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  • I never really understood this because men tend to be competitive. Not that women aren't. But yeah, nobody likes feeling like second best. So there really is no point to be playing silly games.
    • officegirl
      Thank you. Men value us more and tend to be more interested in us when they know other men like us and are interested in us. Otherwise after a time they sort of take us for granted and we are not so special any longer. So yes a game but one I have felt the effects of even if I never really played it. But a lot of men, or perhaps certain kinds of men, if they think they might lose you to someone else, or just to I guess "compete" and feel they are "best", become more attentive when they know someone else , ot others, are interested. My husband did not have sex with me for months until I started seeing someone I met through work (he works for a client company) and was not playing games but just wanted to feel attractive and desired and was not anything serious because we both are married. But since then, in January, my husband and I are together sometimes twice a week which is great for me. He knows I would never leave him but he thinks OK she is with a man and they are doing it and that gets him imagining mentally and thinking about me in a sexual way. OK I understand you would not respect that but that is that seems to be a reality of my situation for better or worse. At least at present.
  • I think this applies in all relationships and sometimes friendships. When people see that others value you, they tend to appreciate you more. I see this with my kids in kindergarten and elementary school. One of my kids tells me that a friend isn't playing with them, I say "that is okay, so you need to make more friends and go play with them." I realize that I'm over simplifying a complex as marriage. Avoid games. Appreciate yourself and establish healthy friendships and hobbies. Options, Options.
    • officegirl
      Thank you.

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