ANSWERS: 100
  • Are there any good men out their what? Out their doors? Out their windows? Out their cars? If you mean out *there*, then yes, there are.
  • You know, i used to think not. but then I read Twilight by Stephanie Meyers and I knew that there ARE good guys out there! It just may take some time to find one because they get snatched up fast, hehe!
  • Yes,I married their prototype.
  • HELLO :)
  • They are out there, they are just really hard to find.
  • yes, I know a few.
  • Yes there is somewhere out there, I know some ,but they are married.
  • There are men who respect women, yes.
  • Many.. but none worth waiting for ;)
  • Why the wait? You have a heck of a monopoly game going?
  • Answer is yes.... and don't fool yourself. Men feel the same way about women, like there's little hope of finding a decent, faithful one.
  • Yes :)
  • Yes, I know 3 of them.
  • Not to toot my own horn, but yes, I know for a fact that there are good guys worth waiting for. :)
  • Sure. And you'll find him when you least expect it.
  • I think so, yeah.
  • god i hope there are some good men left.but why wait til you find him.have some fun in the meantime
  • Sure.What are your other options?
  • No I'm probably the only one left and I'm virtually taken at this point.
  • sometimes the one right for you is actually right in front of you, happens alot and you just dont realize it. i feel the same way when it comes to women. i sometimes wonder but i know she's out there.
  • Take your pick, Sweety!!!!
  • No.. we're all taken or gay. :-)
  • Are U Prepared for one??? See how close U come with this Doctrine??? Enjoy, John DOCTRINE OF RIGHT MAN AND RIGHT WOMAN A. The right woman is the oldest and one of many grace gifts to man. 1. There are three prominent grace gifts from Christ to man delineated in Scripture, and these are the order in which they occur in the human race: a. Right woman, He built her, Prov 18:22, 19:13-14. b. Salvation, He did it. c. Doctrine, He thought it, 1 Cor 2:16. 2. In all of human history, right woman is the oldest human gift, for Christ brought the woman to the man, Gen 2:18. 3. The fall of man did not change their relationship. B. Attacks on the gift of right man/right woman. 1. Reversionism, especially phallic reversionism is an attack on the concept of right man/right woman. 2. Life in the cosmic system is an attack on right man/right woman. 3. All mental attitude sins attack right man/right woman, SOS 8:6, 8; Prov 27:4, 6:34. 4. Negative volition to doctrine is an attack on right man/right woman, Jer 15:8-9, 15-21, 16:1-2, 17:9-11, 12:7-9. Negative volition to doctrine destroys right man/right woman relationship. 5. Scripture: Prov 5, 6:20-32; 1 Cor 11:3-16; Jer 31:22; Eccel 7:26-29. 6. No disaster, pressure, or unfaithful act, can destroy personal love between a right man and a right woman. 7. The greatest attack on right man/right woman comes from the soul: scar tissue of the soul, emotional revolt of the soul, and reversionism. These attacks are accompanied by fornication and promiscuity. C. Perversions of Right Man/Right Woman. 1. Auto-erotism, masturbation, or self-response to self. 2. Homosexuality or lesbianism, Lev 18:22; Rom 1:26-27. 3. Bestiality, Lev 18:23. 4. Fornication, Ex 20:14; Prov 5:20, 6:32. D. Analogies of Right Man/Right Woman. 1. Right man/right woman is used to teach many types of doctrine since it is one of the most common relationships to the human race. 2. The Lord and Israel, Jer 2, 3, 13; Ezek 16, 23. 3. The Lord and the Church, Eph 5:26-33. 4. Operation Z, James 1:19-22. 5. Christ, the shepherd and bishop of the believer's soul, 1 Pet 2:25 cf 1 Pet 3:1. 6. The mature believer is the glory of God, 1 Cor 11:7. E. Right Man/Right Woman Related to the Laws of Divine Establishment. 1. Monogamy is designed to remind the human race that there is only one right man for one right woman and visa versa, 1 Cor 7:2-4. 2. Under these laws marriage becomes the second divine institution. 3. Marriage is still the protection of romantic love, Heb 13:4; 1 Cor 7:9; 1 Tim 5:14; Rom 7:2-3; Gen 2:24-25; Eph 5:22, 25, 28, 31, 33. 4. Marriage forms the basis for stability in society, and rejects the theory and practice of anarchy, promiscuity, and communal living. 5. Marriage is also protected by the third divine institution, family, where parents have the responsibility of training their children. 6. The husband is the authority in the marriage, Eph 5:22. 7. God protects the woman from tyranny by the training of the little boy by his mother. His mother teaches the man respect for womanhood, and keeps him from becoming an animal. Prov 31:1-2. 8. Once the couple is married, the doctrine of right man/right woman no longer applies. Now it is a matter of honor, integrity, and impersonal love which must provide the power for the marriage to work. F. The Man and Woman's Relationship at the Fall. 1. After the Fall, God confirms the fact that the man's authority is not changed, even though he responded to the woman, Eph 3:16b, 5:22. 2. In Gen 3:6 we see the reversal of the roles of the man and woman in the Fall. 3. Until the Fall, sex had been a total pleasure and an experience of perfect happiness. After the Fall, a secondary role is added: it is the means of perpetuating the human race. Without children they had only themselves to consider. But with children a second authority develops of parents over children, and this develops problems and complications in the right man/right woman relationship. 