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  • It all depends on the way he makes you feel. As long as he accepts you for who you are, makes you feel good about yourself, and you feel "home" when you are with him, then I would say it's worth a shot.
  • it all depends on how he fits with you, if he makes u happy and your personailties dont clash then its good to go with him, there are little things u can do to test him, ask him a personal question to do with ur beliefs see how he answers judge from there ask him leading questions that are deep and see where it goes
  • How he treats his Mother is a pretty good indicator of how he will treat you.
  • you both accept each other for who you are and not what you believe each other can be. That you are willing to earn each others trust without question. I was always told that in order to be happy you must make compromises and I just do not believe that. You should not have to change or expect the other to change to get along.
  • He is more caring and less self centered. Also, standards are a plus and a good memory.
  • Make sure that he is not me...
  • This may sound silly but I worked with a black girl in Tulsa Oklahoma who told me that she would only date men who liked her cat. She said men who don't like cats don't make good husbands or boyfriends. I had never thought about it but all of the guys I know who were divorced or bitter about women or had trouble with relationships were also cat haters. Might be just a coincidence but I did notice it after she told me that.
  • Think about the kind of person you would like to spend the rest of your life with? DO they have good solid qualities like kindness, respect for everyone, hard worker, motivated. Do you have many of the same interests, like each others backgrounds, religion or none, goals, future?
  • First step would be making sure that he's a male. a friend of mine, Tammy, went out with a guy for a few weeks, saw him like 4 times. I met him and pulled her aside and asked where her boyfriend was. She said that was him, his name's Jesse. I said, um...thats a girl. Turns out it was a girl, and she was a lesbian. After some awkward conversation, we all laughed. Jessi was short for Jessica, and she really did look like a guy, flat chest, short hair. But Jessi thought Tammy knew she was a girl. Tammy said, well, I still think you're cool and we can still hang out but I'm not kissing you anymore. 16 years later we are all still friends.
  • You mean in advance? You can't. You have to spend the time in different circumstances to see how he reacts/behaves. You can't go by looks..you can't go by how they are when you're at a party surrounded by others..you can only go be your experience alone with him, over time. It's always a crapshoot..sometimes you come up a winner, sometimes you don't. But it takes time. :)
  • Ideally that male should have the same attributes and with whom you have same connection as your best friend.
  • A male what? Horse? Platypus?
  • You like him.
  • Measure his tongue.

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