want to, then her specific motive would not be because she likes swallowing cum, but because she believes that doing so will show him that she loves him. The final perspective here is this: It depends on WHO is asking the question. If YOU are the woman who "lets" a man cum in your mouth, then swallows it... from YOUR perspective, you ARE showing a man an intimate sign of affection and acceptance for and toward him. Yes. That could easily be considered Love, or Loving. Yes. If YOU are a man asking the above question, then, again, it depends specifically upon the actual motive behind the act of allowing and swallowing. Therefore, from that perspective, the answer is, No. It does not mean that a woman loves "him" specifically because she swallows "his" cum. That is an intriguing question and strangely, there is more than one answer. MEN (most men) have an instinctive need to want a woman to swallow their cum. For most men it is an ultimate form of acceptance from a woman, which equates to an intimate and deep love for and toward the man. So, the answer is, overall, Yes. But even so, from a womans perspective, it does not mean the same thing at all. Swallowing a mans cum is not as emotional for a woman in the doing, as it is for the man in the giving and having her do it. I hope that this helped to answer the peculiar dynamic of your question.

I haven't seen my answer addressed in any of the others, so I'll just say it, some women like the taste, some women don't.

I sure hope it does.

yea she loves you she swallowed ur cum duh

Nope - no relationship - total non sequitur {sp}

Ok this question is kind of insulting did you notice how all the guys are like yea she loves you if she swallows. I love my boyfriend and would do anything for him and I love performing oral sex on him. I do not swallow even though I would like too because I do not want to throw up all over him, the taste, texture everything make me want to vomit.

No, it means she swalled your cum... I dont see how these 2 thigs link at all... cum swalling and love?! Nothing a woman does for a man sexually necessarily means she loves him.

No, she really loves you if she gargles - and THEN swallows. :-P LOL but serously, I'm with AR. Its way nastier tasting to spit it over the tastebuds a second time. Just get in down and be good with it! *Maybe have some water*

I met a woman at a bar last night and brought her home. She began to suck my dick but said that she would not swallow. I quickly tied her hands behind her back, taped her mouth with three long pieces of duct tape, and gave her a long hard spanking. Once she knew what was what, I pulled the tape off her mouth, forced her to her knees (with her hands still tied behind her back), and began fucking her in the mouth. I came in her mouth and ordered her to swallow. She had no choice and licked me clean.

If a woman swallows cum the guy assumes she accepts his cum in her mouth even though it tastes bad and which indicates her feelings for him are far stronger than even her reflexes. Men like to assume they are the centre point of their female's attentions and link swallowing with "Loving Acceptance". This is quite logical since we tend to swallow what we perceive as edible and acceptable. (Unfortunately its not always true). Some women may swallow for the physical completion of the act. Some may swallow just because the guy wants it(Like my wife does and I do for her!). However, some couples do include passionate swallowing of body fluids as a part of the sex act to indicate their love and acceptance to each other. It all depends upon individual Sexual preferences.

Absolutely. I don't really care for the taste semen and I find swallowing it a bit yucky, but I know my husband really gets off on it I do for him because I love him. He also does the same for me. I know he finds licking me down there a distasteful, but he does it for me because he knows it drives me wild. We do it for each other to express our love. Nothing wrong with that.

No, it might just mean that she's afraid of losing him. Many, many women that I know have done something sexual that was unpleasant or distasteful (to them) because they were afraid they'd get dumped for someone more "adventurous" if they didn't. Along though lines, though, does it follow that she loves him if she doesn't want to lose him? Again, I'd say "no." Not wanting to get dumped has more to do with not wanting to lose our self respect (or be alone) than not wanting to be without the other person. And finally -- men out there, if you lick me during sex, does that mean you love me? HA. I rest my case.

No. I have never spat and I'm not sure I've ever loved a man (although I'm having serious doubts about that now, but anyway...) I would imagine swollowing it is quicker than moving your head and spitting it out. And where are you supposed to spit it anyway? Are you supposed to keep it in your mouth and go to the bathroom? No thanks. That would kind of ruin the moment, I know I wouldn't appreciate it if he dashed off immediately afterwards.

I had a woman I got to know a little as a friend, One evening at her apartment I asked for a blowjob, she agreed and got on her knees to suck me. I came in her mouth. We were not lovers or anything. She just made me cum so it does no mean anything neccasarily.

