ANSWERS: 48
  • According to most people it isnt because of what they believe in. Most people believe that if you a beautiful you will be with someone who is also beautiful. And the likewise if you are not. I dont believe this entirely however. I believe that everyone is beautiful in a certain way. So my answer is yes.
  • Yes. I've seen that several times. Not odd at all.
  • I have dated plenty of chubby women in my day who were lookers.
  • as long as you feel something for someone there is nothing impossible...
  • Yes, it is possible... One of my friends just got married, she is overweight, has a kinda cute face and her hubby is not overweight, and hot. Another of my friends who is even more overweight gets a lot more action that I ever did and I've always been thin (besides when I had the kids).
  • Of course it is possible . A lot of men actually prefer bigger women. One of the largest and fastest growing areas on the Internet are rooms for larger women and they are full of very attractive men that just do not like slim women or are not attracted to slim women. They had a TV show about this subject in the UK last year. In the final countdown it is a persons personality and inner self that is attractive
  • Its not all about looks. If they are seen as beautiful anyway, then weight stands as no barrier.
  • Yes, but it's the exception rather than the rule. Depending on how overweight she is, it may be a case of BBW/chubby chasing. If she carries it all in the booty (like me) then it may work if he has a thing for "thick" women. It really does come down to personality and chemistry. If he doesn't have hang ups about weight and she has that attractive attitude, it is possible and even likely. I've seen it happen many a time.
  • most gorgeous guys tend to be shallow because they know they can get any chick so chances are low, unless its a gorgeous guy who doesn't know he's gorgeous or if that woman has absolutely amazing intelligence.
  • Yes, I believe that if two people like each other, anything can happen as long as that overweight woman is confident about herself, otherwise, the relationship cannot last long.
  • If a gorgeous guy does not care for the shape of an overweight woman then it is unlikely even with a beautiful face.
  • Yes it is. Sensitive people look beyond the surface and see the beauty within. In my view there is far too much emphasis on physical appearance these days and this has led to a society that values appearance more than decency and goodness.
  • Lots of guys prefer bigger women. it sounds to me as if you need to work on your self esteem. Not everyone likes we small things.
  • Yes it is possible. It is not my business what other people do.
  • i have a friend who is very overweight and she has a very tall, dark and handsome boyfriend...beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I'm thin myself...my husband is a chubby blonde..and in my opinion..the sexiest man alive!
  • Possible, yes. Probable, no.
  • dang skippy! Real love goes beyond the outter layer. Plus, people's looks change a lot through life. In HS a boy may have been a skinny little geeky kid and then they hit their 20's and they fill out and become hotties. Like I told all my little 8th grade cheerleaders who were being "rude". Don't cast your vote until you know the result!
  • Why not? I've seen it happen, and I've seen it work.
  • Yes. And in the inter side that overweight woman [may] be much more so called [gorgeous] then the guy could ever dream to be. True beauty is the quality found with in a person's heart for others......M.C.S.
  • Absolutely.
  • Not everyone is superficial...
  • Not everyone is superficial...
  • Second time on answring the same quesion but re-doing it cause i now have experience in the matter. I'm not greatly gogrgeous but I know this girl, a bit overweight, who just has the most beautiful face. She also has a mohawk to make it sound even weirder but basically what i am saying is it's definitely ok. Don't forget personality, the girl i know has a great personality.
  • There are lots of men who are "chubby chasers". They like to have a little something extra to cuddle in bed. There are certain men who get off feeding and watching women consume rich and calorie laden desserts in mass quantities. It's all about whatever "floats your boat".
  • Of course it is, if a person is carrying excess weight it doesnt make them any different from anyone else. Ive seen lots of women who are overweight with handsome husbands.. nothing wrong with that, also seen lots of attractive women with overweight husbands..its no big deal in my book. I myself need to lose weight, my husband in my opinion is very attractive.. beauty is only skin deep my friend.
  • yes it is, i in fact have a gorgeous husband lol, and i am overweight..we rock!!! lol
  • Well, I am overweight but have always been told...and believe myself that I am beautiful. My boyfriend isn't overweight...he's tall has dark curly hair and is just plain gorgeous. If a guy doesn't want a woman because she's fat then screw him find a guy who does.
  • I wonder if it matter about being a gorgeous guy? How about a gorgeous soul meeting a beautiful soul and being happy. I'm a chubby chick but have never had any issues finding men to become 'involved' with, because any person who thinks in terms of size or looks is not someone you want to be spending your precious time or energy on. When I met my husband, I knew that if I never saw him again, that would be okay because he was one of the warmest people I had ever met, real things come from real people. Stop looking for the gorgeous guy and try the sincere and kind guy - he's severly unrated but worth 1000x more than a gorgeous guy. In saying that though, my husbands a spunk and but I'm an awesome women and I deserve only the best.
  • Many Big girls are beyond gorgeous and don't know it. THEY have a problem with the way they look ,that blinds them to their own beauty. I would take a big girl over a skinny girl any day.Big girls RULE!!
  • Looks are definitely not everything and I have learned that. So it is definitely possible for a gorgeous guy to get involved with an overweight woman.
  • You need to rent the movie "Babycakes" staring Ricki Lake. And "Hairspray", also staring Ricki Lake.
  • Being heavy is not an obstacle to finding love. I am not thin and my husband is crazy about me. I know many big girls who are in great relationships.
  • Yes because not everyone is attracted to the same type of person.
  • yes but you have to know how i would tell you but i am not sher if i could
  • Yes. it happens everyday. Just look around and take notice. Some of the best people on earth are overweight. After all, looks fade after a while and isn't it whats inside that really counts? A kind heart.
  • yeah its about your personality not the way u look cara x
  • If the gorgeous guy isn't shallow (granted if he is, then to me he would not be that gorgeous!)... yes its very possible. See it all the time. Ive been told I am too skinny (granted when I was skinner than now) by some good looking guys..........in fact! Some guys like heavier women, I have found out. But truly what matters is what with in, not what you look like when it comes down to it
  • Absolutely just a matter of personal taste, and the guy could be shallow he just might like large women, though I would have to say he probably wouldn't be image Conscious as far as how it would look for him to be seen with a plus sized woman or w/e woman he chooses. Wich I personaly think is a good Big Girls need love too right?
  • of course.
  • Yes!! Not everyone judges on looks!! And also some guys like bigger women!!
  • Yes--there are gorgeous guys that see inner beauty, but they are far and few between.
  • yes it is possible for a good looking man to look past weight and love no matter the size, or the looks.
  • definately! and he would prolly think she is the hottest woman inside and out! plus looks arent a factor for many ppl...its just something attractive to look at...so what? doesnt mean they want any relation with them at all...
  • Some guys love BBWs
  • Contrary to the myth "Looks don't matter", looks have a huge part in it - people just don't want to agree because they don't want to appear cold and insensitive - especially in this day-and-age of political correctness where it's a crime to offend others. The fact is, appearances are what sell almost everything consumers buy. Madison Avenue determined long ago that the packaging sells - people are more apt to buy a name-brand item over its generic equivalent based largely on the packaging. Ever hear the term "sex sells"? This is why many young girls aspire to become models. It may not be pleasant to hear, and I apologize if you are offended. But sometimes the hardest thing you'll ever have to do is open your eyes. Your weight problem should be a wake-up call to get you to do something about it - it's unhealthy for you, anyway. People don't always like hearing the truth, but if they're ever going to be happy, they need to face up to it.
  • the heart wants what it wants. don't fight it...
  • Anything is at least possible. Google 'chubby chaser'.
  • Sure, why not? Lot's of guys like fat girls.

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