ANSWERS: 51
  • you should definitly go out with him, not only does it make sense but he'll remember it for as long as he lives,
  • Kinda odd since he's that young...but hey if he likes u back...don't do anything against the law.
  • Actually, you're an 18 year old WOMAN and he's a 15 year old BOY. Does that help clarify the question? Does the word "crush" help? "Crush" means "infatuation" and you're old enough to know that in a very short time you will realize that yes, he does have faults and no, he isn't the greatest thing since take-out Chinese. Don't do anything you wouldn't want to tell his mother about.
  • There's only a few things you can't do. Personally, I'd walk away, but if you can't, then wait for him to become an adult and date him.
  • Go for it. You might both be very happy together. And it's really not that big of age difference.
  • Leave him alone. You are an adult, he is a child.
  • Whoa Mama...be careful they have that nasty lil law...run away....it's just a lil crush...just think ahead ....what if his parents found out....run away!
  • Keep it like that 'a crush', and find yourself somebody your own age. The age difference is dangerous for you both.
  • Have fun together, and keep a degree of secrecy.
  • You could end up getting into trouble if there is any sexual contact. Statutory rape, child molestation. Next thing you know, you will have to register as a sex offender in certain areas, if you choose to live in them. Now, after citing the "child molestation" thing, I have to say that I don't think it makes you a "wierdo"... There is only a 3 year (or possibly less) difference in your age. You aren't exactly taking huge advantage of a young child, as you are not that far out of the cradle yourself. Nonetheless, you would be well advised to mind your P's and Q's around him until he turns 17. (of course, even that depends on the state you live in). Funny how the 15 year old lads all answered "GO FOR IT!" :)
  • Forget it! Divert yourself.
  • any 15 year old getting with an 18 year old girl is not gunna go running to his mom and fuck up the whole thing think about it out of everyone in the situation he is the most for it so as long as you dont say anything you shuold be fine
  • Give him what he dreams of.
  • keep moving!
  • If he likes you then date him!
  • Date him, as long as he's the younger of you, you should be fine.
  • I can't believe what I'm reading! Listen closely, Band, whether you sleep with him or not, if his Mom or Dad finds out you two have a relationship, you could very well GO TO JAIL! Most parents do not like any person of accountable age (18 or older), messing with their underage children. Even if y'all NEVER do anything, you'll probably never convince the parents of this. Please, wait on this guy. Chances are, you will meet someone your own age, but if not, wait until he is 18, then, go for it. I don't want to see you end up in jail. P.S. - At least you asked. This shows you are a little worried about it, also.
  • You might really like the person but think about is it worth going to prison or jail.
  • Nothing involving physical contact, as you could be arrested.
  • If we were playing role play of real life here, i would be that guy. I am madly in love with this 17 year old girl, and it's been one of the best times of my life. I'm not gonna lie, you should go out with him.
  • If you are uncertain about this, I don't think you should go through with it. I know that there are mature 15-year-old boys because I have talked to mature 15-year-old boys. I'm not going to assume that he's an immature 15-year-old boy just because you have a crush on him, though. I think it may be a good idea to look up the laws in the country (or state/province/territory) you live in and if he already knows you like him and he likes you back, make sure it's okay with his parents. If it's not alright with the law and it's not alright with his parents, then you should probably back off until he's a bit older.
  • so what happened with this situation?
  • If you don't have any feeling that you want to take advantage of him in any way, then, date him (if that's possible under the law). You don't want to try to take advantage of someone younger than you because you have more experience. There really isn't anything more sick than that.
  • WHY DONT YOU FIND A GUY YR OWN AGE..I ALLOWED MY 15YR OLD SON TO DATE AN 18YR OLD, AND IT CAUSED HIM ALOT OF PRESSURE THAT I DONT BELIEVE HE WAS READY FOR. JUST REMEMBER THAT GIRLS ARE 10YRS MORE ADVANCED THAN BOYS, SO BE CAREFUL.
  • nothing.
  • you are an adult at 18 he is a minor at 15. date him and you could go to jail. all it takes is him braging about him girl friend being 18 and boom your in jail. hope you dont live in tampa fl.
