Is it "strange" or "wrong" for two adult siblings of the same gender to occasionally shower together? Why/why not?
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PrettyPirate
ANSWERS: 46
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i think its wrong and strange. come i mean SIBLINGS! i dont think u should look at your brother/sister that way.
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Its not necessarily wrong, but it just doesn't happen. I guess most adults want to shower alone.
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This would only be acceptable to me if they were twins. Two males or two females, the bond between twins is very strong and they are brought up very dependent on each other. If they were not twins, I would find it something to raise an eyebrow over. PrettyPirate, if you shower with your sister, I don't think you are weird, I know you have a boyfriend.
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Wrong? No. Strange? Possibly. Is there some specific reason why they are showering together? Or are they doing it because they want to? If there is a water shortage or time is of the essence, then I guess go ahead. Otherwise I can't see why they would.
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I'd say strange and wrong. Why, because it's icky.
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Strange, possibly. I guess it's it's not sexual, and for a reason, why not? It might be that they're running low on water, or are desperately late for something... I don't know. *Shrugs* I wouldn't with my sister, but it takes all kinds.
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If you're talking about a "just for the heck of it let's shower together". Yes I find that very strange. Why do you ask?
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I guess if they were at the gym together or on a camping trip together, it would be understandable. If you can shower with strangers in those settings, why wouldn't you shower with your sibling? But at home? The only time I will shower with ANYONE is with my husband as a bit of foreplay (or afterplay!) Showering at home is an intensely personal time and I can not fathom sharing it with a sibling. While there may be nothing "wrong" with it, I don't see anything "right" about it either. I think there are just some things you grow out of and that is one of them.
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Good question! Would it be strange if they were in a hot tub naked together, or at "the old swimming hole?" I think personally in a standard shower...it isn't something I would want to do, and I find it rather strange as well. But, under some conditions..several friends who are comfortable (non sexual) in a hot tub, at a swimming pond, or a nude beach...it wouldn't bother me. Although I wouldn't do it with a sibling of the opposite sex..that would creep me out. I don't wanna see, I don't wanna show!
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Okay, as a regular everyday thing that's weird and wrong. Or basicly any other time other then going to the gym and using the open shower room. Then that's perfectly fine. Siblings just shouldn't be doing something so intiment together and using the shower at hom ewith someone is way intiment. Now changing and one using the loo while the other's taking a shower that's okay too. Changings no big deal. As for the loo sometimes you just can't wait.
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Not anymore wrong than showering with friends at a gym, but I wouldn't feel comfortable doing it.
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the whole thing sounds strange and wrong to me. obviously there is a reason for that.
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I think age is really the deal breaker here. Under puberty, why not as long as it's not sexual. Above puberty, definately a little odd. Having feelings of attraction to your siblings isn't wrong but acting on them might be. Tough subject.
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All I can say is Ewwwwwwww !! :0 (
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All I can say is Ewwwwwwww !! :0 (
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Strange and wrong..I would think an adult would enjoy the privacy of bathing by themselves. I guess I'm modest and the thought would never enter my mind.
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off the wall and totally silly, strange and wrong.
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I agree if there were a water shortage i would but i would defanlity have on a blind fold other wise you are just asking for incest.... sick freak
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Man with Man Woman with Woman Mammal to Mammal Man with Mammal Woman with Mammal Man with Woman Sister with Sister Brother with Sister Brother and Brother All are lifestyle choices-To each their own...The New World Order at its fruition. Anything goes since the 90's get with it! Be progressive! This may just be a preference. No big deal anymore.
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It's strange, because it doesn't happen often- but I don't think it's wrong. It's just skin for f**k's sake!
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It hasn't been for the last thousand years or so, and in many parts of the world it is perfectly acceptable.
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ADULT SIBLINGS?! Yes, that is strange and yes, that is wrong.
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I shower with strangers all the time at the Gym. I don't see why adult siblings of the same gender couldn't shower together. I would think that the reason you shower together would be the deciding factor is it is strange or wrong.
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Not wrong at all, It seems strange to me that anyone would consider it wrong.
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Yes its strange. I have no idea why someone would want to do that. Funky!
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I guess it's ok aslong as it's nothing perverted...
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its wrong unless it's 2 hot twin women, ages anywhere from 18-30, then its ok as long as they wash each other...wait, did i say that?
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i definitely find it strange, but who am i to say whether or not it is wrong? that has moral implications and i'm not in a position to judge. personally, i wouldn't do it, but that doesn't neccesarily mean it is wrong.
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Im All for it i shower with my Dogs it saves water! lol i dont think thats really the smae thing tho :-(
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When in highschool my girlfriends and I always showered together but it was a time thing, nothing sexual. I said something about it around my husband when i was talking on the phone to a friend, and he thinks its really weird. I never felt strange about it, it's all stuff I've seen before right? oh wait i just reread it and saw the siblings thing... i think age ten is the cut off for that
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No not wrong. I wouldn't shower with my sister, but thats just me....
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JERRY ! JERRY ! JERRY ! JERRY !
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Well, I think most would think it strange, but it the 2 sibling are comfortable, then I don't think it's wrong. Think of locker rooms. Maybe it's like a companionship thing. My best friend and I did that til we were 12.
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That would be way too weird for me. The why? Just because it would be.
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As kids, my sister and I bathed/showered together until I was about 12. Now being 22, it might be a little odd, but she's my sister for crying out loud. She has all the same parts as me and we're blood related. I don't think it's wrong.
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nature has its own ways ..unlike animals human beings have been given a code of ethics ..not just everything in the world could be questiones why not...siblings arent meant to be in a relationship...imagine if the whole world start to marry their own siblings..the third generation would be born crazy (sci proven fact)....so dont even think of showering or being all mushy with ur siblingg..ghrrrewwww
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its an open question which can have variety of answers....so is mine...im exploring one side of it..someone elso might consider other possibilities..
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It depends on what it is going on in their minds and hearts. I know that I wouldn't shower with my siblings, but, that doesn't mean people are wrong if they shower with their siblings. It's what is in their minds and hearts that matter. If it's innocent, there is nothing wrong with it.
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Old question - new answer: I would shower with my sister if we were in a big hurry, like at a motel and have no time to waste, or if on a camping trip and hot water can't be wasted. I don't see that as a problem. What kind of mind set do some of these people have? I doubt most of these other answerers would make good personal attendants in a nursing home (don't think "old" there are many younger stroke and accident victims also)
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I dont think so! I dont see it anymore different than skinny dipping in a pool,or being drunk and playing strip poker with friends! There is not going to be any kind of sexual attraction between two adult siblings, or at least i would hope not! I have showered with many people i know!
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I think it's a little weird, but nothing too outrageous or anything.
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with a question like this, more detail is needed. depends on the circumstances as to what my answer would be, now i'm inclined to say, no, not okay.
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If there is no romantic relationship between them then it would be unhealthy in that the behavior may be manifesting certain unstated dispositions that may led to maladaptive, self-handicapping or dangerous behavior. "Wrong" is a label fit for nothing in psychology. "Abnormal" this certainly is. Whether anyone should stop doing this depends on a careful and honest consideration of the possible reasons for the behavior by both participants.
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Did you see that TV show "It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia"? ;-)
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I once had to help my wife's sister take a shower. She was staying with us after a leg injury. While trying to shower by herself she fell down, and I had to help her up. She was very embarrassed being the only one naked, so I actually took of my clothes and got in the shower to help her finish. We were both very adult about it and everything went OK. Of course we did agree never to tell my wife about it, as she probably wouldn't see it the same way we did.
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Its a sexual experience and incest. It is not acceptable
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