My girlfriend just doesn't believe in love. She just wants to continue with our friendship, and nothing else. I am unable to accept her only as my friend as a love her a lot. What to do?
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Sounds like a load of crap to me. People have to believe in love, when they find the right person they have no choice in the matter, they simply fall in love. Sounds like she is being untruthful to you and maby you should think about moving on. Sorry, thats just my opinion.
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i have the same problem with my boyfriend.you shoud move on
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If she doesn't believe in love it means that she is not in love with you. Be her friend and keep loving her, oneday she might change her mind. Good luck!
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Act like you dont care and try not to give much attention to her anymore,i mean treat her as a friend and"play with her"(i hope you understand what i mean-) Everybody loves,but not the same type of persons and if it dosent worth,than dont waste your time.after all,she is not the only girl in the world and sometimes the more you love someone,the more that person "runs away" from you.-keep this in mind too
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It sounds like she's trying to give you an excuse to keep you around but without having to commit. Yuck. Don't deal with this girl, she's just using you. Girls want to keep guys as people they can complain too while looking for someone else. Don't fall for this classic user situation.
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Sir, I basically have just gone through the same experience. I was head over heals in love with my (ex) girlfriend; she just wasnt as into it as I was. We are now friends, and still talk. And do things that make us both wonder if we will end up back together. But you never know. Just keep going. It sounds like you would be better off without her, even though you FEEL like you will be worse off without her. And its true, you probably will and it will feel like this for quite a while; heck, im still going through it myself. But it DOES get easier...eventually...I'm still waiting for it to get easier. But Ive been told that there is a light at the end of the tunnel; I think I can faintly see it starting to come through...
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Oh and another thing...that is so dumb! Doesn't believe in love? That is so lame!
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If you're looking for a love relationship, it's time to say bye-bye.
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find some one can love.
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Just tell her that, It may be that she is trying to take advantage of you so she always has someone to take her back when a new relationship goes wrong, but that is just my opinion as us females can be like that! Or she may feel like you just treat her like a friend and needs you to show you're love for her rather than just saying it. It may not be too obvious but we like to be made to feel needed. I hope this helps as I know how you feel, if not it was worth a try :) do what you feel is right x
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I was in exactley the same position u were in like 2 months ago. The friendship failed cause my ex had to much pride and didnt understand her own feelings, or others feelings. I suggest you just try to not bring it up. It will hurt her more and more if u keep bringing it up that u love her, and yet she doesnt believe in it. She has mental issues if she doesnt believe in love (again like my ex) and u need to keep your distance or else your going to get mawled. Best of luck to ya!
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time to cut the leash and let her go ... you will only make yourself miserable sticking around in that relationship
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