ANSWERS: 73
  • Of course not! It makes your wife or girlfriend an adulterer.
  • no....but it might make her less of a respectable person
  • No, for it reflects more on her than on you.
  • No, I wouldnt say it does. That has no bearing on your manhood, and anyone who says it does is either just messin with ya, or a total idiot.
  • hell no
  • I believe your manhood is MUCH less of a factor than her character. If she did it to you, then she would do it to him, and the man after, and the man after...
  • Absolutely not! Those are her insecurities she's acting on..nothing to do with you. And please don't ever let her make you feel like you caused it in any way.
  • Nope. Sex is completely up to the woman... otherwise it's called rape. The area where you might lose some masculinity is if you try and win her back.
  • Not at all.
  • no, not at all. it reflect negatively on the cheater, not the faithful partner. Ive been cheated on. i just see him as an unfaithful lying bastard, but i dont see myself as less
  • I think that, as painful and difficut as it it, being cheated on makes you more of a man?
  • No, but you might irrationally FEEL that way. I think it's because of a very disappointing little side of human nature that blames sexual wrongdoing on the victim, and the victim tends to selfblame as well. As a victim of a sexual misdeed you will have a completely irrational tendency to blame yourself and this is just something you have to defeat get over.
  • not at all. ive been cheated on a few times.... and it sux. but your more of a man since you didnt cheat.
  • no, but it makes that person less of a woman...or man whichever
  • Not at all. Just take a number and join the rest of us.
  • No it makes you lucky to catch her now instead of later. on down the line.
  • Not at all, but what you do as a result of being cheated on may.
  • Only if you accept the cheating. Otherwise, it's your ex's problem.
  • you getting cheated on doesnt make you less of a man. you getting cheated on and putting up with it does make you less of a man.
  • That is something you walk away from and NEVER look back my friend. To be coucolded is to be castrated. Do it once she'll always do it. Pity the next guy and find a nice girl. Good luck I got the only one in the world.
  • Nope, not in the slightest. It shows a lot about her though.
  • Not at all, your the innocent party here. Don't let anyone make you feel less because of their messed up actions.
  • only if you stay and let it happen
  • No, it doesn't.
  • No, in itself, it does not. Maybe you won't be aware of it at all, and it won't change anything for you. Maybe you could be aware that something is different, and try to understand why. But this does not make you less of a man either. Maybe you could find out that you have been cheated on. In this case, you could become an occasion to show your qualities in problem solving. In all cases, it would be better not to rely too much on others to build your self-esteem.
  • No, of course not if anything it only looks bad on her.
  • No if you stay with her it does.
  • Ok no it does not make you less of a man but there is always two sides to every story are you a good husband? Do you give here the love and attention she needs women do not cheat for sex they usually cheat for attention. I am not saying this is the case with you she may just be a whore I don't know. But if you really love her and you thought she really loved you what went wrong? She is wrong for cheating period I agree 100% there is no excuse what so ever for her actions.If you care you might want to find out why?
  • no shes the one who cheated not you.
  • No its doesnt, but it could if she comes crying back to you and you take her back. If anything, your more of a man for staying loyal etc etc.
  • No it does not make you less of a man, if you guys got some issues going on maybe you should sit down and work it out if it is worth it to you. Don't be a heal a second time.
  • No, it makes her a big skanky slut.
  • no course not!! unless it was actually an affair which went on of a while i really dont think most ppl mean to cheat. and if they did it still wouldnt make u less of a man
  • No it does not. Nor does staying if...and this is a big if...the cheater admits their mistake and works hard perhaps with the assistance of a professional to rebuild the relationship and re-earn your trust, staying together can be the right thing to do.
  • Yes. Why don't you just go buy a dress Nancy? No, it does not make you less of a man. It makes her less of a person. You didn't do anything wrong, she did.
  • No, it doesn't make you ANY less a man.. However, it DOES make HER very less a woman to hurt you and whoever else like that. Don't bring this on yourself at ALL..
  • no it doesn't -_-..... it makes the girl look like a big slut.
  • Only if you choose to believe that shit. If you dwell on it for too long you will eventually drive yourself crazy with all the "what ifs" you'll come up with. Dude, it's like anything shitty in life. It's all what you make of it. Learn to deal right now, cause shit always happens. You can focus your thoughts on whatever you choose. Your best option is to focus on the fact that she sucks. You don't want someone, however fun she was before, who sucks. Do you? Why bother thinking about it any longer then? Be grateful for all the fun you had, but also be grateful you learned this about her now rather than later. I feel your pain, but I'm just trying to help you man. Peace. BTW, if you do try to get back with her you're completely emasculated in my eyes. She certainly doesn't deserve as much.
