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Sure.. its been proven in the job world.. But can't do anything about it, unless you wanna butcher your face with cosmetic surgery. Everyone already knows this face, so I'm gonna stick with it
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Yes. But I always think that people these days think they have to get up the standards of what girls are like on tv. If you get a boob job / nose job makeover etc yes ul get alot of attention but would you rather be known as a girl who has a load of men after her cuz of her looks.. or a girl who is just her self. no fake.. just her and someone to love you for yr personality not features :) Sorry bit too long and detailed. thats my view anyway :P .. If people dont like that way you are.. TOUGH! you shouldent change for any1 but yrself.
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Sometimes I feel like if I wasn't blonde people might not assume I was stupid and actually listen to what I have to say....(maybe dye hair red...hhhmmm?)
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I feel that if I looked different now people would look at me different. People love me for who I am now and thats what counts the most. Everyone says I'm a big teddy bear.
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Yeah, I've felt that way quite a few times.
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I think that if I were taller, more girls would want to date me. Almost all girls that I would like to date are my height or taller than me. I think that girls dating guys taller than them is a natural thing and I don't take it wrong. Sometimes I've asked girls about this and they admit that if I were taller I'd have a better chance, but it's not that they don't like me.
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Oh yea and there isn't anything anyone can say to make me feel any differently about that. If I was a movie star and looking the same way, I'd have a line of women around the corner waiting to be with me. Money also has a way of making guys look "cute".
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I can look a little mean and intimidating sometimes. I think if I had a friendlier smile, people would be more comfortable with around me.
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I do think there's something to that. When I get a little bit spruced up to go shopping for example, I feel that salespeople treat me better. But that could also be because I feel better about myself and carry myself differently. So who really knows where one begins and the other ends? I do know however, that studies have been done showing so-called "good looking" people being perceived as having more positive traits and being more deserving of the better things in life because of it. Sad but probably true that they get them.
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Of course. I am sure that looking like, let's say, Leonardo DiCaprio or Catherine Zeta Jones will always make you popular and give you an advantage in life.
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I dont think so. I wouldnt really know, cos I dont look different :)
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I feel that because people see me as good looking i get treated poorly. Woman are mean to me and I have to go out of my way to warm them up. Men are just creepy and call me "Hun" that makes me feel like they think i'm some secretary waiting on them or something, treating me like I'm an idiot. I've had people tell me that they thought i was a total stuck up bitch before getting to know me. And I must say that is hurtful because I feel as if I am outgoing and loving as i can be towards all people, i am reserved because I have a bit of shyness still in me and this is mistaken for being a "better than thou" attitude. I've been told by my b/f's best friend that before getting to know me he didn't know what Ryan saw in me because my b/f is Uber smart and he just thought i was some ditsy girl. I think it's my humor that gets mistaken for being dumb rather than just joking around. When someone is trying to insult me they call me fake because I have breast implants. They see that as a sign of stupidity or something. LIKE i can't like having them??? Sheesh
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Maybe, but is that the reason I want them treating me better?
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If you didn't look so hot women would treat you better I imagine lol. Or I don't know I have an imagination. Anyway, no, I actually don't recall ever thinking that about myself.
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This is a difficult question to answer. I truly believe that ppl will be ppl, regardless, and will act according to their own behavior. Because I'm an optimist, It's my goal to be the change I want to see in the world. I could probably write a book on this......but no matter how well you treat ppl, you can't make everyone happy. So, don't try to. And know when to draw the line. We only have one life to live. Might as well make the best of it. It's like karma. Everything good comes back to you. (Thanks to my strong liberal arts background....i'm virtually a humanitarian teacher.)
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Yeah. How do you think I feel when I walk up to a door for a signature package? It's some people's fantasy to have a top heavy gal deliver packages to they're door. Some women scowl at me! Some men give me invitations, Old ladies invite me inside for cookies :D haha!
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NO....Because very few ever even see me. Kind of like I put on my PROFILE...................M.C.S.
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I know I would be treated better if I looked different, but oh well. It's not my problem if other people are shallow, right? It's theirs.
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Depends, what if i turned pretty to ugly, dont think they would treat me better anytime soon lol. But sadly in today's society, physical looks seems to be all that matters to majority of the people.
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All the time.
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How about if I looked better, people would treat me different? As I get older (and I don't mean into my 30's, 40's, or even 50's-I mean older) I am treated differently, not better, not worse...and I'm not sure looking "better" means looking younger.
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Being that I am a Heterosexual married male working with 90% of gay clients I see a huge difference in the way I am treated or looked at by the way I dress or appear. If I grow a full beard, even if its well trimmed I will in some cases get the cold shoulder from clients. Its the same when I dress. I'm sure if I was a big burly guy or a skinny fragile guy I would get different reactions from anyone.
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lol...y'know Stewie likes big breasts ^_^ he could suck on them all day long. When he's done, they will be mini boobs.
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Yes, I feel that if i worked out and got abs that ppl would accept me..
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yes,If i was about a hundred pounds skinnier i would be looked at more differntly,i am working on changing that. I have joined curves and have lost 13 inches in total since i started. I am working on the pounds next.
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Honestly, yes I have felt that way and this is coming from a 30+ year-old woman.
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Sure! That is one of the major causes of prejudice on this earth - what we look like.
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somewhat. maybe at first impressions and i was skinnier, prettier, lighter eyes, i'd get treated better. but then that's shallow and i probably don't want to be arond people like that in the first place
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Oh and by the way why did you ask that question? I am asking because you are a very pretty girl.
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