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eh. In my opinion your birthday is just another day. But I understand why some people would think it is extra harsh. Just wait until the day after.
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Kind of...why not just wait until the next day?
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its slightly cold hearted
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I imagine it would be worse celebrating a birthday with someone you are intending to break up with right after.
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I think so. It's not exactly hard to just wait until the next day and avoid ruining somebody's birthday.
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I would feel very disrespected if someone was to do that to me, especially if it was unexpected. Then again there are at least two relationships I had where it would definitely have been cause for celebration!
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it's not the nicest thing to do...i wouldn't appreciate it...
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i dont celebrate my birthday but i know i would hurt most poeple
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yes
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kinda selfish, you can stick it out another day...Let them have their happy day. :P So my answer would have to be yes.
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Oh really really bad ... Don't ruin someone's special day :) !
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Well let me say as someone who has been on the receiving end of such a break up...it sucks.
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Yeah, it really is. There's such a thing as decency when it comes to timing.
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Yes
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Yes, I did and it was so sad. I couldn't NOT do it. I was miserable and I had to get out of there.
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One thing about it, breaking up with someone on their birthday, will surely put a damper on their candles. Bad timing, bad idea. Wait till the next day. At least your conscious will be clear, if you wait.
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One word. YES
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It's really kind of shitty. Why wait until that day?
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It ain't good, my wife left me the day after my birthday, and that's after giving me gifts the day before. Women...go figure?
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Ouch! Wait a day.
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Yep.
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Man that's harsh.
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Wow what a question. I wouldn't break up with my bf before finals. I guess you do what you think you can live with.
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WOW. that's cold
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Its kind of rude, well not kind of, very. Would you want someone to break up with you on your birthday? I think the best time/way to break up with someone is when you two are alone on just an ordinary day, be clam/rational, dont raise your voice, dont explain yourself too much because that person may try to talk you out of it.
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Oh yeah. Wait at least a few days after.
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Yes... Or a family holiday (or almost ANY major holiday, for that matter). You're taking what should be a good day for them, and making it one of the worst (unless, of course, they KNOW it's coming - But even then...)
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Is this a rhetorical question?
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Not really, you may be giving them a fabulous b/day present of freedom.
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Yeah, its better than leading them on in a relationship. Plus birthdays are expected sex days and you may want to get out before you that happens.
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it all depends on the relationship. if that person adores you and loves you and then bam! you break up you just screwed that person b day and you cant take back a b day. but if you both are on the rocks just being with them on their day might ruin it too. use your heart on this one.
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If there's a legitimate reason, break up.
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truthfully yes
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Uhm.......YES.
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yehhhh, great birthday gifts you give.....
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yes, my ex did it on my birthday, which also happened to be the same day i had to move out of the only home i'd ever known. bastard.
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Yes. At the very least grossly insensitive. What's so urgent that it couldn't wait a day?
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oh, i think its really nice of someone to make their soon to be ex-partner feel like shit on their special day, what do you think?
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Yeah, I would wait until after the birthday. I don't care if you have to fake to enjoy it, but still make the birthday special. That would be very insensitive to do on the birthday.
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ER yes its harash!! Cos then the person remembers their birthday for all the wrong reasons.
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I don;t celebrate my birthday. It's just another day.
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Not really, no. It's just like any other day. Wait until Valentine's Day if you want to be a *real* dick.
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Ouch. Your birthday may just be like any other day but that doesn't apply to everyone.
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ummmm.......YEA
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yes because you ruin their special day. if you plan to break up with them you should do it few days before or few days after.
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Yes!! And unnecessary. If you're going to break up with someone, you could wait another couple of days or so, unless you're trying to cause serious damage to that person so they'll carry that bad memory with them every birthday; even when they get over it. That's just downright mean.
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this sounds like you did this deliberately on that day. If it was just time to end it then hey s**t happens, but if you could have done it earlier then it just would have been that little bit kinder, it hurts enough to be the one to get dumped let alone on a day when you are hoping to be in high spirits all day
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no, just exceptionally tacky.
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omg yes it is... that's one of the worst ways ever to break up with someone...it's already bad enuff ur leaving the person .. why would u want them to have that memory with them every year for the rest of their lives..
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YESSSSSS
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