  • No way, just human like us all. Remember what is meant for you won't go past you. I think it is so sad when this happens as it not only hurts physically, sick feeling, gut wrenching, but emotionally. The thing to remember is that most people have experienced it but not everyone is as honest as you are, your confidence is really hurt, but you are not any less of a person in anyway. Human nature being what it is, when you find your special someone your confidence will come back in abundance. I hope you feel better
  • Your being cheated on has nothing whatsoever to do with your being a man. What could possibly make you even think of something like that? If anything, it makes the one who cheated on you less of a woman. THINK about it!
  • Being cheated does not have anything to do with measuring how much of a man you are. What measures how much of a man you are, is how you handle the situation, and the lessons you learn from it.
  • If that were true there would be a world full of less than men. That which does not kill us makes us stronger.
  • Yes. Cheating is a symptom, not a cause. It implies something is wrong in your relationship.
  • no...you doing the cheating would make you less of a man... and her cheating makes her less of a woman.
  • If it was because you couldnt get it up, maybe. Otherwise, no.
  • No, but you could be having problems in your relationship. However, her cheating was not the right way to deal with those problems. Her choice to cheat makes her less of a woman.
  • nope, not at all. if you go too far with the way of hadleing it. It do make the person who cheated on you & who she/he cheated with less a person!
  • some ppl are never satified to one person they want 2 or 3 and cheat . others only want 1 person for ever or few mths and stay faithful not all ppl cheat .
  • No it just means she is less of a woman. How you deal with it after is what decides that.
  • The only way that would make you less of a man was if she was cheating, because you were beating her.
  • Hell no! Just The fact the you were cheated on and were able to take it, makes you more than a an than a lot of guys I know.
  • The cheater is less of a person but your only negative would be if you stay with a cheater. Once a cheater always a cheater.
  • No it makes your girl a bigger bitch. Also depends why you got cheated on.
  • It was her problem for cheating on you, not yours.
  • No. But were you aware she was the type of girl inclined to cheat on people before you asked her out? But at the end of the day, you will actually be more of a man, because you will learn from her actions, and maybe pick up on signals from potential cheaters in future relationships.. Yeah?
  • You can't be made "less of a man" by anything if you live your life with integrity, sincerity, compassion, and love. As long as you're a gentleman and respect your fellow man, NOTHING can undermine your manhood.
  • no. it makes her less and proves she is less of a person. the fact that it comes to that MIGHT indicate you MIGHT be lacking in relationship quality. but it only proves she is a crappy person.
  • no, it makes her less of a women!
  • no, it makes her less of a woman (or man) depending on you sexual orentation. cheating is fuckin stupid!
  • No, but if she keeps doing it and you don't leave her, I might have to reconsider my answer.
  • yes, it makes you a wimp if you havent already smashed the other guy's face in for embarrassing you.
  • Cheating is always on the cheaters, it doesn't make you less of a man being cheated on.
  • Only you can answer that, because only you can make it make you anything you want it to make you.
  • I don't think so at all. It's not your fault, anyway.
  • No, it makes your partner less of a man or woman.
  • I'm gonna say "no". Being the `victim`can is a growth opportunity. Life experiences serve to make us 'more' of who we are. I say that; because emotional maturity and "masculinity" go hand in hand, and having been cheated on is one of the experiences that while very emotionaly painful, is an example of the kind of challenge that will make you stronger, more compassionate, more knowledgeable about yourself and human nature, and ultimately more cautious. --More of a huMAN being-- You won't see it right away, but slowly over time if you shoose to grow form this experience, others will start to see it too in the development of strength in your character.
  • No, it's all about how you handle it.
  • im sorry to hear that and no it doesnt how should it affect ur manlyness if u get cheated on...
  • It possible you weren't being enough of a man, but this is a new moment, you can be anything you want.
  • You need to take your low self esteem and move on. If a woman cheats its not always cause the person she was with did not do the right thing but she did the wrong thing. You are as much of a man as you prove to yourself.
  • I say it makes her look like a slut. Cheating hurts.
  • Yes yes it does i'm sorry to tell you this.....Nah i'm just fucking with you no it means your gf is a back stabbing whore

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