ANSWERS: 88
  • I regularly think "thank god I got outta there"
  • it never ends...
  • I do on occasion, yes.
  • Sure, I mean, thats how you learn.
  • yeah, i think boy he cost me alot of money. divorces are expensive!
  • Occasionally... Just wondering how/what they're doing. (I'm married to my 2nd wife... I think about my 1st GF, 1st wife, and 3rd GF now and then.)
  • Yeah! I always think about those 2 times he would'nt move from in front of my car so I hit him with it :D
  • my last boyfriend once in a blue moon, but not in a romantic way, i just wonder if he's gotten whats commin to him yet
  • I still get busy with her every now and then so it would be kinda hard not to ;)
  • On occasion, mostly just remembering the really good physical aspects of our relationship.
  • Always...
  • I think about how much I would love to put my foot up his butt to get him to straighten up and be a father.
  • I've been divorced from him for 41 years and never remarried (once burned, twice shy). Just too busy, really. But I've always occasionally had dreams about him. He died 4 years ago and I still occasionally have a dream about him . . . we're together and both still in our 20's . . . the kids are little . . . not a nightmare or anything . . . just . . a dream. I'd prefer not to do it, but can't control my dreams.
  • Yes and they are all really bad thoughts. I can't really say for fear of incriminating myself.
  • yes and how i would like to hurt them :)
  • Yes, some good, some bad. Five years of dating and seventeen years of marriage will do that to you. I try not to, but every once in a while.....
  • Pretty often.. I should move on, I know, I had absolutely no control of my feelings for her, and didn't really want to have either. When she dumped me on the phone, it wrecked me quite hard.. Thanks a lot for teaching me a thing or two about love, Hallmehn..
  • sometimes.. i keep wonder what he is doing right now...??
  • Sometimes...just wondering if they still remembers me.
  • Every day. I didn't want the divorce. But he and his girlfriend had other plan's.
  • I still think about her sometimes, but always in a way that was better than when we were actually together. My last girlfriend had awesome breasts, the kind that are fun to have in your face. I have had dreams recently about her breasts and they were all saggy and disgusting in the dream. And then we were making out and her lips were all chapped and gross. It was like a message, to remember things as they were not overwhelmed by nostalgia.
  • Unfortunately
  • most days i think about him,even after years.no-one has come close to matching him.somtimes i remember the bad times and they were bad but then the good times push the bad out my head and i'm back to square one.confused.
  • Everyday.
  • only as a target
  • Yeah. It's beyond hard. He was gorgeous too.
  • Every day and it's been 13 year's since the divorce. I don't cry as much now though.
  • Daily.
  • I think about him, but it makes me more angry than sad.
  • i usually do, just cause were friends and i have to keep reminding myself why we broke up and that im not going to get back with him
  • Well, if you would consider a dead husband an ex the answer is I think of him all the time, every day. Every time I pick up my Bible to read I think of his deep voice reading passages to me, or the way he would close his eyes and listen when I read it to him. Sometimes he would want to comment on what I ws reading and he would place his had on my knee, so that I would know to pause, and then he would make the most perceptive comments. You should read your Bible too.
  • Only when I read questions like this...sniff, sniff:)
  • dont think about him...dont cry. well sometimes i laugh at inside jokes we used to have but that's it
  • i think about him like every now and then. but its because he never gave me a final word. he wont talk to me so i cant let go. he didnt give me my reason so i cant let go.
  • Sometimes...but not often. Sometimes in anger, sometimes disgust, sometimes pity and sometimes only in passing with no emotion attached at all.
  • sometimes and only bad thoughts lol
  • Absolutely! Every time I am with my son I think about my ex..I am very grateful we met, married and had our son..other than that, I never think about him at all! :)
  • Yes ...He was a gem of a person :-) !
  • yeah, because we're good friends and it is the hardest thing to b.
