ANSWERS: 17
  • What's so terribly wrong with dating divorcee?
  • Have you looked on lavalife.com? I met my husband there and I assure you he's not a tool. :)
  • Man, you're not wasting any time are you. I've heard that Match.com is pretty good. But I hate to think of what you're looking for!
  • Sara. It's been like, one day. Settle down. You're going to have to date first. You can't just "find" a husband. Go to a coffee shop or an art museum and I'm sure you'll meet someone. You're beautiful. Don't worry. It'll happen.
  • I refuse to pay some service to show me information about women who wouldn't date me anyway...
  • Apparently. I wouldn't worry about it. For now, just have fun and you don't need to date someone to have fun.
  • They looked like hammers and screwdrivers and saws? Are you sure you joined a dating site and not the local hardware center?
  • I don't waste money on stuff like that. I did do a free profile on one of them once and then they matched me to people but to contact them I had to pay $20.00 per contact and the highest match was 75% so I said screw it.
  • Join some Clubs, Sierra Club for hikes and camping and outdoor stuff. You could find yourself sitting at a Campfire swapping stories and then going swimming with your future S/O. Be patient, remember-I met my wife in a stange place when I did'nt expect it...
  • I met my husband on Match.com. I met several really nice guys. I guess I looked past whaever a 'tool' looks like. If you want a personality and looks match, join eharmony. You should ALWAYS join a dating website where you pay a fee with a credit card...otherwise anyone with access to a computer will be on there....psychiatric patients, jailbirds...etc. The credit card doesn't mean you shouldn't use common sense, but there is a feedback mechanism, if necessary. Also, use a site where your communications are three-way..through the website, not direct. Bide your time until you feel safer. Many people on these sites ARE divorced..because meeting people at bars is for the younger crowd. These sites are, in fact, safer than bar pick-ups.
  • Look, I'm right here. Just give me a holler. You know what's up! ;)
  • My friend swears by those dating sites, she uses eHarmony, match.com, and JDate (bet you didn't know JDate existed!) But for me, there's no substitute for meeting people randomly. My Mom says it's because I'm shallow, I claim that I'm just a very visual person. That and slightly awkward conversations are fucking fun.
  • As long as you don't limit yourself to that one place, you should be all right. My oldest son found a wife on the internet (I don't know if it was a service). Their marriage didn't last long, though. Every where you go, everything (well almost)you do can lead you to potential mates. My sister found her husband at a golf resort, and she doesn't even play golf.
  • hi, sara, babieeeeeeeee ... yepper you're looking in the wrong places ... you have to be social and in the spotlight to meet that special someone ... LoLz ... y'know ... dress thoze puppies up and put them on display ... LoLz
  • What are your hobbies? find someone who is doing what u like then right away you have soemthing in common. Half the toolbags on dating sights just want to get laid. Find someone who falls in love with you. It won't be hard. You can't find that anywhere it just will happen.
  • It took me about a year and I went through a lot of "tools" before I found Ben hon ;) Patience.
  • I am currently married however, when I was single I met quite a few nice women on match.com. You do have to be careful because I met other women who had numerous problems (far more than average). I also met nice women who unfortunately lived too far away. The key is to take your time and when you do go out on dates and meet people do not be desperate and in the mode of looking for a life partner. Look for friendship and get to know the person and see where it goes from there and by all means be safe and until you get to know them and meet in a public place and do not invite them to your house or tell them your personal business. There are good people out there but there are also people that you have to watch who will use you or hurt you if they can. Good luck.

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