I can't even make the one person I love happy, so why do I deserve to be happy? I clearly don't. Is there any good reason to even live right now?
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AnonymousGirl
ANSWERS: 13
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Please,don't take your life,just because you can't make someone happy. Don't EVER take your life,it's not worth it. I would suggest asking your partner,what makes him happy. Good Luck.
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Hey! Don't give up just because one person. There are PLENTY of people out there. Just take it from me. I should know.
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you deserve to be happy because you can't just let your world evolve around one thing, or that person will become an idol. there is every good reason to live right now. there are other people in the world that love you. think about just how sad your friends and family would be if you stopped living.
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It's not your job to make someone else happy. It's a hard lesson to learn, but everyone is responsible for their own happiness. You deserve to be happy because you choose to be happy. You choose to respond to good things in a good way. Is there reason to live? Hell, yeah. You, sweetie, are AnonymousGirl. You define yourself, not through anyone else's lens, but your own. you have intrinsic value in your goodness. Buck up, AG. It gets better.
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There's lots of great reasons to live right now. Disneyland. The new Ironman movie looks pretty cool...you don't want to miss THAT. A steaming 4-cheese lasagna is a reason in itself to be and remain alive as long as you can. Um...Q-Tips.... Seriously though, I wouldn't worry so much about what it takes to make another person happy till I investigate what makes ME tick. Ya hear me? What? I LIKE -Q-Tips!
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Yes there is a reason to live. There are THOUSANDS... What of your family, your friends, your coworkers, and hundreds of thousands of people you've never even met, yet. Every one of them will be affected and/or hurt if you ... don't live. As for making the one person you love happy... SOME people believe themselves to be "lost causes", and very few people could make them happy. And some people as just not particularly happy people. If this is happening with the one you love, then maybe he's not for you. Hard as it is, I suggest you break it off, and look for someone else... Someone you CAN make happy with just your presence. Besides, AG... WE all love you, and believe YOU DO deserve to be happy.
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You cannot "make" anyone else happy. If you stop using that as an excuse to not want to live, you can find things to make YOURSELF happy. Do what you enjoy and stop worrying about other people. If they aren't happy it is due to something inside themselves and has nothing to do with you. If you are happy, but other people around you are not, then maybe you can inspire them to stop stepping on their chins. If that's not possible then maybe you need to distance yourself for awhile.
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Religious: God created you, you are his work, his most glorious creation and he loves you. Non-Religious: Billions of years of evolution and effort have been put into your existence. Creatures have been procreating for millenia to create better creatures and their efforts don't deserve to be ended because you feel sorry for yourself.
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what the heck girl what's going on? talk to me
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There is always a good reason to live. I have cancer from exposure to Agent Orange while I was in Vietnam, borderline diabetes for the same reason, high blood pressure, and two pounds of metal holding my right leg together. I ride a Harley motorcycle, I walk two miles every other day while carrying weights, and I just got married again last November. Give up and I will kick your ass! ; )
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there are lots of people that obviously love you just because there is one person that you love is unhappy doesnt mean it is your fault they may have other things on there mind that you just cant stop thinking about try asking them it might sort things out
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I think you're upset and depressed and asking if there's a reason to live is a way of saying that you're really sad about the way things are going right now. The thing is, your sadness is the manifestation of your own self-fulfilled prophecy. If the attempt on your part to make this other person happy isnt making them happy in and of itself, then they don't love you, and thus, NOTHING you do will make them happy. It's a harsh reality to face but it's not the end of the world. You are worrying too much about making them happy, why aren't THEY making YOU happy? You're supposed to make both of you happy by yourself? It doesn't work that way. Never base your decision to live on another person because no matter who they are, they will disappoint you at some point. You live for you, thats the only person you have to live for. Even though you feel this way now, I promise you, you will not feel this way forever. The feeling will change, it will shape-shift into something else as time goes on. No one feels the same way forever. You will look back at this toxic relationship and say to yourself "Wow, what the hell was I thinking?"
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life will give you a second chance, its funny that way. just hang in there until it comes : )
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