Possible, but not likely. She sounds more like an escort than a date.

She is extremely sweet, friendly and realy sounds and seems honest but ...

Now I ain't saying she's a gold digger, but two dates is a bit rich to ask for $300. Next time, say no, or better yet, ask her for a loan, and see how she reacts. If she's all cut up, she wants the cash and a sugar daddy to go with it.

it is not impossible that she may actually like you for you. age really doesn't matter in most cases. but what does matter is that after 2 dates she is asking you for money. there may be a perfectly reasonable reason for this but really its not appropriate for someone to ask for that much money when they just meet someone... you could be taken advantage of. women can be manipulative at times and they sometimes use their bodies and good looks to get what they want. if i were you i 'give her any more money.

someone else on AB asked a similar question .. on how to tell if a girl is a gold digger. One of the answers was something like "pretend you're deep in debt" like.. mention you owe money, lots of money (a white lie... but...it might work...just watch her reaction closely) :) good luck <3

The exchange of raw cash kind of gives it away, doesnt it? Ill let you take me out for a grand. Seriously though, did she legitimately need that money in a hurry and didnt know who to turn to? Have you seen her since? Is she going to give the cash back when she can?

For tips on how to spot a gold digger, scroll down to the bottom of this page, click on "How to articles" then type "gold digger" in the search box. There are a lot of great tips there.

I would be extremely cautious. Refuse any further requests for money and see how she reacts. Love isn't about money.

Leave this one alone, waterfire. Follow your GUT. It is already trying to tell you that this girl is not sincere. Please just move along.

i am glad you trust your new friend.

Simple way to find out. Just tell her nicely that you're not able to give her any more cash. See how that affects her disposition. $300 after two dates? My instincts tell me that she's seeing SUCKER tattooed across your forehead.

Hmmm, thin ice my friend. As mentioned before me, money plays no part in love. You're a good earner and you've built that up yourself. You need to suss out her motives for your future (if there is one?) first. Ask her to pay for a meal or two, or book a holiday and ask her to "go Dutch", watch her reaction. Play it cool if she refuses. Do this a few times and you will soon see through her if her motives are anything but honourable. She may be genuine, but I'd ire on the side of caution. Good luck.

Yes, it's definitely possible for people to be attracted to others who are much younger or older than they themselves are, I'm in a relationship with somebody much older. He's funny, extremely intelligent, caring and yes, I find him attractive. We have a lot in common. But I think you're right to tread with caution, don't do anything you're not comfortable with. You could even bring up your concerns about her requests for money. It might be awkward, but let's face it, she obviously had the confidence to ask to borrow $300 after 2 dates. Just don't doubt it's entirely *possible* she's attracted to you, and not because of your bank balance.

Wow, thanks for all the comments. I have a lot of experience with relationships but I ave never ever met someone that has attempted to take me for a ride dishonestly, this could be the first. She really sounds genuine but who would ever ask for $300 after 2 dates. These were more than just dates, we spent a lot of time together talking about each other. I just don't know. maybe she is just a little too sweet. I'll test her with denying her any further requests for money.

I feel it's like this, what have you got to lose? It's like gambling, don't give her more than you can afford to lose! In the mean time, have fun, enjoy each other. No one has a 100% money back guarantee! At any age! Either relax, and have a good time...........or it's not worth the trip!!!!!!!

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maybe you are funny and intelligent and dance good and arent a father figuire and other good characteristics that women see in men. maybe you said she could ask you for help if she needed it.

