ANSWERS: 38
  • Good God, yes!
  • oh course there is a problem, that is not a very good question.
  • Yes. I answered a similar Q the other day and got minus 100 points (slight exaggeration)
  • Of course there is a freaking problem!!! That's horrible...
  • Well, depending on where you live, she needs another birthday.
  • I don't know, you tell me. For a while now I've seen your preocupation with under-age/adult issues, relationships, sexual activity, etc. It is worrisome, to me at least. Too many of those questions for comfort.
  • Why don't YOU tell US? You MUST have gathered SOME useful information from past questions you've posted from which you can formulate your own, reasonable, hypothesis on this subject: "He is 59, she is 16. They have a great sex life. But is it sick?: http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1824553 "Is it normal for a 16 year old girl to have a crush on a 59 year old man? The girl and the man are both my neighbors and I know what is going on. The girl says she is in love and wants to marry him. The man is divorced and loves the girl as his daughter." http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1822761 "17 year old girl dating a 19 year old guy? I think it is okay what is your view?" http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1760185 "What is your view on a 14 year old girl dating a 29 year old man?" http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1744832 "What do you think of a 16 year old girl in love with a 31 year old man?" http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1740885 "What is your view on a 16 year old boy and a 12 year old girl dating?" http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1742752 Things that make you say "Hmmmmm...."
  • ---------im a guy when i was 42yo i went out with a girl that just turn 18 so i say no to your question
  • Not if he's her father!!! But in most other scenarios that does not a promising relationship make!!
  • She might be too old. Has she been unable to find a S/O for some reason by this age?
  • Yes, this question has been re-written at least 10 different ways. Hes 30 shes, 16 Hes 40 shes 18 Hes 29 shes 15 Hes 20 shes 14 any way you put it, its about a minor girl with and elderly man. No matter how you put it. If she is 18 or younger and you are old enough to be her dad than yes you are a perve. And if you are over 18 and are attracted to girls under 16 it is illegal and you are a perve. And if you are btwn the age of 16-18 and you like girls younger that are younger than you by at least 3 years or more (meaning even younger) You are still a perve.
  • ITS DEFINATELY NOT RIGHT!!
  • He won't last the pace.
  • the first 3 years it won't be problem. After that there will be HUGE problems.
  • Well it all depends on what there doing. Are they playing checkers, chess, cards, it would still be awkward but really no problem... If he is her HS teacher and nothing more, then NO...If he is shopping and asking her for advice being that she may be a sales rep and stick to the topic at hand then NO...BUT if they are looking to be intimate, then YES, in most jurisdictions the law states this as a huge problem because she is a minor and may not meet the requirements of the age of consent, and it is a FELONY! So is a Felony any kind of problem is the real question that needs to be asked.
  • Yes. Problems. Moral and Legal.
  • Yes in many different ways she is a child still a minor not even an adult and he is an adult. He will end up going to jail before it's all said and over!
  • None of our business. Ask them.
  • yes. he needs to lose 15 yrs or she needs to gain it at the least.
  • Not if he was her dad.
  • no problem for her lots of problems for him.
  • well depends! for me no problem
  • Yes. How dare he be born 41 years ago and she 17 years ago. Just out of interest, do they know each other?
  • yes maybe i bet he is older that her dad
  • depends on what they do and where they do it. interpersonally, the age difference will usually result in problems, unless there's a reason they're together. like i always say, a billion dollars can help a 17 year old overlook a lot.
  • i think its a bigger problem for you then it is for me.
  • Only if he gets caught. (by the law)
  • If they love eachother it should be ok , but the difference is a bit too high so people will talk so that will cause them problems (talking about their friends , family etc)
  • Yes, because she is under 18 and he's old enough to be her dad. That is gross.
  • So long as it is not my 17 y/o daughter he can still walk freely.
  • Yes it's not quite legal. +5
  • It's very wrong, not to mention illegal.
  • 2-24-2017 Mary Cathleen Collins was 16 when she began hanging out with John Derek. They married when she was 19 and he was 51. She changed her name to Bo Derek and they remained married until his death.
  • Presuming its an intimate relationship I'd say there are as many probs as sand in the Sahara desert. Okay I exaggerate. Still there are a lot of issues. The age gap is much too wide . She is under aged. Wondering how a middle aged man can romance an adolescent. She's getting over her head. The man seems like a perv. To me this smacks of pedophilia. Bad news.
  • Definitely a problem if it's intimate or romantic based!!
  • Not until he turns 50 and dumps her for an 18 year old.
  • A lot depends on the civil law where you live and the age of consent. Today, socially, it is frowned upon. Biblically it is not as most marriages were arranged through the sale of daughters with virginity was important because of inheritance issues. For instance it is believed Mary the mother of Jesus Christ was around 12 or 13 when she was conceived of Jesus Christ Joseph was 70. Joseph was a widower having lost his first wife. Mary and Joseph were betrothed which in those days was the same as being married.
  • yes, shes underage, thats the problem, wait till shes 18 , otherwize its illegal

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