  • Is he mature for his age? How long have you known him? Do you know his family at all? I presume you both are in high school, correct? Back in the day, when I was in high school, I would always remember when the grade 11-12 guys usually dated the grade 9-10 (9-12 was our high school). I hated it. Sometimes, there were gr. 12 guys dating gr. 9 girls. I hated that even more! Why couldn't they leave me, a gr. 9 guy with a girl my own age! :S Anyway, I vowed never to do that. HOWEVER, when I did make it to gr. 12, I started dating a gr. 9 girl. She was 14 and I was 17 at the time. Now, I was in the same situation you were. What was I going to do? Was this right for me to pursue? I asked myself this question for weeks before we started dating. Then I understood something... I had to be respectful of the fact she was younger than me.... she doesn't have the same experiences as I did, she doesn't know the world enough yet.... Everything was still knew to her. Really tho, first year in high school for her. SO, I did ask her out, and it was without a doubt the best relationship I've had. But in the time we were together (almost a ful year) I always reminded myself that I had to take things slow, and respect her boundaries. I showed her parents that I wasn't some skin dog looking for fresh meat. Be respectful if you plan to date this kid.
  • Get a crush on an 18 year old guy instead.
  • i have been i this same spot all you can do is get to no him better and then slowly get to no his parents and then let them no that your not gonna force him in to doing ne thing and take it from there
  • Well few things here. Age of course does not matter but. You hae a crush on him because he is cute? Or because you actaully like him....
  • Isn't that illegal? If one parter is over 18 the other has to at least be 16, or 18 if the said older person is in an authorotive position over the younger, for eg. their teacher.
  • well honestly, if you like him, thats great, but a guys maturity level at 15 as opposed to a female 18 year old.. is hugely less. if you started dating him, you might come to find him cute but not necessarity boyfriend material.
  • Turn the boy into a man ;)
  • ssshhh...nobody has to know.
  • 18-year old girl = Senior 15-year old boy = Freshman Does it not? That's a lucky ass freshman if you ask me. And not to mention, I did that my senior year. We never became sexual, despite his efforts, so really it didn't matter. And by the time we would have, I was leaving for college. The trouble came when we broke up. He didn't understand the concept of being friends after breaking up, even though the only reason we broke up was because we couldn't do distance. So... yup. Oh well.
  • He is too young for you, and also you might be in troubles because he is under age!!!!! dude he is too young!!! you should go with a guy in your age!
  • I don't see a problem with it...it's only a 3 year age difference. My parents are 13 years apart. Would it make a difference to you if you were 27 and he was 24?
  • Ask him to file a LAWSUIT in advance
  • see a psych.
  • give it to him, hell be siked
  • I'm the reverse of this... I'm 15 years old (soon to be 16 - age of consent where im from - not that i care) and i have a crush on an 18 year old, well it started out as a crush, but it has developed into something far stronger than that of a childish crush, i can honestly say i love her :) I think you should do what you feel is right :) Don't let all these haters change your mind. x
  • i would date them come on its not that bad of an age difference i mean i dated an 18yr old guy and i was fifteen so yeah it was good for a while but then i found someone my age actually younger so idk it works for different people i would go for it though
  • Be a serious girl & study your lessons :( Go to church , read the bible , this is what u have to do .
  • it's illegal to date him. while i know you can't help you like, you should at least wait until he is a little older.
  • You need to forget about him and go out with someone at least 18. If you decide to go out with him can you say statutory rape. Let me ask you a question is it ok for a 18 yr guy to go out with a 15 yr girl. No it is not at that age 3 yrs is a big difference when you get older 3 yrs is nothing. If you truly want to go out with him wait for 3 yrs and then give it a go
  • GET OVER IT and find a guy your age or a little older, a 15yr old boy has nothing to offer you but jail time.
  • Im having the same problem exept im the 15 yr old boy is she to old for me?
  • the difference is only 3 years and i dont know about your state but in mine 16 is the age of consent but it would be best for both of yall to stick with your age groups
  • Move on. If you still have a crush in 3 years, then act on it. Why do people put themselves through this crap? You are risking alot of trouble and quite frankly, headache.
  • Have sex and go to jail.

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