4. Therefore, the woman bears the children, Gen 3:15, and through her comes Jesus Christ, Gen 3:16. G. The Recognition of Right Man/Right Woman. 1. Personal love is recognized by both parties. 2. Right man can always tell the mood of his right woman by her voice. The right man's soul will have a total understanding of the right woman's soul, emotions, moods, etc. 3. The right woman may love or hate her right man, but she cannot stop thinking about him. Right man/right woman can never be just friends. 4. You won't be adjusted to people until you find right man/right woman. 5. Every time right man is with right woman, it is a blessing to him. 6. The man cannot work to get his right woman; it is a grace gift from God. God always brings the right woman to the right man. Grace takes up the slack before you find right woman. Doctrine is your right woman until God leads her to you. You don't need to date others while waiting. 7. If a woman doesn't recognize God's authority, she will never recognize her right man's authority. Long hair on a woman is a sign of the right man's authority over her. Wearing long hair is a sign that a woman is waiting for her right man. 8. Your right woman will not react to you. Bitchiness in a woman is an indication of the wrong woman. 9. A wrong woman is always dressing to show off what she has physically. 10. With the right woman there is a period of waiting, resisting temptation, and a period of doubt before God brings the right woman to the right man. H. Right Man/Right Woman and the Soul Climax, 1 Cor 7:8-9. 1. When you find your right woman, physical compatibility is no problem; the difficulty is recognition in the soul. a. Right man/right woman are not ashamed or disappointed in each other physically. The right woman fits the right man perfectly in sex. The right woman's body is the most magnificent thing to the right man. b. You cannot make a woman your right woman by having sex with her. c. Right woman is a storm of passion when the right man makes love to her. When the right man makes love to his right woman, he satisfies her soul as well as her body. This gives her insatiability. The right man sees his right woman as personifying symmetry and beauty. d. Jesus Christ is the giver of sex as the total concept of happiness with one's right woman. e. Before your right woman comes along, you must have an affair with Bible doctrine by taking in doctrine every day until it becomes the love of your life. 2. When the right woman comes along, both will have a soul climax. a. Sexual burning is not a soul climax. This is an indication of wrong woman. Fornication excludes the soul, and therefore always produces wrong man/wrong woman. Shopping around is human viewpoint. b. The soul climax is the divine design of recognition of your right man or right woman. "Burning" has nothing to do with libido. It refers to when two souls have climaxed and are not yet able to make love because the two people are not yet married. No sex can compare with the sex between right man and right woman. c. Therefore, it is better to marry than to burn in personal love for right man or right woman after you have made the soul identification. The right man or right woman can make identification without touching. c. The right woman always emphasizes the soul of her right man when they first know each other. She is looking for his precious soul. The right man is the most precious thing to the right woman, but she emphasizes his soul and hunts for that soul. d. To recognize his right woman, the right man needs only to have the soul climax; no physical contact is necessary. There is no need for heavy necking before getting married. Heavy necking knocks out the ability of the right woman to recognize her right man via a soul climax. e. The soul climax is being out from soul control, because someone else so stimulates your soul. This is the only person who pulls you away from your own self-consciousness into being more aware of them than yourself. You become more thoughtful of them, interested in them, and more concerned and involved with them than yourself. f. A super-rapport develops where the two people cannot wait to share what has happened while they were apart. They enjoy conversation, and even their silence has super-rapport. g. Sex before marriage destroys your capacity to have a soul climax, Prov 6:32. Abstaining from fornication protects the soul, so that it can have a soul climax and the fantastic happiness Christ wants every member of the human race to have. God isn't trying to keep you from having fun, but from missing out on greater fun than Satan and his cosmic system can provide. h. Mentally this person becomes your frame of reference for everything. All memories are related to this person. Over a period of time your norms and standards change so that this person is the honorable one, while other people are insignificant. In your viewpoint, everything in life is related to that right man or right woman. From your volition, you adjust your life with pleasure to please your right partner. You dress to please them and omit things in life to please them. Your emotion has a fantastic response to them. i. If you are in emotional revolt of the soul, you cannot have a soul climax. j. The soul climax is that soul identification in every compartment of the essence of the soul, which stimulates total soul concentration on a member of the opposite sex. It is involuntary total soul concentration. k. Total involvement of the soul essence means that the climax of the soul as an identifier will cover every area of the soul except the old sin nature. l. The right man fulfills her norms and standards, principles, categories, provides soul stimulation, and gives reality to her romantic dreams. 