Remarrying to quickly.

Marrying again!

Call the new wife/husband by the old one's name. + :o)

I think many people remarry too quickly and others find a second spouse that has many of the same characteristics of the first spouse. They tend to find themselves attracted to the same type of person and forget that type of person proved to be incompatible in the past.

Probably marrying someone like their ex-wife/husband.

Expecting the same idealized view of what marriage is..unless you change and become realistic and want what is possible to achieve, you'll keep being disappointed and maybe keep divorcing. :(

I believe you just answered your own question yo...

Not getting counselling at the end of the old marriage, to makes sure they don't choose the same sort of person again, for the same reasons they did with the first one.

Looking for the next person to fix things that are inside themselves that only they can fix.

just getting married so they won't be alone.

thats like "who's on first".the biggest mistake is remarrying.

remarrying

That the grass isn't always"greener" and better the devil you know

trying to raise join kids together-BIG mistake becomes his kids, her kids rules for each never the same, big headache and then along comes their kid another set of rules

Getting remarried soon as you get divorced.

Expecting that your kids will all get along in a big, wonderful family like the Brady Bunch. Thankfully, we were all adults when my mom got remarried. We don't "hate" our step-sister and step-brother...but we don't always get along. I haven't even seen my step-brother in over 4 years.

Not learning from the mistakes they made in their previous marriage or marriages and making the same mistakes over again.

1) Still being emotionally attached to the previous spouse. 2) Not having clearly discussed the needs, desires, and expectations of the each person. if there are children involved 3) Not having established clear parenting plans or specific boundaries for the children.

sometimes people tend to remarry the same kind of spouse they divorced. that and the fact that some people tend to remarry just b/c they don't want to be alone.....in other words, they marry(remarry) for the wrong reasons.....

Marrying the same kind of person again without thinking what went wrong the first time and not taking some of the blame for the first one.

From a friend of mine who knows..... Most times all you have done is exchanged one set of problems for another, and at the end of her years says that if she could do it all over again she would do her best to make the first one work!

Expecting something totally different.

Marrying someone exactly like their old spouse and not learning from the past.

Rush,Hurry back into another relationship. That really hasn't had the time to really see who there new spouse really is. I would bet that who ever they marry they prodabel had some sort of relationship all ready!!!:)

Making it a rebound relationship.

If they knew, repeating the same mistakes they made in the first marriage.

Remarrying.

They remarry thinking that all the voids that weren't filled in the first one will be filled with the new one.

not learn the first time

The same one as they did the first time. Marry the wrong person.

They blame the new spouse for the last ones mistakes, and faults.

re marrying them

They still think of their ex.

some rush into the new marrage... others think that the new marrage will fix the old problems... They need to realize that the new one will take a lot of work and if there are kids that create an entire new dynamic in the marrage.

Is a self answering question like a self-fulfilling prophecy? Or is it just redundant?

they constantly marry the same kind of person,,,a person who has the same qualities that made their previous marriage unworkable.....

marrying?

They marry someone worse than the last guy. haha

comparing to the first marriage, maybe one married a second time because their first partner died. comparing the previous partner will create and inferiority complex or second marriage because the first one went down the drain, now there's paranoia or lack of trust BIG mistakes

I believe when they remarry too fast they compare their new partner too much to their old partner and they do not see the good qualities of their new partner; they only see their old partner.

one can make a mistake once, it's human...but twice is diabolic!

Remarry.

they regret the one that they've loved before.

Saying "I do"

Putting as little effort in as they did the first time.

to remarry the person they divorced again later on

Not taking the time to learn about themselves so that they know precisely what they are looking for in a spouse vs attempting to "replace" the former spouse. Important to take the time to delve into oneself and turn the prism. A marriage should consist of two people who enhance eachother's lives in every way, settling for less will have the same result. take two can be done successfully, with a lot of preliminary work!!

Marrying too soon after a divorce,death, breakup,or if they marry the one they cheated with as mutual trust would be an issue.

comparing their new husband with the old one.

I dont think that you should be able to remarry (as in Law). Its not an issue anymore to be married to live together and to have kids so I think once is enough. Maybe more people will think more about making the decision to marry if they knew that they wouldn't be able to do it again.

they dont take in to consideration the other kids and the former wife/husband.

Tying new knots before untangling old ones.

forgeting the reason they divorced!

Not all but some forget about the first mistake they made, and repeat it all over again. But then there are many who do great, and have learned from their mistakes they made, so that they don't repeat them over again. To them I take my hat off.................M.C.S.

thinking that it will be SO different the second time around..get disappointed

They look for the "sins" of the former spouse and wait for history to repeat itself.

Forgeting to hire a pageboy

Well! i think they tend to compare their marriages and that is what the biggest blunder after remarrying.