Does she want a relationship? Obviously, but is it with you or your money? So what did she ask for first? You or your money? And no, perhaps you aren't rich but you are definitely richer than someone who needs to borrow $300. Did she say what it was for? I think I dated my boyfriend two years before I asked him for a $100.00 cause I was short on my rent (me, single mom, 2 jobs, 3 kids). I think that the dynamics of this relationship have been established, she needs someone to pick up after her. Does she have kids and work 3 part time jobs? Or did she want to go clubbing with her girlfriends? Not to say it couldn't be fun in the meanwhile, but I know that I would be running if a guy I was dating asked me for money. Would you date someone who was 21 years older than yourself? Someone your other's age? The problem with being beautiful and sexy is that men have been tripping over themselves to get next to her, allowing her to learn to ride on her looks. Is is possible - Yes. Is it probable - No. This are always warning signs in the beginning of any relationship, trust your intuition.

it is possible but not when she asks for money so early in the relationship...i think you should leave her alone. I would have never thought to ask someone i just started dating for 300 dollars!!!! that's crazy!! and since you gave it to her she thinks she has that power over you since you are probably just grateful to have a young woman at your side! so she will get what she can since she's probably looking at you like your the one who is lucky she would even look your way!! run...run.. run

It's possible that she's really in to you, but I would say that asking to borrow money after 2 dates is a red flag.

sugar daddy

PLEASEEEEEEEEE! You are a grown man, 2 dates and then ask you for money. I just wonder how many other men she has done this to. Now that you have given her the money. What is next? Drop her,or wait until she ask again for some more money. If that is the only way you can keep this 23 yr. old around, and you want her around, give her a blank check, hey give her all your Visa, Mastercards etc. NO I'am not making light of this. Find someone who is closer to your age or a little younger, that has a good JOB!!!!! You know the right thing to do. Good Luck!

maybe she was a hooker

uuhh...two words, gold digger

No it is not possible. She's looking for a sugar daddy. Nothing more than that. DOnt giver her any more cash. She'll keep working you dude.

After 2 dates she has already asked you for money? Not a good sign..STOP giving women your money!! give them your time, affection, support, opinion, advice and even love..not money..thats usually the beginning of a horrible relationship in which you will pay dearly until you don't have any more to give..then..poof..she is gone :)

Well, she could be interested in a serious relationship with you, but....she sounds to me like a gold digger! Sorry.

Look in the mirror....now look up and down...OK that answers that, now go get you billfold and buy a video camera....you will need the memories when she is gone....

seem to be rich enough

Dude, wake up and smell the golddigger.

hmmmmm thats pretty good... y r u gettin tensed........u feel that she there with you not coz u compliment with her but due o some other reson......... se 1st of all dont underestimate yourself..... u r the most beautiful person on earth.... coz u have everthing perfect within u isnt it?your eyes.hands,legs etc.... look at those people who r suffering coz the lack all thse... i m telling you this coz u dont love urself..try to learn urself ....coming to your answer if she s beutiful and she with you then wts the harm. she likes you....listen and for money u r not a buisnesman just think over if she really wants money y wud she dated you she wud have dated some1 better and millionare.. whatever... cox she is sexy.. do u agree .... so if she took money did you ask her y she needs it,....if no then pleze you have the rite to ask her nt coz its ur money but coz ur her bf.... and make a tract of her personal life learn to know her more than rather to think and ponder y shes with me....thanx

To a 23 year old woman, a $100,000/yr income is rich (and well, most people actually, but especially someone young who hasn't climbed the ladder yet). I'd keep your eyes peeled because it is entirely possible that she is honest and into you. However, seeing as that you're probably rich in her eyes and she's taken advantage of that already - be careful.

Just enjoy it while you can, I kind of doubt that this will be a long term relationship but who knows. Just enjoy the day.

It's absolutely possible but on the second date wouldn't ask for money. That's just rude. As a woman, I have NEVER asked for money from someone I wasn't dating for many years, and even then it made me uncomfortable.

She's a playgirl and you are being played!Beware....

I wouldn't tell them what you make, $100,000 is rich to most young people, actually to women your age if you were here, they are lucky to make $50,000 a year with a college degree and working for 30 years. Only bigwigs and politicians reach that salary level here. And especially after she asked for money after a 2nd date, I never asked for money until I moved in with someone to help with bills. She might be "beautiful and sexy" but that's what you have to look like to get a guy that earns that kind of money usually.

