ANSWERS: 22
  • i would laugh my ass off. and then tell him what a dumb loser he is, because I would never be with a man who has no honor,so he threw his marriage away for nothing.
  • If I was going to be with him, I would wonder who he would leave me for.
  • I'd thank him and then tell him to go back to her; because if he told me that I obviously didn't know he was married or I wouldn't have been with him in the first place.
  • Funny... My ex left me, for a woman that was still married herself when they hooked up. No accounting for taste I suppose? Two oppurtunistic a$$holes... Can you imagine what the kids will be like?
  • Tell him he needs to go back to his wife :)
  • I wouldn't trust him.
  • iwont acccept him.dnt trust him.he will be a lier.
  • I would tell him to go back to his wife, because I won't be interested in any man who jumps ship the moment he thinks he find somebody better. Where is the integrity in that? Nor would I want to be the homewrecker.
  • When you marrying me? What age you gonna leave me for a younger model? Then work out how long u got with him! If hes rich marry him and get half of everything If not leave the scum bag with nothing! LOL x x x
  • After I smacked him then I would say good for you , now get out of here and dont let the door hit ya on the way out Because there is no way you would be able to trust him , you would be thinking all the time , is he going to leave me for someone else ? that is not a picture of happiness eh?
  • I would ask him why he did such a crazy thing and then tell him that at least his wife now has a chance to find an honourable man to be with, then I would walk away.
  • I would tell him to just go away. Why would I want someone who would be disloyal?
  • wHEN i WAS A YOUNG WOMAN AND A GUY START SEEING ME AND START REALLY LIKING ME & i LIKED HIM BUT HE CONFESSED HE WAS MARRIED AND THEN HE WAS OUT WITH ME AT ONCE. I COULD NEVER DO TO ANY MAN'S WIFE OR THEIR KIDS WHAT I WOULDN'T DONE TO ME IF I WERE SOMEONE'S WIFE. BESIDES THAT IF YOU BELIEVE IN GOD IT IS A DEADLY SIN.
  • Once a cheater, always a cheater. My ex husband left me with a girl with no teeth. Now, he is stuck with her. I don't put up with that shit. About a year ago he wanted me back.......lol. I told him to go fuck your toothless bitch you left me for.
  • Scared.
  • I'm leery about answering this question. I looked over your profile and decided, well...what the heck... My marriage has never really been what you would describe as "great", but we've managed somehow to keep it going for 20 years. A few years ago, we hit a particularly rocky patch and became accustomed to seldom speaking to each other. During this time, I found and reconnected with a young woman I've known since I was a kid. I've always been madly in love with her, but she disappeared one day and I always wondered what happened to her. Anyway, I was overjoyed to find her and we developed a "long distance" relationship. To make a long story short, it got to the point where I was encouraged to make a decision. Do I leave my wife for the woman I've always loved and who genuinely still seems to love me, or do I stay put and forever lose my "one true love"? After a few tears and a great deal of agony, I decided to stay put. Three reasons: 1. I couldn't imagine myself starting a new career in a strange environment just 15 years shy of retirement. 2. This woman was very much an independent spirit. She could not and would not offer even the slightest guarantee that she'd feel the same way tomorrow as she did when we spoke. And RIGHTFULLY SO, since there are NEVER any guarantees where relationships are concerned. She often complained that I was too comfortable living a mediocre life. That I'd never really enjoy life until I took a few chances and pursued whatever I wanted in life. A lot of what she said made sense to me, but if I accepted this I had to face the very real possibility of being left high and dry at any time. I've been through that before; I didn't look forward to going through that again. Which brings me to my third and most important reason for not leaving. 3. I couldn't really justify it. Despite the difficulties I was having with my marriage at the time, how could I just pick up and leave someone I've been committed to for 15 years? How do I explain to the children why their father suddenly abandons the family, leaving them to fend for themselves? So, in answer to your question, this woman would have been delighted to have me leave my wife for her. She would have felt it was the greatest demonstration of love for her. It just wasn't a decision I could ultimately live with.
  • I would imagine that I would have been the 'other woman' first, which I would never be. If he had fallen in love with me wihout any cheating and left his wife, I would tell him he would have to live on his own and be strong on his own for some time first. I would not dive into anything like that. Just seems wrong.
  • I'm not a lady. But I would hurt the bastard. He's not a man. He's more like one of those mice in experiments that go through a maze and push a button to get their dopamine centers stimulated. Kill the rodent!
  • and then when he get's his fancy on when will he leave me.... Wrong move..
  • Sorry people but I'll have to answer this differently. However you feel is not the point to me, what were you doing playing around with a married man in the first place, is what bothers me more.
  • Repulsed! Cos, one day, he'll do same to me! Out with him!
  • If someone would tell me that, he would have already lied to me because I do not date someone who is already in a relationship. (My answer is hypothetical, I don't date at all as I am in a relationship) It's very much against what I believe in. I come from a family that was f*cked up big time by my dad who had a secret relationship for years with an other woman. I never want to be the other woman, and share a responsibility of causing so much pain. If someone has a problem in his relationship, he has to deal with that first. So to answer your question, the guy is out within the sec!

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