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  • this either means he's open to anything, or is bi-sexual and he feels confortable enough to bring it out to light now. does the porn turn him on?.. that's probably not normal..anal sex, not many men like to even be touched in that area for fear they will loose their manlyness. i would have a serious talk with him...
  • I think he might be bisexual for I am and love looking at shemales, but am also married with two teens.
  • That your husband is most likely bi-curious or at the very least a closet homosexual. My guess as to what it all means? I couldnt beging to tell you. Maybe he just likes both genders melded into one person. I would question him about being a closet homosexual or bi-curious. Maybe by him having anal sex with you is his way of acting out his she-male fantasy. I'd ask him some questions and ask him to go to a marriage counselor.
  • No my wife does not know of my bisexuality. It would destroy my children and marriage if I were to step outside of my marriage to explore this or to indulge in these desires. I hope this helps.
  • I think he is probably at least bi, if not gay. I do not buy that straight men can find "shemales", or more correctly "dudes with boobs" sexually arousing. In the EXACT same breath that a gay man is not attracted to female features....a truly straight man is NOT attracted to male features (penis) on a woman. I dont think it is at all unusual for a straight male to like anal play, there is a highly sensitive prostate there. But, straight men have their ladies strap on....and if they are straight that is exactly the porn they like...women with strap ons doing straight men. Straight men dont mind seeing penis in porn....when it is attached to a male that is putting it into a vagina. The whole, "bored with normal porn" also doesnt hold a candle.......there is soooooooo much freaky, wierd, fettish things out there that still involve vagina that I dont buy that argument for a second. So, where does this leave him?? It leaves him in an area of denial. A "shemale" is the perfect stepping stone for someone not ready to openly admit they are bi or gay. May be because of societal pressure, pressure from family, etc. But in the end, straight men do NOT find males with boobs sexually arousing. If you love him and stay, please have protected sex! Note all the other posts when you search "shemale", many are men like yours looking for one!

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