ANSWERS: 100
  • Slowly, slowly back away. Go and lock myself in the nearest bathrooom. Later, ask why the hell she couldn't strangle my family instead.
  • by dumping them. maybe turning them into the cops.
  • With a big evil grin on my face, I would strangle her slowly until her eyes popped out. I would then sell her body to be used in cat-food. *Manic Laughter*
  • i would ring the cops on him if i didnt kill him first i dont have cats but i have 3 dogs and it would break my heart if anything happened to them they are my babies.
  • I would call the police and get out of there. It's horrible to get rid of someones pet, and illegal to engage in animal cruelty. but to actually kill an animal with your bare hands is really scarey. Really scarey. Call any social worker, psychiatrist, therapist, you don't even have to talk to them, just ask the receptionist. If this is a real question, and not just a hypothetical, please get away from that sadist. This person destroyed your loved one, what a show of contempt and disrespect for you. They also killed a living creature for no reason (could have taken to SPCA or even dumped near a farm in the country). Even people who have to kill animals, say farmers, don't do it with their bare hands. That bastard (I assume it was a guy), looked right at your cat, right in it's face, saw the fear and the life slip away. that's a sick person. GET AWAY!
  • OMG ((AR))) Stop blaming yourself by not seeing what a monster he was, and is. We dont always see things for what they are, but for the way we wish they were. We can all say "if that were me I would have.." Truth is, we are not you, we were not there. You did what you had to do at the time. Looking back will make you crazy. I did that regarding my EX for years, but now I cant, it was not my fault. Also what HE did, was NOT your fault. Just be thankful he will be out of your life SOOON!!
  • WHOA, he actually did that???! First step: Strangle him. Second step: Call cops. Third step: Run like heck. Well, at least, that is what I would feel like doing. I think I probably would tell him what a sicko he was, and that I liked him less than I liked intestinal parasites (that's saying a lot). Then I would call the cops and turn him in, leave and never look back. AR, on reading the thread of comments on nevets's answer, I've been able to get a little backstory here. It's a shame that women constantly find themselves making excuses for men who are actually not worthy of anyone's time. It sucks that you had to go through this. I face a similar situation right now. If you want to talk with someone who commiserates with you, at least a little bit, I am here...good luck. Take that jerk for all he's worth - you don't owe him anything.
  • What? Wait... did this really happen? I think I would strangle my partner's neck, no joke! If they would do it to an animal, think about what they would do to a baby!
  • There's a reaction for every action or An eye for an eye or paybacks a b*tch.Any one of the quotes works for me.My motto is,if it has beating heart and you harm it.Sorry about your luck.
  • I just read all the other answers, and I'm so glad to hear you got away from him. I had a partner "get rid" of the kids cat, while we were away visiting family, just before we ended up splitting. He swore the cat must have run away, but it never did before. I didn't believe him but had no proof so just had to accept the answer. Anyway, Good For You! And good luck with whatver life brings your way!
  • I think there is more issues that need to be address besides the cat killing. I would have to say this guy has issues of his own and I would hate to see what he can do to a child it he felt the need. Leave him now really do you wan to be next.
  • I'm not sure how I would react. I know that I would be mortified. I suggest you get a restraining order if you don't already have one. It sounds as if he has some serious psychological problems.
  • You poor thing - and poor kitty! I would seriously loose my mind and probably stab that person so they were unable to fight back and then strangle them while I said "How do you like this! This is what you did to Kitty - pay backs a b*tch, m-f-er!" Then move to another country .....
  • AR, did this happen to your Birman? If so, I am so unbelievably sorry. If this is just hypothetical, I would freak out at the admission that the cat was killed by a slow and painful death. Oooh... this question is giving me the creeps.
  • Dump him, but not before I kicked his butt for killing my innocent kitty. Also I would make sure he got some help, willingly or court ordered, for being so cold as to have such a lack of concern for another life. Plus I've always been told that, that is an early sign of homocidal behaivor.
  • Jeffery Dalmer stared out young by killing pets. I would get as far away as possible from this dude.
  • They would no longer be my partner.
