Your partner has left you for a girl half your age, you found out he has been seeing her for 3 of the 6 yrs you were together, and she is now pregnant and they have moved to live abroad. There is no contact. How the hell do you cope?
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If it was me, I'd cry for a bit then take a deep breath and say to myself "if he's an idiot for not realising how amazing I am, then i dont want him"
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You need rebound sex. Lots of it. I'm semi-serious. Just continue with your life. Look for someone with a higher moral character than your ex. In the meantime, though, HAVE FUN!!! :)
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Even though it hurts extremely bad at the moment, you can in a way be grateful. He finally set you free from his world of deceit and now you can move on (when your heart is ready) and find an honest relationship with a guy who will treat you with the love and respect you deserve. Try to learn from this relationship and go into future ones with your eyes a little more open, but be careful not to let your heart get jaded. There is no reason to make a future boyfriend pay for this guys mistakes. They aren't all jerks. Hope you find a nice guy next time around. :)
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You cry,then you feel the anger of his deceit,then you think about years youve had together,then you sleep and when you wake up you see the sun that has brought a new day just for you,life will find you again.
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When someone leaves us, they do us a favor, even if it's difficult to know this right away. It's an opportunity for personal growth and change, so we can make a better choice next time. Generally, it's about self-esteem, self-worth. The stronger that is, the better choices we make.
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You cry, you rage, you think of how much time he has wasted, and then you work on yourself. Get a new hair cut, hair color, buy some new clothes and walk with an attitude. Before you know it, there will be a new man who will appreciate you for the wonderful woman you are and old what's-his-name living abroad with his pregnant girlfriend will be just a fading memory!
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He lied to you. He betrayed you. He cheated on you. He did not think of you when he picked up with someone else. Remind yourself of that. You'll get over him.
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Thank your lucky stars the OTHER WOMAN GOT THE CHEATER. Move on and find someone who want you and only you. Good luck.
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believe me you are better off - have some chocolate hon
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It sucks...let it and go and find someone new.....Be resilient....you ought not to waste time with looking backward, but rather forward.....unless you want to be the victim in this Kat
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realize that it was over way before it was actually over between you, and that you are better off knowing now and moving on. it was a relationship built on cheating and lies on his behalf apparently so the things you cling to, the good memories and such are really all falsity because he was deceiving you.
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Heres a saying that I love to go by, especially when I feel down. "When god takes something from your grasp, he's not punishing you, but merely opening your hands to receive something BETTER. The will of god will never take you where the grace of god will not protect you" You'll get over this scumbag, better her then you! You will find someone better.. Keep a positive attitude and keep it movinG! Good luck! And Don't look back
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Well, hope she's ready for him to cheat on her too. But honestly, I know 6 years is a long time... and really heartbreaking whenever it happens, but, be glad you didn't actually marry him before you found out. That would have been worse. I would probably suggest sometime to rest from it all. Go out with your friends or family to vent off. Don't do anything negative... it'll only make you feel worse. So just go have fun, and wait for the Mr. Right to come to your doorstep! :D
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First off allow me to say how sorry I am for the obvious pain you are going through. You cope by knowing that time will make you feel better. Unfortunately, no one can speed up time. You will go through a grieving process somewhat like a death - the death of your relationship. Nothing or no one can make this better for you. Just know that you are better off if he could not be the person you needed him to be. Good luck and best wishes. :)
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First, your self esteem is shot to hell! So this is what you do!!!!!!!! Soak your feet in nice hot soapy water, then paint your toe nails! Call your hair dresser, get your hair trimmed and high lighted, go buy yourself a new outfit something you love (expensive)! You are worth it! Then call some friends or just friend, go out and have a good time. Start doing this!!!!!!!!!! Begin to live again!!!! One step at a time! If it's possible see a counsler, get this baggage off of you. You are not the first and you won't be the last person this has been done to! YOU CAN MAKE IT!!!!!!!! You are strong, and wonderful, and a great friend and person.....and don't you ever forget it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!(((((HUGS)))))))
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What a douchbag, It's simple, what you do is thank the Gods you found out when you did (even though it went on so long), You didn't mention kids, if you managed to get away from him without any kids, theres another thing to be thankful for. Let him go, and (though its hard) don't look at it like 'she won' because she lost, she is going to be tied to this cheating asshole for at least 18 years, while you are free to find a good man who respects you!! Be thankful and go find HIM.
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Oh man, he's a prick, I thought mine was. I am so sorry that this happened to you sweetheart! ((((hugs)))). No one ever deserves that! Please try to keep busy and don't think about him. I'm certain taht this is ruining your normal way of life. Things will get back to normal though. I wish I were closer to you so I could give you a real hug!
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OMG, I have been typing and writing and talking about this school year as "2008 - 2009" and I'm very used to writing 2009, and hearing it! Man, I thought I lost a year somewhere! My husband was awful, hateful and mean to me towards the end. He snuck off to an attorney, without telling me. I received the divorce papers in the mail. He never even mentioned it! So besides being a prick, he's a chicken sh*t too.
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