3. The soul climax is the divine design for recognition of your right man or right woman. I. Identification of the Right Woman, Prov 31:10-31. 1. Verse 10 says that your right woman will have certain things for you that she doesn't have for anyone else. The man must recognize her first and be aggressive to her. The man makes the identification first. 2. In verse 11, the right woman becomes a home to the right man. The heart of the man is at home with the right woman's soul. The right woman regards the right man as her lord. The right man's right lobe has confidence in her. This is called love-security of the soul. The right woman won't flirt, tease, or think about some other guy. She is totally occupied with him when he is absent. 3. In verse 12, the right woman will do good to the right man, show him good, and cause him good. 4. In verse 13, the right woman makes decisions to please her right man. The right woman dresses only to please her right man. Her soul is so occupied with him that she is motivated to always appear in clothing he appreciates. She searches diligently to find clothes to impress him. She works with pleasure because it is for her right man. 5. Verse 14 says that she goes to extra effort to find things for her right man to please him, like his favorite food. 6. Verse 15 says that her mental attitude determines how things go around the house. The right woman places love for her right man above her own comfort and personal wants. 7. Verse 16 says that she pleases her right man in business, e.g., she is an aggressive business woman. 8. In verse 17, her soul and body are at his disposal. She responds to only her right man sexually, and anything goes. She encourages him with her arms. 9. In verse 18, anything she does related to her right man always tastes good to her. He always tastes good to her. She is stimulated by him and in a state of perfect human happiness. 10. In verse 19, her hands are occupied with those things which bless him. She gives him no cause for concern. She doesn't play games (cheat on him), nor is she vindictive and seek revenge against him. 11. Verse 20 says that because her soul is full of grace happiness from her right man, she extends grace to others. 12. Verse 21 says that the right woman anticipates certain kinds of disaster and heads them off. She prepares for disaster before it arrives and makes provision. Her instincts of love keep her concentrating on her right man. She no longer depends on parties, outside friends, and fun. She doesn't try to hurt her right man who is so vulnerable to her social or mental unfaithfulness. 13. In verse 22, the right woman makes herself beautiful around the house because her right man is there. 14. Verse 23 says that she is not a nag. The right woman makes it possible for the right man to concentrate on work and be away from home without worrying about her. She compliments and implements, but never competes with her right man. She turns him on, but never puts him down. She seduces him, but never belittles him. 15. In verse 24, the right woman supports her right man with fanatical loyalty and love. 16. Verse 25 says that the right woman is the glory of her right man and wears her glory in her soul, which includes having a sense of humor. She has beauty of soul. She is totally relaxed, giving her the ability to laugh at housework, office work, or whatever she must do. 17. In verse 26, when she speaks, the right man is thrilled because wisdom comes out of her mouth. Divine viewpoint and Bible doctrine is the basis of her conversation. She refrains from verbal sins. 18. In verse 27, she is alert in her soul and not idle. 19. Verse 28 says that her sons remember her with happiness. 20. In verse 29, she waits for her right man by taking in doctrine. For the right man only one woman surpasses all others: his right woman. 21. Verse 30 says that you should not use physical beauty to determine your right woman. Beauty is deceitful. Identification is made in the soul. When you get turned on by some woman's looks, then you missed your identification. She is not your right woman. Beauty, sex appeal, and a great body, is not the basis for recognition of the right woman. Once identification is made in the soul, you will find she has the most beautiful body. The woman occupied with Christ will receive praise from her right man. 22. In verse 31, the responsive right woman becomes aggressive with her hands and lips. No wrong woman can compare. You don't have to prove anything in public to others that you are right man/right woman; touching is private. J. The Responsiveness of the Right Woman. 1. When a woman is a true responder, she initiates her response from her own free will. Right man/right woman have true communication. 2. A woman in response is aggressive. She doesn't stand around and wait for the right man to be aggressive. He doesn't have to be the aggressor on every occasion. 