Since my wife and i are stilled married after 42 years, i can only give an answer related to domestic calls, i have answered: 1. Before you say, "I do", a second time, make absolutely sure both parties are going to be able to accept the others children. this is a major problem. each person wants each other, but not their children. 2. Prenup agreement. this works great for some 2nd time marriage people, not so, for many. even the thought of this agreement, can ruin a 2nd marriage, simply because it presents a "lack of trust". 3. That each person understands that each person has an EX and how a 2nd marriage should deal with it. its called communication. 4. Finances. BEFORE a 2nd marriage, people need to sit and discuss each one's personal finances. after the marriage is too late to discover one or the other has bad credit. The mistakes are many for 2nd marriage couples. Some end up singing the song...................... "Its Too Late Baby, Its Too Late".

Making the same mistakes all over again with a new person.

To get emotionally healthy before marrying again. Baggage will be there but getting rid of some will help a marriage believe me. It is what mostly triggers married couples not the now life but what happened then and not being able to let go. It helps to work thru some things with both people before marriage.

Marriage itself.

Marry under rebound conditions...need immediate companionship, hear the "L" word right away and melt, think this time it's for real, looking and finding a new daddy or mom for their kids. So many reasons, so little time.

They forget the reasons they got divorced the previous time. It is often on the rebound and they tend to put all the blame on the previous spouse. Forgetting that it takes two people to make or break a marriage.

Just getting married seems to be a mistake these days. I would like to get married one day, but seems like most marriages only end in divorce..That sucks!

Making the same mistakes they did in the first relationship that caused a divorce in the first place. Namely, not seeing the red flags the other person leaves in a trail everywhere they go, and failing to recognize thier own issues.

They don't remember the reason why they divorced.

Marrying too soon after a divorce or marrying the one you cheated with.

Hardly any at all if they're a widow/er from their first marriage.

Trying to replicate their previous spouse.

mistake and remarry and synonyms!

Rushing...

repeating the same dysfunctional pattern that led them to divorce in the first place.

Believing that they were blameless for their divorce(s), and learning nothing from their previous marriage(s).

Not learning why their previous marriage did not work, not working on whatever part they had in that prior to remarriage.

biggest misteake...common dn't u know :) they are marrying again...biggest mistake itself :)

1. Getting married again. 2. Marrying someone exactly like the one they just divorced. (It happens alot. May as well have kept the first one and tried to make that work ...) 3. Unfairly accusing the new spouse of committing the same sins as the old spouse. (Obviously this shouldn't be a problem if point 2 is true! But don't jump the gun.) A suspicious spouse creates misery out of thin air and condemns a good spouse to years of undeserved abuse. Sure, once bitten twice shy, but just be smart about your suspicion and wise about your time together. Or if you're gonna be that worried, don't remarry.

Remarrying too quickly. My divorce was final in June 2005 and I was married Dec. 2005. I was seperated Jan. 2004 from my ex and me and my current husband started going out July 2004 and were engaged Dec. 2004 I wasn't even divorced and I was engaged.

re-marry

Choosing the same kind of person that they married the first time.

They marry the same type of person they just got rid of.

comparing the new guy to the crap her ex did...i have to catch mysel beacuse i tend to do that alot...also depending on if she stil has feelings for him she may justcompare in general neither is a good idea

Looking for someone who is perfect because in the past marriage their partner had problems. The fact is that all people have problems and none are perfect.

too much self compromise.

Repeating the same mistake they did from the first marriage.(LOL)

They fall in love too fast without knowing that person. Men can sweet talk a girl and some girls fall to easily. The first thing I always ask a man is do you know what you want in life, if they pause to think then move on.

They marry someone just to get over the person, so they don't really know the person that well and rush into things.

Not saying they've been married before.

Not doing a prenup.

they remarry.

when they neglect their children from their previous marriage

trying to get back what they lost in their first marraige

they expect to much and think their partner will be the same forever, but no one stays the same. everybody changes and for some that's the start of a unhappy marriage

They never pay attention. Many fail to reflect on exactly what happened, many look at themselves as victims & seek to close the wound not find what went wrong.

I found myself in this situation i remarried only 60 days after my divorce was final my husband and i had not been together in a year and i started dating immediatly and fell for a man who seemed to be everything my husband was not !!! as soon as my divorce was final he arranged a wedding in my divorce it said i could not re marry for 60 days so on the 60th day we got married !! i just thought he loved me that much now looking back i realize it was just a way to tie me down just as soon as he could before i changed my mind and got comfortable with my being alone for once he knew i was vulnerable !! we are still married been 2 years i dont believe in divorce it at atll possible my first husband was abussive thats why that ended but if i could do it all over i would not have re married so quickly i jumped from the frying pan straight into the fire ....