  • yeah like how much i still miss him and wish i was still with him but i know ill be stronger without him and move on. i wish him all the best at the end of the day
  • I still think of one of them. I haven't seen him in like 5 years. We were on and off for 2 years. We ended it because this girl popped up with a 10 month old and said here is your son. DNA test and it was. He stepped up to the plate and tried to make a family. Good guy, but that still sucks.
  • i'm a real introvert, shy, quiet. so, when i get attached, it's deep. when we break apart, it hurts, deep. it's been six months since my wife moved out of our home, and i think about her very frequently throughout the day. for legal reasons, it might not be the best time for me to date, yet. usually, time heals all wounds. when you've got children together, it adds to the potential conflict. i've seen couples take the other to court (costing at least several thousand dollars) just for an extra 15 minutes visitation. the sooner those thoughts can be replaced with something else, the better. there's always relgion, meditation, physical exercise, socializing, dating ... if really stuck, hammering a hundred nails into a wooden board can help dissipate the feelings about my ex.
  • Meh, sometimes, but usually not in a good way.
  • Definetelly,yes!i've been with my current BF for about 3 years and every night before i go to sleep,for just one moment i imagine my ex lying next to me in bed and i almost burst out crying..its hard keeping myself together when that happens!!:"(
  • yeah every once in a while.
  • Our seperation was recently(3 weeks) so even if I try not to I end up thinking about him, besides we have kids together, so is harder not to think about him, but anyway 95% of my thoughts about my ex are negative and 5% are good one's
  • yes, while i slit my wrists.
  • Yeah but its not the same like if im doing something with some friends or even another guy and they start telling storys and i have one that relates and i was with him thats about it!! Or when i hear our song but its not the same feeling like i said earlier...it getts easier!!! hang in there
  • I occasionally think of all my exes. Not in a romantic way just wonder how they are. I've actually stayed friendly with most of them.Of course my ex husband I think about a lot because we have children together and still have to deal with each other
  • yes, i still think about my ex's from time to time. the most recent the most, the first the next most, and then the string of long, distinguished, not-so-distinguished ex's in between in between. i wouldn't be human if i didn't think about the folks who have meant the most to me at different times in my life.
  • yep.. nearly every day... well my last ex i do.. i think im still in love with him still, i think i am.. i think did we do the right thing by breaking up? and alot of other things.. its hard, very hard.. it took over 7 months to get over my first bf and i still think about him but not in that sorta way like just wondering how he is doing.. but my last bf i think about in a different way like remising and wanting to sill be with him kinda way
  • Every day for the past 7 months. We broke up in January. This sux.
  • sometimes. i'm friends with all my ex's.
  • I am still really good friends with one of my ex boyfriends and I think that we broke up for the completely wrong reasons so yes I still think about him. He has since moved to our sister City just south of where I am and he often comes up to visit. I don't let it interfere with my current relationship now though. Just friends. As for all the other ex's...There is one I would kill if I could haha
  • No, well not in a ‘loving’ way. I think of them like ‘oh, I wonder what they are up to these days’? It takes time to get to that stage though. I do not stay chit chatty with my ex’s at all, it ended for a reason.. period!
  • yeah from time to time and trust me is not a good thing.
  • Just the current ex-yes. I can't seem to stop. But I won;t let anyone else know it.
  • I think about him too much. Everything we went through, everything he said, everything i thought was going to happen and now i even think of him and his new girlfriend. Get him out of my head!
  • YES i CAN'T STOP THiNKiN OF HiM & WAT SUCKS i ALWAYS HAVE TO SEE HiM AT SKOO!!:(
  • Everyday.
  • Lately I have no choice, he won't leave me alone.
  • Yes...I still think he's an arse.
  • I am still friends with all of my exes.....so yes.
  • Sometimes just wondering if he is doing okay but that is really it.
  • I think I've been very fortunate to have been with some really great men. I still think of them time to time, but more about how happy that I spent those years with them. I have always wanted them to be happy with or without me. So I just wish them luck with their future. I always try to make it a point though that the next person I'm with much have their qualities plus more so that I know that the next person I'm with was an upgrade. There were issues that made us break up in the first place. I don't compare them to my exes, because basically we just have to move on and find our own happiness. I know they did with theirs.