  • OMG I dont have a cat... but I would call the cops .. Immidiately, and I would probably be really afraid of him. People that do those kind of things are usually sociopaths or have some other mental dissorder and you should stay FAR FAR away!!!!! Hopefully you are not still with this person... I know there are always many factors in a relationship and you might try to help him through whatever he is going through. But this seems to extreem for you to handle, he needs psycriatric help. You dont just strangle a cat because your mad, there is something else going on in his head. If your still with him; Get him help and then leave! If you`r not; good for you and stay away! There are too many women who`s life has ended tragically because they assume the mother role and think they can help, if your so mesed up you will kill a cat, no one but a proffesional can help...
  • Firstly, I would break up with him/her. If I had proof, I would call the cops.
  • Did you know that it's common practice for murderers to start off with animal cruelty or killings. GET OUT NOW.
  • Oh .. somebody better pray for me because I would be doing some seriously foul damage to that partner. I would be devastated but very angry. I would wait until they were asleep and take a heavy skillet upside their head to remind them how it feels to be vulnerable. I would never see the sicko again.
  • return the favor a hundred fold, my cat is a major part of my life and my one confort, anybody messes with her, might end up in serious pain.
  • Animal cruelty for sure and fear of my own safety. Yes report him to the police and get as far away from him as possible.
  • She'd have to RUN FOR HER LIFE... I'm sooooooooo sorry! I thought it was a retorical question, but after reading answers/comments, I see you've been through a lot... I have also a cat (well, three, but one's with my parents, the other one's with my ex --she won the "custody", and just one's with me), and, really, if anyone does that to any of them, they'd better hide from me. I understand now a lot of your other questions / answers, and see a lot more of you... Life goes on, girl, really. I meant that in the other question, and I mean it here. There are JUST A FEW like your ex --thankfully, but there's a lot of good people out there, and here, that really care for you. If you need a friend --although a far away one--, please email me... I'll be here.
  • Strangulation is a very slow, painful and personal way to kill. The strangler must have enjoyed it, or lost complete control- in either case that person is a danger. Killing animals is just a step from harming humans. It shows a disrespect for life in general, and anitsocial tendencies. Turn him in to the cops, PETA, anyone who will listen.
  • Grabbed his neck and start squeezing. My cat is the closest thing I have or ever want to have to a child. I love her, and if someone harmed a hair on her head, there would be hell to pay
  • Did this recently happen to you? :S It depends on the circumstances really.. They would have to have a GOOD explanation for murdering my cat. Realistically, If they were willing to kill my pet without my permission, she wouldn't be my partner for very long.
  • I dunno, I'd have to see the you tube video. It might have been self defense. You have no idea what our barn cat is like. Edit: I really find it hilarious that people are rating this down, without even knowing our barn cat. Most of you would would stab it with a pitchfork when it was trying to remove your eyeballs. The question as stated is hypothetical in nature and is asking about your own cat..not the question asker's. I don't presume to know your cats, so as this is an opinion based and personal experience question, won't be giving any rates or comment to any of you. It's not my place to do so. Give my your address...when I catch the wretched thing, I'll send it to you.
  • i would tell them to get out of my life and question everything that person ever said to me
  • OMG...That is just sick,I am angry now,Get away from him ASAP!!!!!Anyone that could harm an innocent animal needs serious help.I would lose it.Seriously.
  • Leave him before it's too late. The only other 'person' I heard about who did this later murdered his wife, chopped her up, put her in a duffel bag and dropped her from his helicopter into the ocean.
  • Well the first thing I would do is laugh because i would probably think he was joking, then after I realise the truth I would cry, but who would'nt i think I could forgive him, bot he would have to have a good explanation
  • If this actually happened your partner needs help. You need to leave. Your partner needs to be seen by mental health people. And crime reported to Animal Control, police. But leave the asshole now. The asshole could make you next.
  • What do you want to do with your life scubabob? Anyway, it wasn't his cat and as far as we know it wasn't making anybody's life hell.
  • Get rid of the B****** PDQ. preferably in a Black Maria ( Police Van)
  • I dont think simply arresting them is good enough! Frankly, killing a cat is murder. I'd get the bastard and get'm good!
  • I would be highly tempted to strangle him. However, the relationship between he and I would be over. Actually I would probably kick his arse.
  • Honestly, I would probably do something that I would regret for the rest of my life......something that would make me end up in prison
  • I honestly don't know what I'd do...drop a dime on him or do it myself...put him out of EVERYONE'S MISERY. I do not usually think in such terms...but don't know if I could control my rage and sorrow if I could get to him while it was still white hot. This is one of the scariest things I've ever had to think about...aside from child abuse..and what I could be tempted to do to those sorts of bastards.
