ANSWERS: 100
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No, I couldn't.
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No.
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No way.
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Not me
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N O, no, absolutely not
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Nope, and it's for a selfish reason. The only person you are cheating is yourself.
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No, I couldn't do it. I wouldn't ever deliberately do anything that I know would hurt anyone I truly loved.
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NO. if you truely loved that someone. what kind of love would that be? to cheat on someone you truely loved? that my dear, would be 10000000% fake love.
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It would be impossible!
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when i'm that into someone i don't even notice other people around me... let alone want to even hook up with them!
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IF, it could benefit the "truly loved"....
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no way, cant be true love if you are willing to cheat
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Nope.
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No.
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No, my heart is too big, I guess.
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No. If you truely loved someone you wouldn't stray away from them for someone else. Your heart would only be for them.
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never. i'd feel dirty.
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No, but then again I wouldn't cheat on someone I didn't love either.
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Nope...and I would NEVER EVER cheat...even if I didn't love them. That is why you break up with the person.
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No..NEVER...think that is the LOWEST thing you could do to someone. Doing that makes you a VERY selfish person.
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No.
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i don't think that i could. 21 other people say the same thing. but, statistically, at least 7 of us will cheat on our partner at sometime or another. we all could fall from "grace" so easily. i forgave my ex-wife when i caught her cheating, but, she showed, eventually, her true colors and left me to do it again. i guess the key word in your question is "truly" loved, huh?
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no i couldnt.:-)+
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never. i lose attraction for all other girls, even the super gorgeous ones.. like yeah i'd notice their hot, but i wouldn't stare and i could easily decline them because once my hearts taken, it only belongs to that person and no one else.
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not with out feeling like I want to shoot my cock off after , but I would not anyway it will feel to horrible
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If your cheating you dont truly love the person sorry.
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Yes because im young you gotta live a little plus you cant be good all the time. wile the cats away the mice come out and play.
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I couldn't cheat on someone I don't love to begin with.
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If you truely loved them, you wouldn't feel the need to find satisfaction elsewhere.
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I had it happen to me once. I've walked away from bad car crashes that didn't hurt as badly as that did. I could never cause someone else that much pain. No!
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Definitely no. In my opinion, when you truly love someone, you don't care even if you are giving more than taking. If the partner doesn't feel the assurance, you will try hard to give it. If someone cheat, it means the love is not there. Doesn't care what that person will feel
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True love and cheating don't go together. If you cheat it is impossible that you truly loved your partner. Truly loving someone means you put their needs and their feelings on equal or greater footing than your own and you do all in your power to protect them from harm. Cheating goes against all of that and shows lack of care and concern for your partner. It also shows selfishness. How can one cheat yet claims to truly love their partner. It's impossible in my opinion.
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No :)
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HELL NO!
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I couldn't cheat on someone I didn't truly love. I'm not a cheater, and despise cheaters.
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I couldn't...nope.
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no..I'm not a cheater no matter if i loved him or not
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I have not and would not do that to someone, regardless of whether or not I loved him.
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no
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No, never have and never will. I'm not a cheater. But, I did end a relationship with someone who was a liar and a cheater. That's something I cannot forgive.
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I wouldn't want to do it, but I will not say that I absolutely won't do it.
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No, you dont cheat on anyone, if you love them or not, it is better to seperate than to cheat
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Nope, I couldn't cheat on anyone no matter if I truly loved them or not.
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No never my heart would melt with guilt !
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it depends, maybe if seduced you can fall for it. It's just as good as cheating isn't? Or if you are not satisfied with your relationship, you can.
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Yes and its very addictive when you know the person your cheating with is doing the same
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What is the difference between loving someone and truly loving them?
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nope. it's like asking if you could ever cheat on someone you truly are committed to..
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No, what goes around, comes around.
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No.
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No. I wouldnt even be able to consider it.
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I couldn't even cheat on someone I only liked! I definitely could never do it to someone I love.
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No.
