ANSWERS: 37
  • No I do not feel it is cheating. It's not the same thing, however it can have the same implications.
  • Depends on how much you look...
  • Lying is cheating. Looking at pornography itself is not cheating, just like, for example, eating ice cream is not cheating. If you made a promise to your partner that you would not eat ice cream, and you do it anyway, it's cheating. If your partner simply wants you to stop eating ice cream, and you disagree so you made no promise one way or the other, it's not cheating.
  • depends if you are looking at one of her friends naked.. other..
  • No I dont think its cheating but he should definately be honest about it and it shouldn't be an obsession. Sorry but looking at pics/videos of other women in pornograpy is pretty common practice and it's not exactly the same as having intercourse with them.
  • Depend on your partner's mentality.
  • I wouldn't say cheating but it can cause problems. If my husband was looking at it I would probably start feeling like I am not good enough for him. I would feel like he would rather have one of those women who are thin and 'sexy' versus having me but I can be a little insecure.
  • No. You can look But you can't touch
  • Depends on your reason for watching. The real reason, not the fake one you give to your significant other!
  • Yes, I do. I don't do it just on principle and I married a guy who matches my opinion of it.
  • Of course not.
  • No and neither does Karen my love.
  • Definitely. But cheating the women of the world of my genetic love goo is hardly a crime! Well okay... perhaps a minor offence.
  • Absoluteley not. That's like saying having a fantasy is cheating.
  • Nope, only insecure women say that.
  • no i dont think so.
  • No just looking is no harm.
  • It really depends. TBH, something that helped me get over being cheated on IS the fact that my boyfriend watches it a lot. Why? I really didn't see that much of a difference. If he imagined it so many times with other women, I reasoned, should I be surprised that he ended up cheating?
  • no it is not cheating.
  • Fuk NO!! Its not cheating at all
  • It's lusting after other men/women, so yeah.
  • No, I don't, unless of course your S/O is trying to contact the people in the porns and is having sex with them. Then yes, it is cheating.
  • Nope, porn is educational programming.
  • Yes....I see it as cheating...when you put another women in your brain and think about her and picture yourself with her....you are cheating....just the thought of doing it=cheating....and HIS WORD says it. I honestly think that it in most cases leads to one cheating later on down the line. I know many will disagree with me...but it's what I feel and what my religion teaches and I really seriously feel that way.
  • No it is learning, inspiring and sometimes a good replacement for the real thing when the real thing is not available or rubbish etc. I would much rather my boyfriend cracked off to porn when I was feeling under the weather than going out to a prostitute or sleeping with someone else or thinks that I am just finding an excuse not to sleep with him. Do you think that looking at cooking shows and reading recipe books about baking chocolate puddings and sweet desserts is cheating on your diet?
  • To whom?? Actually no!
  • No it is not cheating. Just cause you are on a diet doesn't mean you cannot look at the menu. Honestly, if my guy (currently single haha) never looked at other women I would worry about him.
  • Not at all.
  • Possibly, but it can be destructive and i find that the more important issue. i might bail on a man who paid daily homage to the ladies of the porn industry, but it wouldn't likely be because i felt it took from me, but for a host of other reasons not the subject of your inquiry. Having said that, there are those who DO cheat with it, as it it does rob their partner of something, whether it be time, attention or even realistic expectations associated with intimacy with a real live (and in this case, particular) person. So i guess my answer is that it can be, if one shares my definition that cheating is anything first, that "steals" what is agreed upon as reserved for the partner of an exclusive relationship, and second that involves what is hidden and inspires guilt. Not all infidelity involves a touch and much that doesn't can be as damaging or more so than what does. gentle (PG rated) thoughts...
  • no its meant to give you a boner though....lol
  • Of course it isnt...leave the man/woman alone. If they want to look at porn and masturbate or whatever, its noones business but there own. Its their body for crying out loud
  • yaa its definetely bd...coz you r cheating yourself coz you getting sexually active for sexual arausals without involving with anyone..i mean one can use porn only if they want to get sexually active with once parner and il prefer both u and ur partner to see it together..then its no harm... but being alone a watching it urself and thinking some1 else in ur mind is bad.........

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