  • I would be pissed and seriosly consider leaving him
  • 1. Call the police. Even if it happened a few days ago, they'll take the report. 2. Get a restraining order, get them OUT of the house, and change the locks. 3. Sue them in civil court for the value of the cat. 4. Let their family know what happened. YOU won't be hanging out with this person in the future, but it's important that SOMEONE close to them knows what they are. In some states, murdering a pet in front of children is considered child abuse, a much stronger charge than cruelty to animals. In many states, murdering a partner's pet is considered domestic violence, even if the partner wasn't there at the time. Report this! And get AWAY from them, even if it means changing jobs and leaving town.
  • i would make him a cat poo pie, and then report him to the police
  • To say an asswhooping would be in order would be putting my emotions about the matter very lightly.
  • Say nothing but leave. Leave now. Leave while dialing the police. Go. Go. Go. Defcon 1.
  • i think i would have them committed. what kind of person would do that?
  • I would smack him upside the head and say "What the f*ck did you do that for?!!" Then I would tell him to leave me alone and never talk to me again. I have only read bits and pieces of what you are going through, but if I were you I would seriously consider a restraining order against him. If he will strangle a cat what's to say he won't do it to you too :(
  • He'd get the same.
  • I would immediately, and quietly GO! I would call the Police, contact a member of his family-if one were available, if not, I'd do it myself and have him put in a mental health evaluation facility. He needs to be away from all things living. If he did this to a cat, a human being, probably a woman is next. Included in that court order would be an exparte order of protection, change the locks, everything you need to do to keep yourself safe from this deeply disturbed individual. Then, cry for my cat's death--and NEVER look back. I believe you owe society, for the sake of your cat, to make this thing have a record.
  • I did some research. 90% of murderer's killed and tortured animals before moving up the ladder to humans. I suggesst you report him/her to your nearst humane society so he/she can be charged with cruelty to animals and punished. Then you can get out of thier or kick him/her out. Whatever ticked him/her off to kill a cat, one day that can be you!
  • I would leave immediately. Serial killers often start with killing small animals, and work their way up. Not all of them, but a lot. After I left, I would call the police and hope that they are charged with animal cruelty.
  • s**t happens
  • Call the animal protection league or the rspca for animal cruelty, kick them out naked and burn all their clothes.
  • I would think that was very bizarre and wonder if he had been under the influence of drugs. I would also be very angry!
  • Death would be to quick for the horrible person who could do that to a harmless animal. I think I would be tempted to put rat poisen in their drinks or food. Or cut their brake line but that would endanger someone else so prob just kill them. Wrap their azz up like a burito in their blankets & beat the heck out of them with baseball bat. Then runnnnn really fast, make sure u have all your belongings out first so u can make a clean & quick getaway.
  • I would get the person the f*ck out of my house -- after an ass whuppin'.
  • I'd call RSPCA and/or the police and get the hell out of there. That's just plain sick.
  • Call the police, MSPCA, and anger managment person after sitting down with him and finding out why he did it.
  • Sad Story. I just hope he got help that worked
  • I would smack him and ask what he was thinking. Then I would tell him to leave and never talk to me again!
  • WHHHAATT!!?? KICK THAT BYATCH TO THE CURB! Your partner has a serious mental condition. Your partner better be thankful to God and all that is holy their not my partner. Oh, that just burns me up.
  • I would be numb with sadness and a broken heart. I would immediately call the police and would never want to see or hear from them again.
  • Suspect serious emotional, even psychotic, tendencies or at least uncontrollabe rage, which if a pattern is a serious emotional disturbance. I would raise one cultural question; why are so many people (rightly) outraged at the wanton abuse of animals, but cannot see that the killing of an unborn child which happes to be 'inconvient' is legal, most are opposed, but still ascribe to "choice." Sick and irrational, but logic is not a strong point with many "rational" humans!
  • Suspect serious emotional, even psychotic, tendencies or at least uncontrollabe rage, which if a pattern is a serious emotional disturbance. I would raise one cultural question; why are so many people (rightly) outraged at the wanton abuse of animals, but cannot see that the killing of an unborn child which happes to be 'inconvient' is legal, most are opposed, but still ascribe to "choice." Sick and irrational, but logic is not a strong point with many "rational" humans!
