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  • Not a chance. We left each other for a reason and there is no way we are getting back.
  • Yes and no. I miss the trust and regard I had for her and being so involved in another's life. She betrayed our trust and changed her mind about our marriage. She did what was best for her. That was her choice. I cannot trust her again and will not try... I did once and couldn't manage it. Subsequent to this relationship, I have had a hard time trusting my own perceptions of love and having confidence in others love of me. It is called emotional scaring. I still try, but it is draining and quite frustrating. I am not a young guy and this was not my first time round the block. It took a lot to muster up trust with her (my problem) and I am not sure if I will be able to again. Interestingly, I know this is not impossible as it is not carved in stone and is only an attitude or position that I have (sub-consciously) choosen. I do have a choice in how I feel and can change it... somehow... :>
  • Not at all, I have the love of my life so the past is history...
  • I do miss my first girlfriend terribly, but I would not take her back, even if I wasn't currently betrothed. As they say, "we broke up for a reason, and for that same reason we shall remain broken up."
  • Yeah, sure, I miss my ex-wife all the time, but no I wouldn't take her back unless I actually happened to be single for a change and alot of time had passed and she changed some things about herself as a person. There's a great person in her underneath it all....for various reasons I just can't deal with her right now.
  • You can miss anyone at the right time. I would not take them back, what is done is done.
  • No. She was evil. And no, I won't take her back.
  • Yes i miss my ex, only broke up few months ago and was a long relationship. I would take him back sooo fast but he is not willing right now. I miss him because of that connection and closeness with someone is no longer there x
  • I'm happy in my relationship, but I admit once in a while. I miss Adele's big, round, brown butt.
  • He!! no and I would never consider taking her back, and if I did than someone please please shoot me in the head.
  • Yes i miss her with all my heart, i loved her truely. We broke up because she is leaving for two years to do missionary work in a third would country. I would do anything to be with her. It hurts a lot, im having to see a counselor, it feels like i lost my best friend. Yes laugh if u want.
    • JenthePen
      I think this is lovely you feel this way. It is really hard but I always think that nothing is impossible in life. Even if some years have passed. Never just give up on a good thing.
  • I definately miss an ex and if the circumstances were right I would absolutely take him back. He was truly my best friend and he could make me laugh at myself when I was too serious. He moved away and things got complicated.
  • no. I've only gone back to one boyfriend...a few times...we're still together
  • I have been very lucky in that all of my past relationships were ended on a peaceful note and i remain close friends with them to this day. I dont like to have some bitterness there that just goes on and on. I think a lot of that is rooted in people feeling like they made themselves vulnerable by completely opening up and commiting, which is a gift that you dont give to just anybody. So it turns into "how can you do this to me after i shared so much of myself with you?" You feel cheated. You feel like you let yourself get fooled and so it is a issue of pride. I think it's best to just end the relationshop before things start to get really nasty. Its not good to hold those feelings of resentment. This person has to have some redeeming qualities or you would have never gone out with them in the first place. How come we can overlook faults in our friends, but not in our ex's? Unless they have done something really horrible, just take it back to the friend stage. I see all my ex's as friends and i admire a lot about them and enjoy their company and having them help me in my life. Sometimes they give me advice about my present relationships. Who better to help you with that? Sometimes I think about the good times we had and i miss those moments, but i recognize the fact that we split up for a good reason(s) and it was time to move on. But if you work out whatever problems you had in the relationship on your own and there is still that chemistry there, anything is possible.
  • i care about him, but i wont take him back for sure. it's time to move on!
  • No and no.
  • no and god no
  • No No No to my exwife she went from angel to superbitch in 4 years.(I take part of the blame, not all) but my true love I would take back in a second
  • My "ex" is an "ex" for a DAMN good reason(s)! I not only DON'T want them back. . . . . .but I feel DAMNED SORRY for ANY woman who got them after me!
  • i only hav one ex n i do miss her a bit coz she loved me the whole me and ive never experienced that in that way before but would i take her bk you know wat i dont know lol
  • yeah my ex was the stereotype perfect girl in my eyes. but she is in Germany and i am in iraq for another deployment so my chances are slim.
  • yes, the feelings were totally mutual, we adored one another. It was bliss. Never felt that way with a man ever. Would I take him back. Not sure. Maybe yes, maybe no.
  • Yes because they were a huge part of my life, and its like starting a new beginning and its scary, i miss the comfort and love and my best friend. But no would not take them back, you break up for a reason, and it will never be like it was before in my opinion.
  • Yes I miss my old boyfriend. He dumped me but I keep wishing he'd take me back.

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