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no i could never. i hate the thought of cheating and cheaters to the point it makes me feel ill if i think of an ex or past love! im a big softy at heart and could never intentionally hurt someone.
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it is in my nature but contrary to my charactor which made not cheating when I had the idea chance the biggest headspinner I have ever had.
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No.
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well the simple answer is yes but given the responses I think I will elaborate: it just so happens that I am in a very loving relationship in witch both partners "cheat" and both know that people like people. although I think that it is very important to COMMUNICATE if this is your choice!
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I'll probley be down graded for this answer but I was tempted once and only once. I thought long and hard about doing this to my boyfriend and decided that it just NOT worth it. I love him too much to even let myself be tempted by something so stupid ever again. Sadly in his case about me is I think he has on me and its REALLY crushing my heart, I always hear "F-him, you can do better" but I really do love him, sadly as time passes I know I love him enough to be with him.... just not enough to marry him. I don't think this will ever change.
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i have. and we're still together. i call that true love. it was a moment of extreme weakness, and you'll never understand how much i regret it. it killed me even more to tell my boyfriend, because i knew that it hurt him. i was watching the news with my friend. he was just hanging out at my house. all of the sudden, i saw a storie on the news saying that a man had died in a car crash. then they showed a picture of him, and i recognized him. he was the man that raped me. i was just so unbeleivably happy. you cant even begin to understand how i felt. so i just randomly kissed my friend. i didnt even realize what i was doing. thats all that happened, but it was still a terrible thing to do. i told my boyfriend imedeatly, and he understood. and we're still going strong.
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I could not cheat on my wife, although when I was younger I have cheated in previous relationships.I lost alot of self respect ,and gained alot of self contempt. My wife is to vauluble to me to risk for a foolish fling. I have to admit I DO cheat when I play board games with her .I have to,She is TOO Smart!!
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Yes... What if the one you loved didn't feed your soul. However, you loved him because he is your security and just a good man. Is it wrong to also see another man that does connect with you, that does light the fire of your passions. He may not be best for the future but he is able to bring another part of you alive. Should you give up passion for stabilty in your life?
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yes i think you could
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I already answered this but I have to elaborate. I said yes, because I think non-monogamy is a natural instinct. I think it is unrealistic to claim that cheaters are evil and rotten and if you love somebody you don't cheat. I think it is entirely possible to love more than one person and to feel attracted to more than one person. So many of these answers have said "no. it's not true love, so you should break up with the person". I disagree. I think that is a simplistic take on a complex subject. You also find non-monogamous relationships in the animal kingdom. The idea that you can date somebody and then shut your eyes to good looking people elsewhere is totally unrealistic. Just my two bits.
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no,i dont have to..im contented with him.even if i meet someone 10x good-looking than him.i wouldnt have the gut to cheat..
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never, he is my other half..like we exchanged portions of our souls to each other. He completes me.. no way am i going to risk losing the best thing that's ever happened to me :)
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No never. I would never cause anyone such pain. Love or not. If I wanted to be with someone else, I'd make my excuses and split from the person I was with first. Nobody deserves to have their confidence knocked and their trust trashed so badly. It affects the rest of their life. NEVER. Cheating is the ultimate sin in any relationship.
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NO....If you really loved someone, there is no way you can do that..Love and respect go hand in hand..I don't believe these people who cheat say that they loved their spouse and it was only a mistake, no way..
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no,..if you loved you only focus at her/him. you cheat because you don't love truely.
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I...and I hate to admit it but, I have cheated on some one that I do truely love. Its not something that was planned and if I could take it all back I would in a heartbeat. It wasnt worth it and it was never because I didnt love him...in fact it made me realise even more how much I cared about him and how much I wanted him in my life. I was stupid and he and I were going through some issues. I went to a guy as a friend to help me through what was going on and in the end on an impulse I did the unthinkable. It wasnt until after it happened that I realised excatly what I had done and I felt so guilty about it. If you had asked me when I first got together with him I would have told you no I could never cheat on someone I love...but in the end I did and I regret it every day. No one can really answer this question honestly until they are faced with the issue themselves. This was the biggest mistake of my life...and I dont know if I will ever be able to forgive myself for it.
