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  • I think that they should if they have discussed it with their parents. They should together set out lines along which it will be run and suitable punishments for different 'crimes'. I also think that they should have a trial period.
  • I think if you are spanking your 16 year old child barebottom because they want you to, you have some serious issues that you need to address with a profesional. Ask a shrink if this is proper behavior...or as the child protection services in your area...
  • This isnt a "teen" question. Its a fetish question. The fact thay you answered it your self makes me wonder what you are up to- whether you are the teen or the parent- I quesion your motives and motivation.
  • I think that some teens might ask to be cos they think it will get them out of real punishments like groundings but i wouldn't agree.
  • My how times have changed. Bare bottom spankings weren't all that uncommon for teens, boys or girls, when growing up in the 50's and 60's. I had 2 very memorable ones. One for stealing some cigars when I was 14 and again when I was 16. The later for loaning my car to a friend. When it was noticed it wasn't where it was supposed to be I lied and said it was stolen. The lie is what got me the spanking at 16. Had I told the truth not much would have been said. So in a way I asked for it but not out right.
  • No. I dont spank my little girl that way and shes 5. I was spanked bare bottom by my dad until i was 12.
  • No. ESPECIALLY not if they ask to be.
  • I never had to ask for it, I got them anyway. I didnt resist only because I had accepted my mother as my authority figure and I respected her. I took it like a man. Hurt like HELL!!! Got the message from them though!!!
  • Groundings are definitely NOT real punishment, so the poster who offered that response is just not thinking straight. Why confine a teen to their room - with computer, music, possibly TV - yu're just allowing them to be antisocial and to enjoyable pass time out of your scrutiny. If a teen seriously asks for a spanking - bare or otherwise - and they are not having sexual fetish issues of which the parent is aware, I would discuss it with the teen and if they are serious I would make their ass sting very seriously, and then declare that the offense for which they required punishment was dealt with. A spanking should never be followed by nagging or reminding a kid of their previous behaviour.
  • Yes! A fetish it might be, though a good solid spanking will quickly change that. Progressive Discipline incorporates spanking teens. Satisfy their curiosty if the punishment warrants and don't be brutal. But be stern enough that they don't ask again.
  • I can't imagine a 16 year old asking to be spanked, espeically bare bottom. I was spanked on occasion by my parents-always on my bare bottom-but I never asked to be! Spanking in my house was largely a thing of the past by the time I was 10, which, as it turns out, was a very good thing... As far as spanking fetishes go...I have one, but I might have had this inclination even if my parents had never spanked me. There was a time in my life when I believed my parents sexually abused me by spanking me-and I didn't have a great relationship with them during those years-but I realize now that they had no way of knowing how I felt and if they had they certainly would have disciplined me differently. As sixteen year old who asks to be spanked is likely conflicted sexually and doesn't understand all of what he/she is asking for. Even for those of us with a spanking fetish, a discipline spanking isn't at all fun in the moment. I do think parents should exercise caution when spanking their children because they have no way of knowing the emotional impact a spanking will have on any given child, nor can they know how spankings will impact their child's psycho-sexual development. A 16 year old who asks to be spanked definitely needs some professional guidance.
  • IThe decision should be made do not agree with a sixteen yr old asking to be spanked bare or otherwise. The decision shoould be made by the parent or guardian but it should only be given for a serious offence or where all else has failed.Personal I think it should be given bare. i also think that 16 is the limit and that the father should spank the boy and the mother the girl or both parents be present.
  • No. No one should be spanked bare bottomed. Perhaps it was the norm years ago, but it's inappropriate. It should be illegal to pull down a child or person's clothes to administer discipline. It's perverted and can cause psychological harm. That psychologist, Gary Freudenthal, of Blue Ash pulled down the underpants of a 14-year-old friend of his daughter and spanked her, leaving bruises. It's not so much the bruises that's the real harm. He touched her bare bottom, and it's wrong whether or not the girl's grandmother gave him permission to discipline the girl. He was eventually aquitted and now he's acting high and mighty that he did the right thing. Perhaps he has a few issues of his own that made him feel justified in administering that perverted discipline. I hope the girl and her grandmother sues that man for sexual assault and child abuse. Hopefully that would send a message to other men who may decide to spank the bare bottoms of other peoples' daughters under the guise of discipline.
  • Cute 16-year-old girls should be routinely spanked on their bare bottoms even if they DON'T ask. This punishment will cause blood to rush to their genitals and will leave them generally stimulated. Afterwards the hot teenage chicks should be MASTURBATED TO ORGASM by any male present. This will make them feel good overall and be less "bitchy" to others for the rest of the day.
  • I am sure this is a troll so DR and flagged.
  • UMMM I think if a child wants to be spanked they need some kind of help.
  • Yes but only if they are given a choice. Either you lose the computer or video game or you get a spanking. My sons take the spanking.

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