ANSWERS: 26
  • The minute I found out he had a "weight limit" I would think he was a total asshole, or a rollercoaster....WTF. Crush Over...the end....
  • I would walk away. I dont need to be around people who are that full of themselves. So. Yeah. What a jerk. Lol. ~+~
  • If it's only a crush, I would just walk away. I don't need people who think that weight is such a big deal.
  • I would laugh my big ole butt off right in their face and say. "Oh that's okay you just exceeded my idiot tolerance!" Buh bye!
  • "Dear Crush: Eat sh*t and die. Love, Me." Tell this person to piss off. That's a disgustingly shallow and obnoxious thing to say. Just HAVING a 'date weight limit' at ALL is bad enough; saying it is even worse, saying it without even seeing you makes this person the Grand Emperor of Jackass, as far as I'm concerned. Find someone who will appreciate how kickin' you are, not someone who will niggle about a few pounds here and there. "Date weight limit." Good gods, what is this world coming to?
  • I would leave. They will never be satisfied. Love is not about weight; it's about caring for each other & being there/together:)
  • Walk away. I have no interest in involving myself with someone who is that superficial.
  • Crushes are something that happen to me over time as I get to know people. By the time I got a crush on someone, I imagine I would know enough about their peronality to know that they wouldn't say something like that. However, if they did say that, I would try to better understand their motivation- because anyone I get a crush on would have mental capacity enough to not just say such a shallow statement, but be able to back it up with a reason.
  • See ya! I would tell him, in no uncertain terms, where he could stick it.
  • walk away. anybody who actually follows the profile for their ideal look before they follow the profile for their ideal heart is just not worth my time and yea i'm sure i'd cry and curse him for a good while, but i'd be done with it once i'm done
  • I would ask them why they are telling me this? in an attempt to hurt my feelings? and then i would say well your intelligence is way lower than most people I would consider dating but im willing to lower my standards for you. ASSHOLE. If hes just a crush, let him go. You don't need someone who will lower your self-confidence, your boyfriend/girlfriend is supposed to LIFT you not bring you down.
  • Hahaha. Very FORKING funny.
  • "date weight limit"? If someone is using a term like that (and this is the first time I've ever seen this phrase), they are not worth being with.
  • Run don't walk away... People that would have a preset thing like that are not worth your time. You know that looks are more important than what is on the inside. If you question rather you should stay means you are already there and something has changed... What happens in 5,7 or 10 years if you stay now and happen to change a little. MOST PEOPLE do age. Will it be that you need to have cosmetic surgery? Leave now it they really meant the date/weight limit. Hopefully they did not!
  • You would want to continue seeing someone who has a 'weight limit" on relationships...what happens when the 'age limit' comes into play next year...get out/ find somebody worthwhile, --not someone who has determined you should be..you sound like a nice person --you won't be alone for long:)...AND this person has all the hallmarks of being a controller in a psychologically abusive relationship (just a feeling I get).
  • Date weight limit? And why would anyone even consider still liking an asshole like that?
  • Wow...hold the phone. I think i wouldn't continue that relationship because that is incredibly rude no matter how much i weighed, whether it was 120 or 220
  • Why NOT? What kind of question is that? Why would anyone consider a relationship with someone with a date weight limit?
  • I would give them my box of unfinished twinkies and ask them to wait until I get my intelligence meter.
  • I would crush them with my past date weight.
  • First off, my answer would be the same even if I wasn't a little sensetive about my being overweight. Really, the guy doesn't deserve my attention. I mean sure, I wouldn't want to be with someone who complained about their weight yet did nothing to change it, but it shouldn't be about weight, it should be about the person... Just in the way that if I found a person that I liked, I wouldn't care about the weight, so too should this crush not care about mine.
  • I was just talking to a guy about wieght issue, he said that if I dated a guy who is fat I am lowering my standards,....he was saying that big people are dissgusting and I said that is the most rude, stupid, ignorant thing to say and off course I had much more to say but I don't have enough room to share. My thing is outer beauty doesn't last and even though its common to find, how can you feel you got a diamond in the ruff if you got something that is easy to find and everyone has (even GOD had enough taste in mankind to make each and everyone of us different), but to cut your luck even shorter by being so freaking ignorant and shallow....wow!! I would not want to be caught with someone like that by my side, and even if I lose the weight(off course because I wanted to) I would walk by him like he never excisted...and if he tried to talk to me, I would say if you didn't like me then you sure has hell shouldn't want me know, cuase I am still the same person..
  • I was just talking to a guy about wieght issue, he said that if I dated a guy who is fat I am lowering my standards,....he was saying that big people are dissgusting and I said that is the most rude, stupid, ignorant thing to say and off course I had much more to say but I don't have enough room to share. My thing is outer beauty doesn't last and even though its common to find, how can you feel you got a diamond in the ruff if you got something that is easy to find and everyone has (even GOD had enough taste in mankind to make each and everyone of us different), but to cut your luck even shorter by being so freaking ignorant and shallow....wow!! I would not want to be caught with someone like that by my side, and even if I lose the weight(off course because I wanted to) I would walk by him like he never excisted...and if he tried to talk to me, I would say if you didn't like me then you sure has hell shouldn't want me know, cuase I am still the same person..
  • I was just talking to a guy about wieght issue, he said that if I dated a guy who is fat I am lowering my standards,....he was saying that big people are dissgusting and I said that is the most rude, stupid, ignorant thing to say and off course I had much more to say but I don't have enough room to share. My thing is outer beauty doesn't last and even though its common to find, how can you feel you got a diamond in the ruff if you got something that is easy to find and everyone has (even GOD had enough taste in mankind to make each and everyone of us different), but to cut your luck even shorter by being so freaking ignorant and shallow....wow!! I would not want to be caught with someone like that by my side, and even if I lose the weight(off course because I wanted to) I would walk by him like he never excisted...and if he tried to talk to me, I would say if you didn't like me then you sure has hell shouldn't want me know, cuase I am still the same person.. (((( I AM SORRY IF THIS WAS POSTED 2 MANY TIMES, IT WASN'T GOING THROUGH))))
  • Turn both cheeks and walk away. If I had weight to lose, I'd go lose the weight for MYSELF, for my health and personal happiness. Then, when he came crawling back, I'd state my own relationship requirements of compassion, intelligence and humor, along with a few ridiculous physical 'limits' so that he'd realize he couldn't possibly measure up. Natural consequences are the best teachers of lessons.
  • I'd say "Well sweet cheeks I'm fat you're ugly inside and out...i can loose weight and what can you do?" and then I'd walk away and while walking away I'd shake my beautyful female thick curves...WORK IT BABY ;-) LoL Dont let anybody bring you down like that. He's not worth the headache honey. You'll find sb who loves and adores every ounce and inch of your body and deserves you!

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