ANSWERS: 19
  • No way!!! I think we are all supposed to live with an s/o, not be lonely!
  • Wow what a sad question, while I think it is natural to pair up I guess there are people who just can't find the right s/o or choose solitude.
  • maybe....
  • I think there is more than one person for everyone. Unfortunately, we don't always find them in our lifetime =[
  • Yes, I do think some are meant to be alone and better off for it, if you get my meaning!!
  • Only if we choose to be, like my teacher has, but she's happy.
  • I believe there are some people who comport themselves in such a way as to drive people away..either they're much too needy/whiny/clingy/desperate, or they're arrogant/sarcastic/insulting, or they expect to get perfection in someone when they themselves are quite average. Doesn't make for an attractive package for someone to want to scoop up! :)
  • I believe it is all a matter of choice. If you choose to keep your mind and especially your heart open, I believe you can find someone who you will love and who will love you back. If you don't choose this path, then at least you had the freedom to choose.
  • I hope not.
  • i think some people are ment to be alone ... irs better for everyone that way
  • No. Everyone just has to find someone that is good for them and it takes a while sometimes.
  • You know.....sometimes! If someone is not a people person, it could be very hard to find that special someone. But, some effort needs to be put into it. You can't meet Mr/Mrs Right if you sit in your livingroom all by yourself.
  • No,although if you make that choice it will happen.
  • I think everyone has "that someone" out there, and I believe there are more than one people who could be "that someone" for a person, but the key is to trust your instincts, and be patient. Too many people force love, as I have first hand experience doing myself. Stop forcing it, and it will come. Key: If you're always wondering if they love you like you love them, or if you are wondering if their "I love you too" really is true........... it's probably not, and the last thing you need to do is force it. Give it some time, but set a limit for yourself, how long you'll wait for them to come around, (without you forcing it.) If those questions haven't stopped arising in your mind, you should end the relationship when your timetable is ended, and give yourself a chance to find someone who you won't have to wonder those questions with.
  • No, I believe truly that their is someone for everyone in life, we just have to trust our instincts to find them!
  • I used to think everyone had someone out there. But not now. Not after all the things I've been through. And if I am wrong and there is someone out there for me, I sure do miss him. Wish he'd call once in a while geesh.
  • Perhaps. I think it depends upon just how much you are willing to change or compromise your life. I actually thought that I would stay single for the rest of my life. Then, when I was 54, I met my wonderful wife. We have been together over ten years and married nin years this month.
  • I sometimes wonder if I'm one of those - I tend to find it easier and less painful to be alone than to be with someone! Having said that, I'm not sure I'd want to be alone forever...

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