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Definetely not. Usually when my boyfriend tells me to do something and it sounds like an order, i just give him a look and he usually gets the hint and asks me nicely. I'm not a dog, and will not obey to his every command. He knows I find it disrespectful.
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No I don't think I would
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No. I would "flip off and walk out" though.
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Never!!
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Unless I thought there might be a good reason for him to say this other than for my actual performance of the action, I....I might have to kill him...
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No, definitely not! I am a woman, a human, and deserve respect. And the only one who can tell me to shut up is my mommy. LOL But seriously, he knows better than that. If he ever said anything like that to me he knows that I wouldn't go down without a fight!
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No, and they better be joking.
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We'd be over. I won't put up with that.
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Not until I got to his funeral;)
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Me and my big mouth would say..."Why don't you try and make me"....and then go grab my trusty bat in case he tried:)
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Yes. If I didn't I could get b*tch slapped and she might dump me. I wouldn't take my chances :D
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Does this involve a riding crop?
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Yeah, right.
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Sure then I'd get up one minute later and keep blabbing away.
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I would be so shocked, that yes, I think I would, on the assumption that there must be a very, very, good reason.
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Sit down and shut after being "ordered" to do so? Never! After being asked nicely? Sometimes.
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yes i would.anyone whom i allow to speak to me in that manner loves me and old spunts would do anything for some loving.
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I consider myself a shy person so I don't talk much...so if someone told me to "sit down and shut up" I probably would keep talking...Hey, if I'm on a roll, don't stop me!
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Only if I was about to get attacked by a snake or something, otherwise forget it. How rude!
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If he was serious about it, HECK NO. No one tells me what to do, they can ask me but not order me expecially not in that manner. But my boyfriend would never talk to me that way so i have nothing to worry about. :D
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not without a good reason.
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Dood totally! I bet a spanking is probably coming up next <<SMACK!>> "Hot tamale!"
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I'd tell - WTF?
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My wife knows better than to pull that kind of crap with me.
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If he was serious, we'd be finished.
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If I thought it had merit I'd do it. If I decided it was bull I'd stand up and say so.
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Hell. No. He'd get an earful from me, if I could stand to look at him long enough after something like that.
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lol...lol if thats all she said to me I'd think shit got of lightly this time ...lol
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Yes, and then I would expect to be pounced.
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I would. I'd be mad. Secretly I'd like it. A part of me kind of like to be told what to do. Even if I act mad. But shhhh nobody knows. :)
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Telling a woman to shut up is a bit like herding cats... utterly unfeasible ;-p
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Hell to the NO.
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I would look at him like he's some sort of alien - and definitely NOT sit down and shut up! People like that scare me -- it's about trying to control someone and if anyone watches the news, you'll know it seems to be 'open season' on women.
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I highly doubt it.
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He would never tell me that. He never ever told me to, even when it was obvious I should. If he would I would be suprised and thought he is maybe posessed by some unexplained forces. Really...
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I think so- if they needed to say something that bold to get my attention, I just might. Though, depending on my mood it might make me talk more. I guess I'll find out if it ever happens. :P
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sit down in utter confusion
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Only if silence was needed IMMEDIATELY for some emergency - car wreck, mad killer attempting to find us, etc. If that wasn't the case, he certainly wouldn't be saying something like that to me again. That's indicative of a high level of disrespect that just is not compatible with my idea of a relationship.
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Id tell him where to go lol definatly would not be doing that!
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Maybe. Depends on the situation - sometimes saying something like that is the only way to get a chance to say your piece, so fair enough. I'd get pissed off if it happened a lot though.
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Probably do what they say. It would of course depend upond the circumstances. Obviously they would be really upset about something and I wouldn't want to make things worse.
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although humorous I was a bit shocked at most of the answers here. Those who would take offense when someone they are suppose to have built a trust with, could even think the reason there mate would use such a tone would be done in nothing other than for good reason. Honestly the best thing to do in a case like this is do what your told when your told until the reason has presented itself. This action alone could save your life. I served in the military and was on a ship and seen what disobeying orders can get you. while standing on a ship a cable snapped loose and the only orders we heard was face the deck meaning drop down with your face to the deck. One guy decided to hesitate which cost him his life. Here's my point when someone tells you something in a manner which may seem rude and demanding it is most likely because they are in a mad panic to see results. You can always question the reason after but you should never buck up against something until you know the reason behind it.
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Probably, then think "WTF?" and bask in the utter confusion that he would say something like that. He's not the ordering type, you see... so there had to be a good reason. I trust him.
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I think he had a dream he could do this because when he tried it always made me LMAO! Hysterically! ;) I can hear it now.... You sit down there, right now little Missy before I have to bust your a*s! LMAO
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Yes. In my case when someone does that to me, there is usually good reason for it.
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I would realize I had made BIG MISTAKE......and so had he:-)
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I'd probably look around and say... Are YOU, talking to ME? hahahahaha If yes it would be a perfect time to try my new stun gun, and then runnnnnnnnnnnnnnn for my car. hahahaha lol. Thanks for all the great answers!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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I don't think i would but i guess it depends on the situation.
