ANSWERS: 30
  • Absolutely, I am living proof.
  • Yes. Otherwise nobody would risk falling in love anymore.
  • I do hope so Keithold. Just one day at a time.
  • It is and usually love will find you when your not looking for it.
  • I'm hoping it's possible.
  • Absolutely! As with everything that is painful it takes time to heal. Once you are happy with yourself as an indapendant person you can surely find happiness with another. It takes a lot of mr/mrs wrongs to find the one mr/mrs right!!!
  • I dont know, i am still working on that, I'll let u all know 100 years from now..
  • Sure it is. BTDT. From the depths of depression/despair (some suicidal, some decidedly NON-suicidal) to pure joy. It's a journey MANY people make.
  • If it's not then I'm really in trouble.
  • oh yea I've done it many times:)
  • Of course!It happened to me:)
  • Yep, I've done it several times and now I'm very happily married. What I found was that during my first few heartbreaks I'd be pining away for that certain someone and thinking that I'd never find anyone that special again. After a couple more of these I realized that although these women were special they were special in their own different ways and that I'd find someone else again who wasn't like them but just as special in her own unique way.
  • yes it is & it will find you when you least expect it!
  • Yes. Thousands if not millions do it all the time.
  • Oh yea its very possible, but recovery times vary from person to person. I being the most extreme case. Don't let that discourage you though. Just kept yourself busy with other stuff like now.
  • I'm thinking offhand, at very least 95% of the human race has survived it since the beginning of time! And sometimes even more than once... So yeah, the odds are definitely in YOUR favour! Kind wishes to you.
  • yes it is. it takes time but it is possible.
  • without a doubt.
  • i'm living proof
  • It sure is :)
  • YES, I promise
  • Yes, but it can take a long time. The important thing is never give up and know that happiness is in your control-----it is not dependent on others.
  • I think you can...I was heartbroken over a guy, and found happiness on my own, and then when i least expected it and was happy being single, someone walked into my life...but it takes a lot of mr.wrongs to find mr. right and happiness...because that guy who walked into my life NOW has recently broken my heart...so i hope i can find happiness again, because i have been experiencing serious depression.
  • Honey, firstly.... do yourself a favor! 1. STOP contacting him / her ASAP! No emails, no calls, no im, no sms, no hand written mail… NO NOTHING!!!!!! 2. LOOK at the woman / guy that you've become??? I mean seriously what happened to you? Since when did you "need" someone sOOOOooo MUCH to feel whole and complete as a person!??? you came into this world on your own didn't you? Now... trace back... can you remember the woman / Man you were before you met your ex? MY GOSH!!!! Run back to that PERSON claim back your independance and.... 3. Celebrate your new found FREEDOM! Do everything you wanted but couldnt do while you were with this person.... pick up on your old hobbies! etc.... learn a new skill. 4. NEVER EVER EVER >>> RUN AFTER YOUR EX, STALK HIM OR HER, TRY TO MAKE THEM JEALOUS! Dont waste your time trying to conjure up ways of winning them back etc as this will only break you down as you find yourself alone and all your attempts were in vain... also, it strips your relationship from its real worth… if you loved your ex or cared about them… I mean really would you degrade yourself and your relationship by being to emo, mope, be clingy, needy, crazy, stalker, nutty etc etc…. I think not…. Your' just gonna push your ex away and solidify their decision…. "THANK GOD I LEFT THIS CRAZY NUT!!! I'M GONNA STAY THE HELL AWAY!!!" (And I don't think that you want that now do you????) 5. DONT! waste your time on worrying about YOUR EX or / and his ex / now girlfriend / boy friend... dont try to cause any crap between the two of them and definately dont flaunt it that your ex is your ex.... just be nice :) polite, and if you can let it go to… tell him that you respect his decision and wish him all the best…. You will feel so much better… it doesn't mean that you are over your love but it will show them that you respect them enough in the decisions that they are making without causing a scene without trying to control or manipulate them…. And that means and says a lot to your ex partner….. ….. if she's / he's (your ex's new partner) is hostile towards you.... their the ones looking like the bitch... SO BE NICE!!! Why must you hate them, they are basically doing what you once did… and that was be you ex's partner….. & I know you know better…. 