3. The right woman can respond to an aggressive act the right man committed a year before. She is designed for compliments, recognition, and individual attention. K. The Submission of the Right Woman. 1. If a woman is in love, she is happy to surrender her volition to the man and he will care for it. Without mental rapport, there is bad sex life. If the woman doesn't give her soul, she is cheating her man. 2. Submission of the right woman is not slavery but fulfillment. Grace inner beauty in the woman is something which the wrong man sees which he cannot fulfill. A right woman may even change friends to please her right man. The right woman's norms and standards will become one with her right man's. One person's sins don't cause sins by the other person; the same is true for human good. 3. The man should never demand anything from a woman, because he won't get anything anyway. The man cannot demand volitional response or appreciation. 4. The right woman is never shocked by the good or bad points of her right man. Her right man is a point of doctrine. Because Bible doctrine is in her soul and he is a point of doctrine, he is always in her soul, and therefore she will always be faithful. 5. A woman goes quickly from objectivity to subjectivity because she is a responder. 6. The right man will always give her something to which to respond. She saves those things in her memory so that she can respond to them again. 7. The right man, positive to doctrine, will lead in spiritual things. 8. A woman has no security in life except the security of her right man. When a man comes along and is faithful to her and no one else, and she knows it, then that person has her attention forever. 9. When you keep a promise to a woman, it impresses her. She responds. A woman who is a responder to too many things in life also makes herself a reactor to many things in life. The more you respond, the more you react. 
  • Yeah. I'm a good guy.
  • waiting for? no live your life..if they are that good they will find their way to you
  • Plenty of 'em. I love 'em all. If only I were 40 years younger.
  • Millions. But, they get no attention because they don't act like pigs.
  • I would like to know where all the good guys are. I've only been able to find jerks...
  • Most all the good ones are married or have a girl friend, Their out there somewhere, where I dont know.
  • Yes. My boyfriend. You can't have him, though. ;)
  • yes, if you dont mind waiting for a death in the family.
  • <---------------- :) I'm a good man!
  • Of course.
  • Yes, there are many. We just cant be found in bars or clubs. We are in the least likely places and show up when you least expect it. Dont loose faith and dont settle, you will find one.
  • I have one, ya want to borrow him?
  • yes ive found one.:-)
  • Yes there are. If you are having such a hard time finding one maybe it's because you are focusing too much on what's outside and not enough on what is inside. Something you might want to consider.
  • Yeah heaps of them and quite a few right here on ab :)
  • Yes there are.
  • I'm here.
  • Yes there are.
  • Yes. However, you will only be able to observe those who are taken. The others have nobody to care for...
  • taken or gay
  • I'm sure there are..somewhere out there..lol :)
  • Yes ...there are :-) !
  • Many men are that way and they are not all taken. But you have to be the same way and be willing to meet them part way, not expecting someone perfect.
  • accually there is im one of them i have the opposit problem i can't find a girlfriend the point i want to say is that we are out there
  • I have a couple of sons that aren't attached right now and they are very good men:)
  • Yep ...There are :) !
  • There are many good guys out there, who are looking for good girls and many good girls looking for good guys... it just seems that their paths rarely cross.
  • There are good men out there, but if you're just waiting for them to come find you and ask you out, your gonna be waiting a long time. The really decent men I know are the less agressive types. If you're just looking for some action, hit the meat-market clubs. If you're looking for someone to be with long term, try the grocery store or home depot or the library . More than likely the people you meet in those places didn't go there looking to pick somebody up, so you get to see them under normal conditions. If you like the way they look, go up and say so. If they look interested, give them your number ( I know I have screwed up plenty of good opportunities with girls because I was taken off guard when they approached me and I wasn't sure when a good time ask them for their number was. eliminate the confusion for them.)
  • Yes, there are some but not a bunch so when you find one... grab him up! ;)
  • Yes, I believe there are many good men out there. No one is worth "waiting for" as the time we have in our lives is very limited. You can never get back a day you lost. Each day is priceless...so LIVE it and let tomorrow worry about itself. If he/she is worth waiting for, then it will happen anyway. :D
  • Duh! Yeah. Never been evil (except as a character in DND), I don't lie, and I've never cheated (well, once at Monopoly when I was a teen)... There are many more like me out there! Why do you ask?
  • Yes there are such men, unfortunately for us you just described every woman who was ever born!!!