It means she doesn't mind swallowing sperm. If you consider that love...more power to you.

the way to a mans heart is throu8gh swallinh his semen....oh wait no itsnot.

swallowing or not swallowing doesnt make any difference to how much she loves you, or even if she loves you in the first place, its just a physical thing, and its not for everyone

Yes of course if she swallows she loves you. If she spits she thinks you are a looser. I am serious hahaha.

NO! There is so much more to love then swallowing an end product of a sex act! Love is respect, trust, commitment and so much more. If you want to gage it on cum, then that's not a loving relationship.

sex is not always love, and some can't swallow, makes them sick, and wtf? you realy think doing something is going to prove love? you feel it or you don't

I think ANONYMOUS answered that question WONDERFULLY. It depends on the woman. I'm recently divorced. When my ex-wife and I were dating, yeah, she'd swallow, but only because she felt she had to. Once we married, she expected my desire for that to stop. It didn't. The girlfriend I have now will actually ASK for it. I absolutely LOVE to cum in her mouth, but after 11 years of objections, I usually feel emotionally bad about shooting my load in my girlfriend's mouth. SHE has absolutely NO objections, so I have to get used to that. But I honestly believe that ANONYMOUS has the right answer - it ALL depends on the woman. Just because a woman DOESN'T swallow your cum DOES NOT mean she doesn't love you. I once dated a girl who gave ABSOLUTELY WONDERFUL head. AND I could come in her mouth - she'd hold my sperm in her mouth and spit it out in a cup. SERIOUSLY! (My ex-wife actually spit my cum out in the same cup - though when we were dating, she'd swallow...) It really does depend on what the woman is WILLING to deal with. My current girlfriend squirts when she has an orgasm - I am NOT accustomed to that, and at first, I didn't care for it. Now, however, I actually LIKE it - and yes, I can eat her out and still have her squirt and I deal with it. I guess I love (even the second time)what it does that to me. I think that sexual satisfaction depends upon the willingness of the partner to perform on you, but also on YOUR WILLINGNESS to ACCEPT it (yeah, guys, I'm sure there are PLENTY of you out there that don't give a damn so long as you get your rocks off REGARDLESS of how it happens). But I DO care about how the woman feels afterwards. In fact, if the woman likes it, she'll be a HELL OF A LOT more likely to do it again. Women REALLY ARE WONDERFUL PEOPLE. If you're a single father who gives any kind of fuck about your kids, you'll know what I'm talking about. My girlfriend (}now fiance), is wonderful with my kids. I'm asingle parent. My soon to be ex wife gave me custody of my two boys (ages 4 and 9) while I was deployed to Iraq. My wife is their mother and has put up with a lot of shit and dealt with even more shit to provide for them, but she feels they'd be better of with me. GREAT!!! I have no problem with that. I love my kids and will take primary custody of them as long as it's understood that my ex-wife can see them whenever she wants (that's only fair and as long as both have the ability to take care them - "READ- TIME OFF WORK"). I'm a 37 year old man, in the Air Force (YES, it really IS a branch of the MILITARY), but I have my kids and can raise them the way I feel they should be raised. So, back to the original question: What about women "LETTING" you come in their mouths? My opinion is this: I ABSOLUTELY LOVE busting my nut in a woman's mouth. BUT - there are MANY more important things besides that. Please look at what EXACTLY you want in a woman, find it, and go for it. THINK about it guys - the women are looking for what they want, too. TRUE comunication means give AND take - please pay attention to the "GIVE" part - you'll get what you want ONLY if you're HONESTLY willing to give part of YOURSELF. It's ALWAYS give and take. ALWAYS. Grow up and deal with it. Hutch

It's a fine method of birth control those little buggers go right to the acid pit!

No - my friends wife swallows my cum and she only likes me.

It's nothing to do with love, I guess. It's about the body and its handsomeness. It's same on both, men's or women's side. You might even wanna drink someone's unrine if that someone is pretty but you wouldn't even wanna think about licking someone who is ugly. It's not love... It's just the sexual feeling. Sometimes sexual feeling is combined with love so don't get confused. A woman who loves you, also finds that you are attractive to her, may let you cum in her mouth... but still... It's not (only) love.

Swallowing cum and sex has nothing to do with Love - Sex is sex and Love is Love I have swallowed my friend's cum lots of times, I don't Love him

not him ,,,,it

no.... it just means she really likes cumm

Yes, if a woman loves her man, she should happily swallow his ejaculate. Not doing so would be a clear indication that she doe not love him.

no, it means she doesn't mind taking a load in her mouth.

that is sex. not love. all it means is that she is either horny, or trying to make him happy. Nothing more.

She loves the sex with you, thats all...And she likes the taste of you...