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probably not. ordering me around would likely make me do the exact opposite! ...unless that was part of some sort of foreplay; that's a different story entirely.
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Depends, Is it playing or is it real? Playing I'd act like a good little boy and sit down. Real-bitch get the fuck out of my house before the cops have to get involved.
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I would sit. I know my partner and he would never tell me to shut up unless it was something very important and I know that he respects me.
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not until i make him shut up and sit down first. hehe.
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I would tell him that he doesn't need to talk to me like that AFTER I slapped him! LOL
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I'd do it, pretend to listen through the whole thing and when it's over, get up and say "I'm sorry, did you say something?"
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Ask him what kind of drugs he was on as I remove his kidneys through his anus.
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My wfe could pull that off with me but if I did it, oh my ---! I'm not with her now, and I can die happy now.
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If anyone told me to sit down and shut up, they'd never see the light of day again.
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Uh.......yeah, probably. Why? Because that would be so out of character for him to do.
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NO. what am i? his bitch? don't think so. if he has something important to say then ask nicely.
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why should i listen 2 him????does he owe me???of corse not...he has no right to tell me what to do in not his slave...i was born 2 b me n not 2 b controled by my bf...this question shouldn't even be asked..
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Absolutely. She would never talk to me that way unless I was being a total arse.
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Sure I would and right on her face.
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No I would response by saying. "Who the hell you think you are talking to." Then I would tell him to have some kids and tell them to sit down and shut up, because I'm not your child for you to be talking to me like that...asshole.
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De-jewel him. Really though, I'd bust his face open. I'm violent.
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yeah i would because if he said that he must really mean it...he's not one to yell
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Whatever you say, dear.
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Maybe, if it wasn't a regular thing, you know? Maybe i wasn't listening and needed a wakeup call.
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Only after I walked out of his or her dis-respectful and pitiful life. The Doctor
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Only if she was butt naked and about to crawl on top.
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i would punch his teeth out! aint nobody talking to me like that!
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depends, was i being an ass before hand? then yah i would. am i talking and my b/g/f wants me to sit down and shut up so we can make out? than yes. am i just having a conversation and they just blurt out angrily sit down and shut up. I'd be surprised, then i'd find if they just had a bad day, and want me to make it better. If bad day me make it better, than sure. if bad day and they are just an ass. i kick em and leave. aka no i wouldn't let them get away with out and apology
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i would beat the living hell out of him. no man is going to talk to me like that. and i come from a family of six brothers so i know how to lay it down.
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heh women can control me easily... *cough* ashley *cough*.... so yea i would.
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Nope ..I would leave him :-) !
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Yes. Arisztid would not tell me that unless it were necessary. And if he said those words,like that, I'd know it was urgent.
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i would hope it would be urgent and of serious matter if not i would probably get really pissed off and wonder who this person was and why is was with them.
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I kind of get a turn on from such behaviour, although I'm guessing if the relationship was serious enough then I wouldn't. After all they say that masochism is only fun as long as you're pretending, but having no backbone I probably would, but damnit they better have a good reason for being this rude.
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It would be over if he was serious because I deserve respect and so do you.
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depends on what their tone is, if it's a sit down and shut up because i have to tell you that it's over, you sit down and shut up. If it's a sit down and shut up because your being annoying and i am trying to tickle you don't.
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no bf of mine would tell me to shut up, he wouldnt be my bf anymore.
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I might - if I felt like it :p
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If they would still love me,yeah.
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ROTFL...........what do you think?
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If she's wearing a super-hot corset and thigh-high boots, thats a definite yes. Any situation outside of that scenario would result in laughter and non-compliance.
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No way.
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No. I'd walk.
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UUUUMMM, I dont think so. When someone orders you around its control and they are probably abusive and you should run for the high roads.
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i would be like HELL NO! you sit down and shut-up lol
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Sure, I'd like to find out what's so important that they would risk me never seeing them again.
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My boyfriend is a pushover who always lets me in, he'd NEVER do that, so I figure if he ever did, I'd probably deserve it.
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If it was a heated debate and I was out of character and creating a mess due to anger/frustration I could probably chock up a statement like that. As just something to say in effort to get me to do that as I was communicating with him, um, no. Hopefully I am controlled enough (internal control) to refrain from acting/talking in such a manner that someone would want to actually say that to me...of course, I could be dating a complete jerk but I don't think I would have a b/f that would talk to me like that...certainly it would be a deal breaker if he started to.
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I think that would be the end of any relationship. No is ever going to talk me with such disrespect again.
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NO!
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Depends on if he was being playful or not.
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No..i'm not very good at doing what i'm told.
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Hell no.
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I'd be surprised but also have to consider what made her that way. I mean, if she's had an incredibly rough day and my slightest mistake pushed her over the edge, I'd sit down, shut up, listen to her, and if she lets me, try to calm or comfort her afterwards
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eh no i dont think so! i wouldnt let a boy treat me like that! cara x
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Yeah I would, then we would have a "discussion" about that kind of behavior.
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ya why not,but afret that i will give a writing note that you also sit and shut up with me...he he he
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