6. If you can trust yourself well enough to be his friend then by all means = DO IT!!! but don't! don't! don't! get caught in Friends with Benefits aka F.U.K Buddies…. Seriously get some self respect (YOUR NOT A BOWL OF 2 MINUTE NOODLES and in some cases "1"…HELL NO!!! Don't let them think that you should be kept around for instant relief when their feeling peck'ish & hungry) and who would want to do something so intimate with someone who just left your ass for someone else and to top that for a TOXIC RELATIONSHIP???? Where's the sanity, ofcourse they've unresolved issues & one could sympathize but think about it this way my babes, if your partner couldn't realize what they had with you…. WOW!!! Then they really aren't emotionally mature enough to have a serious and meaningful relationship! With anyone for that matter…. 7. Get out there & MAKE NEW FRIENDS! (don't use your ex's friends and fam to get to them…. Unless you want to lose them all) 8. Don't jump into a relationship because your ex is with someone…. You need to grieve your loss…. And its okay to cry and have a "WOW is me…. I'm all alone with no partner… because my partner left me for someone else BOOOOOO HOOOOO!!!! I MISS THEM SO MUCH! COME BACK TO ME COME BACK TO ME PARTY!!!!! (witchcraft is not allowed) 9. DO NOT DO DRUNK DIALLING STAY AWAY FROM THE PHONE!!! If you know that you are prone to such things switch it off and give it to your mates if your out at night… alone at home and pissed….switch em off, take out your sim cards… no amount of convincing yourself that it's the right thing to do at that precise moment in time is gonna justify how CRAP! Your gonna feel when you put that telephone down after you hear what they have to say…. As it might definitely be WHAT YOU DON'T WANNA HEAR…. 10. RETAIL THERAPY! …… phewwwwww…. Alright guys and girls…. That's me in a nut shell…. My ex and I have been apart for a month and a half yes he went back to his ex the very next day… but we both now what we had with each other…. Unfortunately I had to stay in contact with him up until last week because of certain things we had to sort out… but I lived by these thoughts in my head the day he told me it was over….. And I don't regret it… as I'm not hurting myself… Im moarning my loss and they don't know…. And its always best to hold your head up high! Think about…. (",) I know its hard and I know its painful it tears at your very being and consumes you whole.... please remember the person you are at heart.... STRONG!!!! I am seriously open to hearing from anyone who needs a "friend" to talk to etc…. So please mail me: beatyoureheartout@gmail.com
  • LATELF I HAVE WONDERED THE SAME QUESTION....IM STRUGGLING WITH AN AMAZINGLY HARD BREAK UP. I WAS WITH ME EX FOR OVER TWO YEARS, WE WENT THROUGH SOME VERY TOUGH SITUATONS TOGETHER GODD AND BAD. HE TORE ME DOWN ALOT BREAKING ALL MY TRUST OVER AND OVER EVEN IF IT IS MY FAULT BECAUSE IM THE ONE WHO KEPT GIVING HIM CHANCE AFTER CHANCE. WEVE BEEN BROKEN UP FOR ABOUT A MONTH NOW AND SINCE THE BREAK UP I GOT INTO A RELATIONSHIP WITH A FORMER FRIEND AND SUCH A GREAT GUY. SERIOUSLY MY BOYFRIEND NOW IS SUCH A WONDERFUL PERSON ALONE NOT JUST A WONDERFUL BOYFRIEND IVE KNOWN HIM A VERY LOG TIME. THE THING IS, WHENEVER HE TELLS ME HE LOVES ME I DOUBT IT AND I DO SAY IT BACK BUT IN THE BACK OF MY MIND I DONT BELIEVE HIM. MY REALTIONSHIP WITH MY EX HAS MADE IT EXTREMELY HARD TO TRUST MY PRESENT BOYFRIEND AND I FEEL BAD BECAUSE MY BOYFRIEND CAN TELL THAT IM STURGGLING WITH TRUSTING HIM EVEN THOUGH HE HASNT DONE ANYTHING FOR ME TO DOUBT HIM...HOW DO I FIX THIS?
  • Well, im in a relationship right now and i honestly don't think that... because its just that... I have been with my girlfrend for almost 2 years... and if i was to break up with her and see her with another guy.. there is no telling what i would to, probrably something violent.. thats one good reason why i would never break up with her, another is because i don't think ill find someone like her, because to me shes perfect... but im not sure that she feels the same anymore.. its an up in the air question.
  • yes!! and everything happens for a reason so leave da people in your past in the past because there is a reason why they couldnt make it to your present
  • I don't really no, I'm still waiting.
  • Yes it is, or we wouldn't have ex's.
  • Yes,but your view for happiness defenetly changes.

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