That is really up to you and your comfort level. It is not my style but I know a few couples that are into the swinging thing and they seem to enjoy it with willing partners.

what harm is flirting going to do? Does it interest you to be with another man? Is it possible the new man could teach you something your husband does not know how to do and hence something new for you and you husband.

you girl are one of the lucky ones.(me too) while other blokes want you to shag another girl for their viewing plesure, yours likes other men thinking your hot. if you do go with another man, give your hubbies ego a good stroke after, ie: he was so good but not as good as you.ect. of course use protection so no narstys come home. the marrige bed is sacred, the hotel bed is another story.

Would you consider a MFM threesome, maybe that would satisfy his curiosity

Well if you enjoy flirting with other men go ahead and flirt, just make sure you don't get in over your head! I had a friend who liked to watch his wife with other people and they ended up not married to each other. This can be a double edged sword!

Yeah i can see where he is coming from as most guys love to see their g/f enjoying themselves sexually But only do this if you are both 100% honest with each other on how you feel, you are both not the jealous type and you both have a strong emotional connection with each other

I have had the same situation but so far I didn't make serious answer to my hubby's persistent. He loves me very much. He's kind and understanding. I concluded that our married is well and getting more stronger. Late last year we're planning to make it real. However, I'm hesitant to take the advantage of being craze on the idea no matter how he persuaded me to go on as long as I will go home and tell him all details what happened. I have only one sex partner, him only that's why I'm confused to go for his fantasy. We've been 8 years married and still sexually happy with him. We both attended late night parties but I found myself the night stars in some occasion my hubby is old, slow drinker and not a good dancer. We had both experimented and made some grerat sex as we arrived home because my hubby can't wait to hear the details on how horny I felt when guys embraced me closely with their hands and eager body. However, Until now I'm hesitant and afraid to accept his offer no matter how he persuaded me because I'm afraid to lose control to seek more fun if this fantasy would make reality. But in due time,I will grab the oppurtunity if my hubby would give me the right time and proved to me that our relationship will never been changed and put to vain, I'm craze can't wait go further to experience how wonderful sex would be with other guy. SO go on then make your honest reaction so I would know too?

Its a free pass to be able to have sex with any body you want, so go for it.

its your call honey, if the marrage is solid and you want to get fucked, go for it. but it is your call

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Just go with it and explore. I like to see my wife giving other guys a hardon. I sugest you take it slow and see where it leads. You could start at a club dancing, each time letting the guy go further, first just dancing, then closer, his hands on your body, then lowering them on your ass. you could then start rubbing him or guide his hand between your legs. Toilets offer perfect opportunies for sucking him, if your husband persists you can go furter. Good luck and keep us posted please

You are at the top of a slippery slope. I know several couples that tried this and it turned into disaster. The problem is that 1) what seems fun in fantasy is a very different thing in reality 2) you may find the right guy comes along and you are suddenly attracted to him wanting to flirt more. I thought it would be fun to watch my wife kiss a guy, but I was unprepared for the intimacy part of it. She stroked his hair and they whispered something I'll never know in each other's ears. I suddenly got very jealous and it wasn't fun anymore. They later started texting each other and so I got real suspicious and stopped this game before it went too far. If he's persistent and convinces you it would not get out of hand or cause problems, then try it when you take an out of town trip - flirting with a guy in the hotel bar or at a club. This guy will be out of state and gone when you get home - no real risk of developing a relationship. It can be fun and very exciting, but you're really rolling the dice against your relationship. Is it worth getting into anything that might have a negative effect on the relationship? Focus instead on positive influences is my suggestion.