WOMEN: I have a problem with some women thinking I am maybe gay sometimes because I am very polite, well groomed, soft spoken, dress well, like art & classical music, etc. Suggestions? Is this some stereotype I haven't heard about?
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ANSWERS: 8
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There are worse things some women could think about you!
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It's not a stereotype to my knowledge. My sister is gay. I have been around many of her friends. The only obvious stereotype I have seen is the girls who openly want to be recognized as "butch." You are obviously desirable. You can't blame a girl for trying. [edit]======== Oh my, I just realized you are a male. I am sooo sorry. I have looked at your profile before, but didn't notice where is said gender male. Ignore my answer. And ignore my comment on the other answer about going out sometime. LOL
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If you are an excellent dancer and have some piercings you fit the "typical gay male mold" for me. If they think you are gay, then they will be more apt to accept a lunch or dinner invitation from you because they think they are totally safe with you cause you don't like females. You like things as they are and living alone so I suppose that it's not a terrible thing. I suppose if you want to act like the "average" guy. Skip a shower and shave here and there. Don't press your clothing or comb your hair. Manifest a bit of rudeness and start shouting and you will get all the women falling at your feet.
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I guess some women are used to the more rugged type of person - Don't change for any of them
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Gay men have a stereotype of being very well groomed, polite, cultured, and whatever else you said. However I think that there is nothing wrong with a straight man being this way, in fact I encourage it! Be confident in who you are and realize that you may be every woman's dream man
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If they're shallow enough to think you're gay just because you're being yourself, are they really worth dating anyway?
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If they don't like you to heck with them. Find a lady who appreciates those qualities in a man.
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Okay first there is nothing wrong with Classical music. I would rather listen to that than 50cent Or Marilyn Manson. Nothing wrong with being well-groomed either (although it is a stereotype).
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