Is it cheating if a married man receives a lap dance?
by 
keithold thanks all baggers
ANSWERS: 41
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Depends on what the wife thinks. I personally wouldn't call it cheating but I wouldn't be happy about it either.
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I don't know about cheating, but I find it extremely disrespectful.
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Definitely not. A typical lap dance doesn't have intercourse or oral sex. At least not any that I've ever had.
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It's an insult to marriage.
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I wouldn't call it cheating but I would call it rather tacky and disrespectful.
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Not if you're married to me.
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Not to me
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ONLY WITH YOUR PENIS OUT.
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That depends solely on the man and with the mutual agreement of his spouse. Some marriages are more open than others and it's up to the couple to decide what works for their relationship.
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Just my personal perspective: I'd be so bored by a lap dance that I can't imagine how it would threaten my marriage (but I'm weird that way...;-D...)
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Not if his wife knows that that is where he is going, trusts him, and when he returns, he gives a ... "blow-by-blow" (no pun intended) ... accounting. It may also depend on the rules of the club... nudity, client touching, etc. But, my normal definition of cheating is at least one of the two questionable parties "gets off". So, typically, a lap dance would NOT be cheating. He may be embarrassed and have to sit there for a while, but... ;-)
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NO...
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if ones's wife give him a lap dance... lucky guy :)
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No, more like sleazy than cheating.
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I hope not because the wife buys them for me sometimes and vise-versa :)
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Hmmmm. I'm thinking of my man and our relationship: I don't mind if he visits the occasional strip club without me and, of course, that may include a lap dance or two. I would start to wonder if he refused to take me with him or it became a frequent outing for him. I would not feel cheated on, but I would feel a bit disrespected. I doubt I would put up with it for very long and I would certainly voice my discontent.
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I can't answer for all the others, but I would definitely have a HUGE problem with that. It tells me that he is not very happy with his married situation and might be looking for something else and might be thinking about REALLY cheating.
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yes it is because a man who is married should stick with his wife only and no other lady should be around him or tend to sudduce him or give him a lap dance
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No, If you're going to get upset over that you wont remain married very long. Go to a strip club take my wife with you. I couldnt care less. Enjoy yourselves.
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Ah, I would say NO!
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Nope. It's purely entertainment.
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I don't think so but I'm sure most wives won't care for it :)
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Only if he doesn't pay for it.
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Do they both have their clothes on?
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Personally, I myself would not appreciate my man getting a lap dance. Clothed or not clothesd. I think strip clubs, strippers, lap dances, etc. are for those who are single.
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I dunno. Was the stripper married?
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I think of it this way: If this was some random naked woman at a party dancing naked on someones boyfriend, that would be cheating. Just cause they have the title or a "stripper" doesnt really make it any different. Its still a random naked woman dancing on ur boyfriend.
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Yes unless he is married to the girl giving the lap dance.
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No! Not unless he puts his tuna boat out to sea!
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In my opinion, it isn't cheating but it shouldn't even happen if you are a happily married man. +5
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I wouldnt say it cheating, but it definately shows there is no respect or affection from him toward his wife. His wife may wanna consider her other options even though he hasnt cheated...yet!
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A relationship is something like a contract between two individuals. What "cheating" does and does not include must be decided by the individuals involved, only.
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...you cant consider it cheating because the lap dancer is a professional. The person receiving the lap dance is her client. There isnt anything between you and she except a simple exchange of dollars and a nice tip. Its a service males pay for. And we all know that married dudes love to get the most for their money when they frequent those types of establishments....
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not, CHEATING. but wrong. you shouldent have a strippers snatch all up in your koolaid if you have a wedding band on your finger. thats just skrud up dude.. and its worse if you take it off before you enter the building. >_>
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I personally wouldn't care if my boyfriend got a lap dance from a stripper. That's her job, she doesn't want him.
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I dont think so...its all in good fun..besides, here in the US there is a no touch law...usually 3 feet distance...no harm, no foul.
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does the wife get an equal amount of disposable income to shit away. The cheating here is not sexual, it is economic. Most Lap Dances cost A PILE of Money, for the cost of 2 or 3 lap dances, you can likely get a hooker for an hour. It Is a TEASE, not a consummation. But, it is a pricey tease, alright. Better to pay your wife to lap dance, as a way to get makeup money, both parties come out ahead.
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Yeah, if I'm not invited.
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I would consider it cheating if the man chose to get a lap dance, and the wife didn't know. If the wife is fine with it, then no it's not cheating. For me, "cheating" involves deciet.
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It is only cheating if your wife isnt there with you to enjoy it too.
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its not the best subject to talk to your wife about unless your at a co-ed club and she is getting a lap dance too.. we have those in baltimore where the girls strip downstairs and the guys strip upstairs
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