It is in getting remarried. They have jumped out of the fire into the frying pan. Jesus said they are committing adultery by remarrying. Why? Because when HE joins two as ONE FLESH, that relationship endures until death. A paper declaring the relationship "dissolved" does not change how God sees that relationship. Entering into a new relationship does not dissolve the previous one in God's eyes either, hence He calls the new relationship: adultery. http://www.cadz.net http://www.marriagedivorce.com http://www.cpr-ministries.org http://talkback.spiritofhosea.com/index.php

The wife is bound by law until the husband is dead (Romans 7:2-3, 1 Cor. 7:39) By WmTipton Assertions/Conclusions of this article In this article we will show that the two passages in question speak of the ‘law of the husband’ and that even though these verses say that this law is until death, that is is not an unconditional law that cannot be ended before the death of the spouse. The law of the husband is intended to be until the death of one of the spouses, as God created it from the very first marriage, Adam and Eve, but it has never been without condition. Supporting Evidence In Romans Paul was speaking to "those who know the law" (Romans 7:1) The law reigned over a man all his days. Paul uses this analogy of marriage, the wife being bound to her husband all his days, to represent that it was the same. What Paul didn’t state, and those knowing the law would know this, is that there was provision in the law for a husband to put away his wife while he was alive . (Deut 24:1-4 ) This shows conclusively that Paul was not laying out the whole scope of rules on marriage in Romans 7 but was using one aspect of it to explain our relationship to the law and to the new covenant. This idea is presented again in 1 Corinthians 7:39. The wife is bound to the husband until his death. We must ask ourselves one question here. ‘What law’ bound this woman to her husband for life? Was it the Mosaic law? How then could any wife have been bound at all to her husband from Eve until the Law ? It is cemented that it is not the Mosiac law when we find no actual law making this commandment. So, is Paul lying when he says she is ‘bound by law’ to him until he is dead? By no means. We are left with one conclusion. That this ‘law’ is an unwritten law of marriage and had to be put into place in the garden with Adam and Eve. It was set into place as a parameter to be accepted in all marriages from thence forth. Now, we ask ourselves, why, if this law is for life, did Moses ever permit it to end while the former spouse lived? We ask ourselves about the wife in Exodus 21:7-11 who was permitted to walk out on her marriage if her husband denied her the basics of marriage, food, clothing and conjugal duty. Why, if this law that existed from the beginning, was Moses so determined to undermine its supposed finality by ever allowing men or women to end it this side of death? Was Moses a rogue prophet who defied Gods will in the matter and even added divorce proceedings to His law? Not at all. Moses understood Gods intent, that marriage is for life, but Moses also knew Gods heart and that God wanted mercy over sacrifice and he knew the hearts of evil, hardhearted men who would treat their wives horribly as they wished. And so Moses understood that this ‘law’ was not unconditional. If it were unconditional, then it was that way in the beginning and Moses would make himself a heretic by ever going against it. So we see that when Paul gives his words in 1 Corinthians 7:39, that this is not the whole picture. This ‘law’ that Jesus presents as being ‘from the beginning’ was never meant to be unconditional. Jesus’ very words ‘except for’ in Matthew 19 show conclusively that even He does not see it as being without condition. Paul was asked some questions by the Corinthians as is made apparent in the beginning of chapter 7; 1 Corinthians 7:1 Now concerning the matters about which you wrote” These believers had asked him some weighty questions about marriage, fornication, virgins, etc, to which he responded with what is written in this chapter. They clearly had pondered the right of the believer to put away an unbeliever, to which Paul said “no, if the unbeliever is pleased along with the believer, the do not put them away, you might be the catalyst in their salvation”. Paul is showing these believers who think they can just walk away from marriage that no, they cannot because it is for life. But Pauls words also show condition. What if this unbeliever isn’t ‘pleased’ along with the believer, but is abusive, hateful, adulterating...then what does Pauls condition show? Please see this page for more on that issue Aslo see THIS PAGE that shows conclusively that man CAN indeed 'put asunder' a marriage, thus the 'law of the husband" ("bound by law") is quite conditional. When you’ve finished there, I believe you will see that there is condition in Pauls words. A condition that is perfectly harmonized with the heart of other scriptures such as Exodus 21 where the wife can leave over nonsupport, Jeremiah 3:8 where even God the Father issued a bill of divorce for harlotry, and Matthew 19 where Jesus shows that the same harlotry is just cause for ending this marriage. Another point with Romans 7:1-4 or so is that at no time does this passage show that there was ever any divorce as permitted by Mosaic law. If we take it 'as written' it shows that this woman has only left her husband and gone to join with another. Without a divorce as presented by the law Paul speaks of, without the breaking of that marriage covenant, then of course she would be called an adulteress by joining herself to some man not her husband. Pauls words in Romans 7 and 1 Corinthians 7 are true. They are just harmonized with the whole of Gods word. If we fail to harmonize correctly, then we end up with absurd teachings such as ones that say that we “cannot sin” because the literal reading of 1 John 3:9 would seem to show as much when taken alone and not properly harmonized with the whole. Without ALL of the facts we can end up drawing very wrong conclusions from very CLEAR scripures, such as presented here: The REST of the story... We hope that this has been helpful in showing you the truth, dear reader, and how to harmonize the whole of Gods word so that you understand the whole truth.

What is putting away/divorce-When is a marriage dissolved http://studies.assembly-ministries.org/viewtopic.php?f=3&t=96

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