  • Suspect serious emotional, even psychotic, tendencies or at least uncontrollabe rage, which if a pattern is a serious emotional disturbance. I would raise one cultural question; why are so many people (rightly) outraged at the wanton abuse of animals, but cannot see that the killing of an unborn child which happes to be 'inconvient' is legal, most are opposed, but still ascribe to "choice." Sick and irrational, but logic is not a strong point with many "rational" humans!
  • "OH MY FRICKING GOD! MY CAT! WHAT THE FLIP HAVE YOU DONE? I CANT BELIEVE IT! I LEAVE YOU ALONE FOR AN HOUR AND YOU KILL MY CAT! GET OUT! etc etc etc.
  • I wouldn't have a partner no more, I'd probably sabotage their breaks.
  • i would seriously pull like a knife on them no body EVER hurts my cats
  • I would call the doctor immediately as it is completely out of character, she must have had a breakdown especially as both are really her cats!
  • I'd be FREAKED out! And worried about him/her
  • put them in the hospital
  • I would call the police, report the atrocity, and I would terminate the relationship.
  • I think I would react in a manner that would have me imprisoned.
  • I would be terrified and make arrangements immediately to go to a domestic violence shelter. Someone who can brutally kill a helpless pet like that is a ticking timebomb!
  • I would probably kill her, I think people underestimate how much love people give to there pets. Animals are family members and if your brother or sister was killed the same way im sure people would kill the murderer, so just because it's a cat that died does not mean the act is any less significant.
  • Id go crazy on the mf!
  • Unleash the fury of about 200 pissed off cats on his ass.............Actually thats just crazy and all contact with him should be terminated immediately. You should wonder what else is he capable of?
  • He would be going do the highway. No excuses.
  • I hope it did not happened to you!!! I don't know how I would react, but I would probably be charged with assault.
  • I would beat him to an inch of his life.
  • i WOULD REACT WITH A LARGE HEAVY BAT SWUNG OVER MY HEAD.
  • That person dies. Slowly and painfully.
  • With a restraining order, a handgun and a profound prayer that they would ignore both and come knocking on my door.
  • After I had kicked them out I would wait for karma to kick in.
  • Make bullion? ;-)
  • I'd pull a Jason on his ass.
  • How dumb of him to let you find out. He could of said: I put out some food but the cat just disappeared. Was run over by a car. Must be out trying to find you. "Let's put up some posters and start a search, love."
  • First and foremost my partner would never strangle our cats. However she may strangle mormon or any other missionary
  • That's horrible! I honestly don't know how im going to react, but i try to remain calm! Because people that kills and torture animals are very sick!! Psychopaths in progress!! With those actions people demonstrate they're preparing themselfs to become serial killers and professional sociopaths! If you attack him while hysterical scream and cry that you're calling the cops, he might panic and harm you or wurse!! So i will stay calm and wait for the right moment to get away from him, and than call the cops!! I will drag his ass to court!!
  • Oh wow, I would call the police, the funny farm people and the kids and I would be GONE!! That's just insane!!
  • THINK: WHAT COULD A CAT POSSIBLY DO THAT WOULD DRIVE SOMEONE DECIDE TO KILL!?! LEAVE THE PSYCHO! YOU'RE NEXT!
  • I'd leave him. Before I wouldn't leave my cat with him in the first place if I knew he didn't like it.
  • React? By calling the police and getting the hell away from him. This guys a psychopath.
  • i would react in anger and pull a burning bed on him. ummmm hope this never happens i have just implicated myself.
  • I would be shocked since he loves cats more than I think is natural.. he is something of an Angela about them. I would suggest to the men in white coats that he get sectioned.
  • I would break both their arms and take a 10lb lump hammer to the backs of their hands ... and I am NOT joking
  • I would be so f**king pissed that I would dump him and not have anything to do with him ever again. I'm serious. I love my boyfriend and everything, but that is just going way too far. It may even be the first time he ever hears me yell at him. I doubt I'd hold back on the swearing in a case like that. Thankfully, my boyfriend isn't dumb enough to try a stunt like that.
  • oh this is sick! you should dump him, who knows who he will strangle next time?
  • I probably wouldn't react much until said 'person' was sleeping. Then its a good solid wack on the head with a hammer, rolling up in the bedding, and a merry little trip out to some desolate land I have access to. Add shovel, tarp, and lime, mix accordingly.
  • leave him or her could me you next.
  • Should be reported to the authorities! In most places animal abuse is now a FELONY. Also, get away from this person - he is obviously disturbed.

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