ANSWERS: 19
  • No. You must learn to love and accept yourself, as you are, without judgment. If you can learn to love and accept yourself, then you will find others will be attracted to you because of your self-confidence. And you will not settle for someone who is unable to accept themself. You are never alone because you have you, your best friend, with you always. You have a remarkable rich inner life. Just tap into it. When you can accept yourself and be with yourself, comfortably, you will find others will want to be with you. You will never be alone.
  • it is better to be alone. you can always invite strangers over for drinks.
  • Remember... "Less" is relative. Whatever you had before is just that... What you had before. Because you didn't get a chance to "finish it", if you ever WOULD have, you will romanticize it, and feel it's the best you can ever have. If you want to feel that what you have NOW is better, you have to come at it without comparing it to the past. I'm NOT saying to forget the past, but what you have (or CAN have) is DIFFERENT from that. It MIGHT be better, if you can get past the past. If you can't, you WILL feel like you are "settling", and even then, if it's good, why don't you feel you can be happy with it? (((HUGS)))
  • No, for He wants you to be living your life to the fullest, and He is more than able to keep your company and guide many toward you while you search for your true love.
  • Its better to be alone,don't ever settle.
  • The grass is always greener on the other side, meaning: if you're single, you'll think it's better to settle for less so you won't be alone. If you're WITH someone you do not fully appreciate, you could be thinking it would be better to be by myself. So, it would appear that the answer to your question is a matter of opinion.
  • NEVER! Never just settle for anything. You will attain what you believe is yours. I keep this quote at my desk: "Whatever you can do, or dream you can, begin it. Boldness has genius, power, and magic in it." -Johann Wolfgang von Goethe You can have it all! There's never a reason to just settle. Good luck! :D
  • No, Being alone usually can give you all you need to be self-sufficiant. Being with someone only adds to that and makes it more enjoyable because you have someone you want to be with.
  • I dont know, I have been alone now for only 8 hours and it sucks, but settling just sounds bad.
  • NEVER SETTLE FOR ANYTHING LESS YOU DESERVE THE BEST TELL YOURSELF THAT
  • this is going to get me in trouble by the Self-esteem club, possibly kicked out. But I would say yes
  • It's best to wait for a good thing to come along. You'll be just fine if you're alone. Never try to settle for less.
  • I do not believe so, how are you ever suppose to find the right person if you settle for the wrong one??
  • My aunt did exactly this. She eventually became the loser, since all her three husbands died of kidney failure due to alcohol. Did this give you a clue? See met all three in bars. She stated she had rather have a little of somebody, rather than to be alone. I never did understand her theory in this. She wound up being alone, anyway.
  • Absolutely not!
  • Absolutely not.
  • No ... not at all :-) !
  • Don't ever settle. Why should you? You should be telling yourself if you are worth more, go for it.
  • It depends on what your standards are. If you are looking for someone who is flawless you should lower your standards because you will never find anyone who meets your standards. However, you should not "settle" with someone you do not trust, or who is abusive, or treats you as an attachment to there own lives instead of the central focus.

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