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jakers007
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well then u should talk 2 her and ask her how she really feels about u. Maybe she isnt use 2 that affection bcuz she doesnt get it at home or she is afraid of love
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How long have you been together?
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a) She is just saying that she loves you to keep you. b) She wants to love you, but she doesn't love you. c) She does love you, but has difficulty showing her feelings. d) She thinks she is showing you her love, but you both have different ideas about what love is. There are other possibilities too. I think its important to first assume that it is C. Talk to her about how you feel.
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People show it different ways. This has long been the debate between men and women... what classifies as showing love? Providing for the family by being the bread-winner? Caring for the family by taking care of the household and children? Catering to ones every whim? Simply giving a kiss or hug or compliment out of the blue? Find out what you think showing love means and what she thinks showing love means. Once you know how the other defines it... you'll pick up on it more often and be moved to do it in a way they will recognize.
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I am someone who has a very hard time showing affection, even to the point where it was hard for me to say 'I love you' to my husband. Its not that the feelings weren't there - it is just very uncomfortable for me for some reason. Just talk to her and ask her how she really feels about you, let her know that you wonder why she doesn't make the first move i.e. holding hands, hugging, etc. If she insists she loves you, but that its just hard for her to show it, take her word for it, that she loves you.
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Some people have great difficulty in showing their affection. However much they care it is an inate part of their nature. Try to lead her gently and to show her that she can really trust you with her feelings.
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There are a number of possibilities. 1-She may have a different defintion of what "Love" means, and what "Showing it" means. Perhaps you should ask her what she actually means and feels when she says it, and compare that to what your definitions of love and it's expression. 2-She may not actually love you, but simply like the ego boost of having someone love her. 3-She may be avoiding expressing her feelings because she's afraid that you don't feel quite the same way and she's afraid of scaring you off by being 'Clingy'. 4-She may not believe that what she feels for you actually is "Love", but wishes it were and is trying to hold onto you long enough to test if it will develope further. In any case, this is something that you should definitely talk to her about, because she's the only one who can tell you for sure.
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She might just be afraid of what people would say about it.
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i stand by the saying . Actions are louder than words
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Hey now, don't think anything negative out of this. Is she says she loves you she probably does, but she might just have a problem showing how she feels. Maybe because of her past or something that might of happened to her? But it really comes down too, none of us can answer that question for you that's something you'll have to talk to her about!
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