ANSWERS: 27
  • No, it probably eat at me, now if they try to say they love me again, I wont believe them.
  • No because i wouldnt expect a full grown adult to come out with something like that, whether its during an argument or not - id have to discuss it further
  • Yes, because I know he really does and didn't mean it.
  • NO, it would take time and a lot of work.
  • No you are talking about your mate and not just some date.
  • Prolly, things like that happen in arguments, and as long as it doesn't turn violent I can deal with it.
  • After 36 years...your question ran cold chills through my body. It never happened, either way. I don't think such was ever even thought. Few could even begin to understand the love and devotion we share and have always shared. We say "I love you" at least 20 times per day...always have. Today, mine is said clearly. His is somewhat "mumbled"...he suffers late stage Alheimer's disease...but I can understand what he is trying to say. Sometimes he even says it first...even though he no longer "knows" me, as such! That's OK...he knows that whoever I am, I'm here to protect him and mollify that constant, horrible confusion.
  • no i couldnt, it must have some truth there or it wouldnt have even thought about saying it let alone actually saying it.
  • Yes because its the heat of the moment. people never think while fighting they say what thye know will hurt even if they dont mean it. just make sure you patch it up by finding out it really wasnt what they ment
  • In my current relationship its a common occurence. I pay little attention to it because whether she does or not is no longer important.
  • If such a thing were said to me i would seriously question the relationship and i would feel that i could not trust his story, if he changed it in the future.
  • People say things that they don't mean when they are angry but I think if that was said to me I wouldn't be able to forget it no matter how hard I tried. That is a pretty serious thing.
  • No, some things are just off limits in an argument. This one I would remember. Beginning of the end so to speak.
  • It would be hard to forget
  • No! Don't forget it because sometimes (not always) the most true feelings are exposed when angry. My ex told me he didn't want to be married anymore in an argument. I blew it off. Two weeks later he kicked me out. I wish I would have paid more attention to what he said (not that it would have changed the eventual outcome) but still...
  • i dont thing i would cause those are some strong words, but i would first question why he would say that.
  • yes she doesn't love me, this is the truth. me too I don't like her. . .. ... we are mad about each other :-) we are dying for each other :-) Love is less than what we have. so forget this word. hehehe
  • Never!
  • I couldn't forget that - ever
  • Hell no
  • Not at all!
  • No, never..that is unforgivable. Many a truth is said in the heat of battle. That would be a dealbreaker. If he did not think it he could never have said it. There is no mistaking the meaning. There is no apologizing or taking back such an ugly thing.
  • A cut so deep will leave a scar, and scars are unforgettable
  • Never. Because words like that aren't just the result of verbal diarrhea. They have some kind of truth.
  • Nope. My s/o told me that once about a year ago because of some complications going on between us and sort of as an escape from it, she told me she never loved me/didn't love me anymore and to this day, even though we're happy now and things are great, those words (coming from her) have just scarred me.
  • Its hard, My wife is a great one for saying things I know she doesnt mean, It doesn't mean they don't hurt. She used to hit me, Thank god she's gotten over that. I get Beat up and Yelled at all the time at work, I try to explain to her I dont need it at home too, but its amazing what you can get used to.
  • not forget about it but would have to talk about it after things calmed down.

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