ANSWERS: 4
  • Get one of his friends that you trust, and have them ask. The trick will be to find someone that he is comfortable speaking with. Which means it's probably going to have to be a guy. If it's a girl asking, he will see through the mask. The other trick is to find a guy that won't spill the beans. Good luck :)
  • Thats a hard one to answer. I have the same problem. I sugjest that you talk to him straight out and if he says that he dosn't like you like that, then ask if you two can stay friends. You never know. Most likely if you and him talk all the time, then he does like you in some way and you will never know unless you ask. If you have a friend ask, then you'll seem unsecure about yours and his frendship and what possibly could happen between you two. And as an added bonus for this answer, I'm going to take my own advise and talk to the guy I really like too. Good luck!
  • mmm...problem is i think im one of his closer friends...i think he barely talks to his other friends since we're always on the fone...so i have no one to ask but myself :( lol
  • You NEVER EVER involve third parties. That's a major juvenile thing to do asking friends to do your dirty work for you. You can't trust someone else to do it right or translate the right answer back and you cannot hear the tone of the answer. The person being asked could lie because they don't want to discuss their private feelings or want anyone to know. If you don't want to chance ruining what you have you wouldn't want to find out how he feels you'd accept what you have and go with it. So right off you're game playing. It's time to step up to the plate and be mature and simply ask him. "Have you ever given any thought to our great relationship going on to another level and perhaps date?" That's maturity, two people talking not playing BS games sending other people.

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