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Part of me says it is possible, and yet the other part says "No" vehemently.
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i would never cheat whether i liked em , loved em, or hated em.
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Yes! Been there. Done that;because cheating has to do with judgment, choices, and character. All of these things are personal. In the words of Tina Turner, "What's love got to do with it?" We have been sold a bill of goods in relationships that a person should love one and one only. We are humans. Fidelity, loyalty, chastity, and faithfulness or character traits and choices. (Keeping these virtues are right and admirable.)A person cheats because that is a flaw in who they are. If a person does not want to cheat NOTHING OR NO ONE could make them do it. Most times it has nothing to do with the other party. The cheater goes after what he/she wants, for whatever reason. This is why even the most attractive, Christian, or sweetest people get cheated on or cheat. It is character, not love-driven.
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Never...Y B in a relationship if you'r going to destroy it by cheating
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I believe that you can't tell what you will do in a situation untill you are actually in it. It depends on your personality, the person your in love with and the time, place and significance of the temptation that comes your way. I also believe that if you really care for, respect and love your S/O you would'nt cheat on them at any old time in any old place with just anyone.
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Nope i would hate to do that to someone plus what goes around comes around! :)
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Cheating is a sign of a unsatisfied, unhappy with low self esteem human being. People cheat because they don't think that One is good enough. Karma's a bitch
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never.
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I'd sooner kill myself. Im a overly loyal person! :D
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Cheat no, but I can't say it kills me to look at a cute guy. :) I'm only human...
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It would be like betraying yourself. Personally I am not even tempted to cheat on the love of my life.
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And ruin the best thing that ever happened to me? Never.
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Absolutely not!! If I did, I wouldn't have really truly loved them, right?
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Actually I think its possible, Im sorry to say I have done so in the past (not something im proud of but i'd rather be honest). Love and lust are two completely different things, you can love someone with all your heart and still be tempted by the "forbidden fruit". If you do cheat and do really love the person you cheated on the guilt eats you up, in my case caused me to tell him, I loved him enough to want him to have someone who would be true to him. It all depends how good you are at resisting temptation.
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NO I WILL NEVER EVER DO SUCH A HORRABLE THING !! I`from the type that wont never ever cheet no matter what . you may not beleive me but isware to god that i never cheeted no one in my life !! and i`m proud that i didnt .
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No never. Too much to lose all for something i get at home anyway.
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absolutely not because that would be saying that i don't love them anymore and it would be sending the wrong message.
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i did...to get him back and to see his reaction (i was childish at the time) but i wanted to se if hed b upset kuz somehow thta cemented his love for me..BOY WAS I WRONG!!!!
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i'm really sorry. if i could have my boyfriend back i would do anything. he died in a car accident a little over a month ago.
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No, I couldn't. People do it, though.
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no never. If I could be with the love of my life I would never.it's funny but he's not in my life now but I lovehim so much I still don't.
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Never. I would not think about it if i truly loved her. A true love does not come around often so i would cherish her and not put the relationship in jeopardy over doing something so stupid.
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Absolutely not! It hurts so much.
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Well...i alwayz thot i wudnt... but i did...i do feel really bad bout it... but ive never done netin which iz not allowed....plus i wud never ever cheat on him after were married.... ive never cheated on ne1 and i no i wudnt ever agen...but i just wanted to no how it feels... before its too late
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No there is too much pain in cheating besides if you TRULY love someone you don't want too cheat right?
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No way!
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Nope.
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No way! I could never cheat on someone I loved.
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No never, If you truely love someone at least break up with them before you do something with someone else. Dont ever put someone threw the pain you wouldnt want to go threw.
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No, even if I didn't truly love someone, having experienced it many times, I wouldn't wish that kind of pain on anyone.
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never..to anyone..never
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