  • Yes, I have to say that I don't consider myself any of thse things any longer. (I will confess to some of this stuff when a lot younger.) Sadly, however, I'm already taken. :-) And I'm sure I'm not the only one. They do say that people seem to consistently go for the same type of partner, so if you're consistently attracting men of this type, then maybe you need to change first (assuming this isn't just a hypothetical question)? Please note - this is NOT intended as a criticism as I don't know you, but if there is something about you, whatever it is, that attracts these types of men, who clearly exist (and maybe in large numbers), then you have to do something so that you will start to appeal to a different type of man.
  • Yes lots of them the same as there are women that are all the things you describe.
  • Yes, there are. Hopefully one day we'll appreciate them.
  • Yes, I am married to one for 22 years.
  • Present and accounted for. How may I help you?
  • Yes of course there are .. and truly i hope you meet some soon :)
  • I'm sure there are, but you have to learn to see past your own dissatisfaction and not assume the same about every single man you see or meet because of past experiences, or worse, assumptions. And if there aren't any, being so cynical I would ask, were there EVER any? What makes you think it's worse now than it ever was at any other time?
  • Yes. I happened to snag one of them for myself.. And I couldnt be happier.
  • Of course there are. Where you look and the type of man you are attracted to should be analyzed.
  • Yes, they are out there!! All my life I was subsconcioulsy only attracted to unhealthy men. So i used to blame them. But then I started to look inside myself and discovered that even though I was a very good person, I was attracting the wrong kind of men without knowing it. At some deep subsconcious level, I thought that exciting love had to be difficult and dramatic. I have done a lot of serious spiritual and psychological internal work, and now I only feel attracted to and attract healthy men. Now i find loving, kind, easy going, funny, gentle and considerate men HOT and exciting!!!! The other kind has just somehow disappear from my mind and life. It's like they all went to another galaxy. LOL. But the best part of all that work is that now my over all quality of life had improved tremendously all around not only with men, but with relationships at my job, family and friends. Funny how everything is interrelated. My revered says that is because everything is One thing": Self love
  • just think of it this way don't put all man in the same boat
  • Probably not according to you!
  • Many very excellent answers. The time will come when you no longer have so much anger. When you decide to let go of that, perhaps the kind of men you seek will be drawn to you. How you feel about yourself is VITAL. Attempt to love your solitude and works towards the following, if you like: Do not depend upon nor expect another to make you whole. When the time comes again, do not attempt to change the one you love. Accept him fully and seek only to change yourself or have the courage to end it... Early. And let go. You only succeed in hurting yourself.
  • Yes, and he's all mine :) There are others. I know his will shock people, but there are even women left that aren't evil, no-good liars, and cheats.
  • *HOLDING UP HAND* I am not evil well maybe a little bit in a good way;)
  • sorry hunny, just one and I've got him. He does have a few nice brothers....so, there are a few others. Just be your awesome self and a great guy will come along-the timings is not yours.Just have fun.
  • I might be one of those one day, but for now I am living the college life.
  • I like to think so. But I'm a bit biased.
  • Yes there are some good men. as far as if they are worth waiting for not sure I know I'm not worth waiting for but only because I doubt I am ever going to be able to let go of the loss of my sweetheart enough to fully give my heart to another woman in the way she deserves.
  • I used to believe so, but not any more.
  • I would like to think so, but am starting to think most are out for themselves.
  • We men, believe it or not, are in no better predicament than you women. Sometimes I ask myself the same question: Is there any truly caring woman left out there? I now it is.......but where? Where can I find them?
  • Uh, the question should be "Are there any good women left out there that are worth waiting for?!"
  • Only in my dreams
  • i like to think they're hiding out there and you just have to find them. :)
  • Im still here. the only problem is there is only one of me.
  • me lol
  • Yeah, but he's mine. Hands off ;)
  • In the realm of good guys, it's like the Highlander, there can be only one. I killed off all the others and I am the very last one.
  • Yeah...they are all sitting at home alone wondering if there's any good gals left.
  • Oh, yeah, they're out there. Sometimes you have to listen to their voices and not look with your wishful eyes, though...
  • none that i know of.
  • yes..im willing to wait for him for 2-3 years,i wouldnt have someone else
  • Yeah for about 15 minutes tops. And the ol' "but the battery on my phone was flat/couldn't find the charger" is good for one time only.
  • I can be had.
  • Yeah, me.
  • Not in ohio but I am sure there are somewhere out there..lol :)
  • [WAVES] :3 Haha. Of course there are; just a matter of finding them is all.
  • I'm here!
  • well im a good guy but now and days there are very few good people in the world
  • Yes. You just have to keep your eyes open.
  • You'll find some opinions on that here;) http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/632651
  • Boo!'tis true that honor and loyalty is less common these days, but we are still here. just keep looking.
  • not enough....

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