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No I can handle most people.
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I remove myself immediately and do not go back for more. My mantra is, healthy boundaries.
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Yes, aren't most people put off by moodiness.
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No; It's just part of who they are.
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lol, no, but great question, I'm a bubbly kind of gal, i always try to smile, even when i'm upset (yes, fake i know) so i just smile, laugh, and joke around until they are incredibly creeped out, or extremely comfortable around me, lol
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Nah because I have an even badder temper.LOL
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I will avoid them like the plague. I hate drama and confrontation.
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Yes. I try very hard to be a calm person in a professional environment. A couple of coworkers are always stomping around and cussing, even throwing things around. I just shake my head and stand clear.
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Yes, because I know what they can be capable of. I have a very bad temper which has taken YEARS and great effort on my part to learn how to control..It takes an awful lot now to make me lose my temper.
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I already have a bad temper so I would seek someone who can civilize the Neanderthal in me and make me less volatile. Bad tempers make me uncomfortable so I wouldn't want to be around someone else who has a bad temper.
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That happened tonight a few hours ago. Four sets of neighbors came over and we were just sitting on our porch having a beer and having a good time until one of the neighbors a few doors up starts yelling at his kids to get their stuff picked up off the lawn. He never lays a hand on them but he yells a lot and he scares me.
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Very much so. I grew up with a father who had an explosive temper, no violence but his temper was scary enough. Sometimes I feel almost physically sick around that much anger.
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I've been banned from playing go-fish...........for life....
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Yes, I have throughout my life tried to stay in control of my emotions and not let bad situations get out of control because of me losing control....so when someone else loses it I feel disappointed with them and nervous because of the unpredictability of the situation, at this point I act really brave and bluff it out!.
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Yes, I have seen a person who was so upset that he looks like a crazy dillusional person. He say things that are not real and do things that are irrational. Then the next day, he seems so nice and apologetic as if he what he did was not so bad at all (wierd). I think the bad temper comes from being a control freak or having a high blood pressure.
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When I found out they had a bad temper I wouldn't be around anymore. Too many nice people in this world rather than trying to change someone like that.
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Oh yes .... difficult for me to be around such a person :-) !
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Well, sorta. I also think that venting could be a good thing.
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How can you sit there and be calm when you never know whats going to start the temper off, I would hate that.
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Depends on how big they are. =P
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Yes, Its an awful feeling to be around a person that could errupt over anything. I hate it and I've hated it.
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very much so.. the first thing I want to do is get away from them.
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I wouldn't say "uncomfortable". I'm moreso intolerabe of their behavior and because of it choose to stray away from them.
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yes.I tell them they are an asshole and not to ruin my night.
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No not ot at all.
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Sometimes I am. My girlfriend has a short fuse. I've learned to watch what I say.
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I don't think anybody is comfortable with somebody with a bad tempter.
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Most of the time when i'm around someone like that i cant help but laugh, but that seems to make them more mad. So they do make me uncomfortable.
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Yep ...very uncomfortable :-) !
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Not reeeeally.
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No because I can get just as ill as they can.
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yes I don't like to have to tip toe around their temperment
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yes. i grew up in an abusive household, i refuse to walk on egg shells because someone is having a bad day and choses to take it out on others.
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I am. I figure you never know when that person is going to blow. They would be like a ticking time bomb if you ask me. It could end up dangerous in the long run. I would be careful.
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those people need to go to hell. i cant stand bad temper. its really uncomfortable.
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I wouldn't be comfortable cuz I myself would panic to be with that person. For example, If I do not do whatever that person told me to, I'd probably get beaten.
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Totally uncomfortable, especially if I know them on a personal level. I hate walking on eggshells and you have to with someone who can't control their temper. I prefer to avoid people who lack self-control. They totally scare me.
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wow you just discibed my Dad...and yes I prever to avoid him when hes on his rampage...which is turning into an everyday thing blah...
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I think nobody will. But I'm bad tempered myself. I did try to control but it's not easy to go against the natural force. However, I'll be learning to as I know it's going to hurt people around me and I always regret for any flame that vault out beyond my conscious.
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I fly off the handle at the dumbest shit like dropping a pen but if a really serious situation came up it doesn't affect me. I get pissed (at the little stuff) for a couple of seconds and when someone sees me I get very embarrassed for acting like a fool.
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Yes...you have to walk on eggshells!
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Yes - I hate confrontation, or even the prospect of it. Also, when somebody is in a bad temper, my usual approach (logic, rationality) doesn't work because they're already in an irrational state.
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Very much so. It makes me nervous.
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someone who is known to have a bad temper has little control over their emotions. to me, i'd view them as weak. and my respect for them would be weak also.
