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  • For me it's never been a chore and when I stand at attention .. I'm ready to do my duty !! : )
    • officegirl
      Thank you.
    • Roaring
      Great answer : )
  • Honestly, I can't say that it ever has. There have been times when I was tired, but as things got going I - pardon the double entendre - rose the occasion. Grant that at different times I want different things from sex. There are times when I just want to be very animalistic and lustful, while there are times when I want to be tender and loving and I want a feeling of closeness and intimacy. Trying to be on the same page with my gf can be work - in a way. However, it has not ever been a chore in the sense of it being something I had to do but really did not want to do. Sorry, not much help, I know.
    • officegirl
      Thank you.
  • When I was young, I had a girlfriend who'd just kind of lay there as if I was responsible for both of us. Finally I told her, "Look, you need to be acting more like a man about this yourself. Do you ever see me at any point not rubbing myself on something, if you're not stimulating it? YOU should do that. Then when I do help you, it's an exciting bonus, which is how I perceive the infinitesimal input I'm getting from you!" (Okay I didn't actually say that last part, but I felt that way.) ..She was just entirely inexperienced, and made the whole thing tedious for me, like I had to be worrying about her all the time, instead of just getting lost in it, like she was getting to do. ..But, like I said, we were 20, and she was new at it.
    • Mr PantsFellDown
      LOL, I literally told her to think of sex as using someone else's body to masturbate with! :) ..It seemed a good starting point at least.

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