That is a very good income. Why don't you spend a little of it on a background check on this girl. If she is independently comfortable and would ask a friend to loan £300 the way others might ask for £20, then you may have misjudged her, always assuming her money isn't supported by thin air in a way that suggests she never spends a dime of her own cash..... I don't think a basic one-day credit check like that would count as snooping - not like following her with binoculars. Please try to only have cards on you when you meet her, not loose cash, and if she asks then take the happy stance that if she has to wait for this 'insignificant amount' then she might as well use her own cash (because of course she has plenty, right?)

you're an idiot!!!! You gave someone you hardly know $300 after just 2 dates? You're foolish if you can't see - she's defintely in it for the cash. Otherwise, who would have the balls to ask for that sort of money after 3 dates.... Believe me!!!

Two dates already $300.00 tab. I figure she's charging you $150.00 per date, and that's after cost, dinner, etc. If you have sex with her, be prepared for a larger figure.

1) Wealth is relative. How much income does *she* have? How much does she own? 2) There are 5.63 % of individuals in the US who have an income of $100,000 or more. So you are not very rich, but you are among the 5.63% richest, as long as income is concerned. Source: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Personal_income_in_the_United_States 3) A sensible girl won't have problems with dating an "average looking" guy. As long as the looks are average, maybe she could have discovered some of your other qualities, and I am not just speaking about money, although this is certainly an asset. The age difference could eventually be a problem, but not necessarily. What was the reason she gave for asking you for $300? Does she intend to give you that money back? Just observe how this further develops. A possibility would be that she appreciates being with you but, as she sees that you don't have so many financial problems as she has, she considers it ethical to get a little help from you. There is a difference between being a little generous and letting someone take all your money.

Um did she ask for the money at the end of the date?

Wake up! She just wants your money! I met a 61 yr old man at work, we became friends and he told me about a younger woman that lives near him who ask hm to give her a ride to work and back everyday. He takes her to the grocery store, he takes her and her daughter to restaurants when she ask him to. I questioned him mre about this amd she evens makes him wait inthe car while she goes in the store, obviously because she doesnt want to be seen with him! She never offers to get him a plate of food when he takes her to the restaurant. I asked him why he continued to do this. I told him she is taking advantage of him. She doesnt offer to give him any money for gas, and he is still going out of his way to drive her around. That is a desperate man, not nice, desperate!!!! If this beautiful younger sexy woman asked you for money after two dates, this should definitely be a red flag for you! I've heard of many women, especially younger attractive females that take advantage of average guys all the time and it make me sick that men fall for it. They know you are lusting after them and wishing you could be with someone like them, so they use it to the hilt! Unless you want to give away your money and get nothing in return, then keep seeing her!

Uh oh..... Can I borrow some too?

Please be careful. If she can ask for $300 after two dates...oh my. If you wish to stay with her, be prepared to loose a lot more cash.

You are being played like a fiddle!!! Get rid of her. She's using you!!!

Everything is possible but can you imagine some decent girl probably of your own age group and everything asking for 300 bucks after 2 dates? I mean just ask yourself - Would you've given $300 bucks to an average looking 44 year old lady just after two dates? If yes, then may God help you and please send me a check of $100,000 too and I'll highly appreciate it even if we're not dating. I'm 27 by the way! And a guy!

Uh oh :( 300 dollars after two dates? I'm very sorry to say, but I think this little lady is using you. I'm in a relationship right now, and my boyfriend just payed my phone bill for me. I feel uncomfortable with him even doing that for me! Even though she's a hot young thing, I don't think you waste your time and money on her Good luck!

i think a good way 2 find out is, next time she asks 4 alot of monny, simply say, i'm srry but i can't afford it rite now, if she gets mad, she's in it 4 the monny, if she understands, she's in it 4 u.