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yea i am. i always feel like i'm walking on eggshells with them. it doesnt help much that i always want everyone's approval though lol
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Probably. Try not to stay around ill tempered people.
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Yes and hes sitting right next to me!!! grrrrrr
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Personally, it depends on the person. I find it uncomfortable if I do not know the person..like a neighbour or stranger. My bf has a bit of temper, I just let him rant and rave, and then carry on. I found if he thinks it gets him some where he continues, but when he sees I am not interested he stops. Like a child having a tantrum.
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no way lol how can u stay with some1 that will totally flip thier wig if u do some ting 2 make dem angry
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Yes and especially if they have violent outbursts.
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yes definately,i cant stamd people like that as im not like it myself so i try and stay clear of that sort of thing
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No I hate it I get really nervous and start panicking :)
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How can you NOT be. The "walking on eggshells" thing gets old.
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My last relationship was with a woman with a bad temper and i found the need to tip toe around her exhausting.
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yes very as i was in a abusive relationship with 2 men both for 3 years i hate it when men argue around me
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Yes ... I teach peaceful self controls first & foremost, along with health & spirituality as things of primary importance ... the self defense and combat arts, I only teach for use as a last resort.
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Extremely. It does not feel good when you have to walk on eggshells around someone.
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yes, I really am. The word "bad temper" never leads any place good. I love you, be good to you.
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No. It would be like walking on eggshells.
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Yes, I am so uncomfortable with a person who has a bad temper that I refuse to be anywhere near them. I would not associate with them.
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I'm very uncomfortable with people who have bad tempers. In general, I can't stand loud, outspoken, rude, obnoxious people. I think a bad temper goes right along with that. I feel uncomfortable around people when they are ranting and raving or going into some outburst. It's almost scary in a way. Not only does acting this way make a person look ignorant most of the time, it makes people around them feel uncomfortable to right out scared. Losing your cool is not cool!
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uM YEAH cuz you really never know whats going to happen. You don't know wat to say or what to do to keep them from gettin mad. They just get mad for nuthin!
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No, im a pretty confrontational person myself, so Im always up for a fight... if I was uncomfortable with these people then I would always be uncomfortable since I, myself have a bad temper... I am a product of my own environment sadly
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yeah. it's unnerving and feels like i'm walking on eggshells and i don't like doing that. plus, it kind of puts me in a bad mood too.
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yes because i also have a bad temper you just have to find someone who can control their anger
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Yeah, because I would feel like I was walking on eggshells. I used to have a friend with a terrible temper, and I often kept my mouth shut and my opinion to myself because she would snap like freaky scary.
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Only when they are drinking.
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No ~ it doesn't faze me one way or the other :)
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No, my b/f does and I stand up to him -- of course you know who wins the argument here :)
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I avoid people with a bad temper.....like the plague. Will not listen to it or experience it in any way. Life is too short to spend one minute with anyone who has so little regard for themselves and others.
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not really. most of my friends have really bad tempers, and they're all guys. for most people that would be scary because they are big guys that can kick some serious ass. but i don't feel uncomfortable because i know i can calm them down. so if someone i don't know has a bad temper, i know how not to piss them off.
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yes. well for me, anyways. it would be uncomfortable. i would hope that he would love me enough not to hurt me, but i know that even if he doesn't mean to, there are times when he'll just be too angry to think & i may just get hurt anyways.
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I have a pretty bad temper myself but I loathe people that shout. It is just not something I do or am used to. If I am very angry I get very quiet and clipped in speech .That is when people avoid me. Luckily I have learned to control my temper and I do dislike being in the company of people that have a bad temper when alcohol is involved.
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No problem! as long as he or she leaves me my space.
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Yes I am because my temper is above everyone outside of my family temper once I get angry I rarely worry about someone else anger
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Yes I would be very uncomfartable being with somebody who has a bad temper, because I hate confrontation.
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Very uncomfortable. Yelling really scares me, and if you add dramatic body language I become very upset.
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Yes very uncomfortable. I've not been around yelling or acts of agression and when I have seen it I become fearful.
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no...i have a temper myself so being with someone with a temper doesn't matter...we just might be fighting more often...
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Yes sometimes. People that are naturally aggressive give off bad vibes. As soon as I meet someone like that I can usually tell just by their body language that they could snap at any moment over anything and that's what worries me.
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yeah it makes me afraid that at any moment they could turn on you, and that would not be fun
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Nay, I just tell them to cut it out- no ones watching.
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Yes--I grew up with a father who had a bad temper. I lived in an explosive atmosphere during my childhood and was abused in every respect.
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When it is someone I don't know, yes I am, especially in the case of customers.
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Especially if it's a boss, never knowing what is going to set them off. My stepfather is that way, but it's usually harmless non-violent (though uncomfortable to be around) temper tantrums.
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