  • we just broke up in Nov so yes i do but not in a sad I miss him kind of way.
  • Yes. And wish he is doing well.
  • yea i do .. becuase he is in the army ..n he is IRAQ.. n i always think bout him n pray for him to be safe.. n wen i think bout him i get mad for the pain he cause me n sad because im not with him
  • he is my very best friend and still is to this day. we broke up 7 months ago. we went 3 months without talking during which he was with another girl. i hated her soooo much, and really i still dont like her. when we finally got around to talking to one another again he asked me why i hated her so much and why i wasnt happy for him. i told him i would be happy for him the day he found someone good enough for him. someone better than me (which would be nearly impossible hahahahaha jk jk im not that self centered haha. we have grown closer over the last couple months and im still not happy with the girl he has chosen at the present moment, therefore he knows it wont work but he tries to defy me. i know him better than ANYONE sometimes more than he knows himself.
  • It's like breathing. All the time but I did just get dumped 13 days ago :(
  • No I dont....... he was a lying cheating swine!!!!!......... do u think he thought about me when he was going off with alsorts???....... don't think so!!! So why worry yourself over someone who dont give a damn about you!!!! (sorry, needed to get that off my chest :) lol )
  • All the time... Cant say the same thing about him, though... :(
  • Yes, I do. And I want her back REALLY BAD. I just want to stand on her doorstep and sing "Baby come back, any kind of fool could see, there was somethin' in everything about you.. etc."
  • dude all the time its been a month and all i think about is her she was cheating on me for the last week of our relationship
  • ME AND MY FIRST LOVE SPLIT UP ABOUT 16 YEARS AGO AND I ALWAYS THINK ABOUT HIM, AND IF HE CAME KNOCKING ON MY DOOR NOW I WOULD TAKE HIM BACK AS I DID AND ALWAYS LOVED HIM THEY SAY YOU NEVER FORGET YOUR FIRST LOVE.
  • Yes everytime I see him and I don't know how to get over him or if i really am?
  • Of coarse. It's totaly normal.
  • We broke up 3 months ago. we went 2 months without talking. No I dont, he is lying,cheating,swine,day by day he is smelling like dead dog and dead fish, like my husband does. Do u think he thought about me when he was going off with all sorts. I don't think so. So why worry over someone who don't give a damn about you. I regularly think "thank god I got outta there. I have to keep reminding myself why we broke up and that I'm not going to get back with him. Occasionally... Just wondering how/what he's doing? Is he findind or chasing some more new hookers to sleep with or to find new strangers to hook with. Sure, I mean, thats how you learn (once burned, twice shy). Just too busy, really. But I've always occasionally had dreams about him. Dude all the time its been a more then 6 years and all i think about is he was cheating,lying on me and for the last 6 years of our relationship.
  • I broke up with her 4 weeks ago and i loved her to the ends of the earth but she accused me of cheating and chose others words over mine. I dont cheat on any girls and once she accused me of it it felt like she didnt want to believe that i didnt. I think about her every day but would never get back with her, now she is speaking to my best mate about how she has a new guy and he can play guitar and Bla,Bla,Bla she is more excited now then before, glad we broke up etc... It crushes me inside but i gotta get over it. x x x Daniel
  • Always. It just takes time to let go. It was a somewhat manipulative relationship, so I'm not sure he'll take my token of friendship. But I need to move on but never forget. :
  • yea i try not to & i rly wish i didnt think of him but sometimes i do & it makes me so mad after what he did to me :(
  • i kinda think of him soo much i start crying especaily cuz like i see him everyday and i hate it cuz like i start crying afterwards
  • I have no choice we have 3 children together. I really wish he would walk off the face of the earth though:)
  • pretty much every second of the day
  • sometimes
  • Sometimes--not very often. We have been divorced for 20 years.
  • WoW, after all these months on AB, it is hard for me to believe I have never stumbled across this question before now. My first 'ex' I think of fairly regular and hope she and her kids are doing well. My last wife, I lived next door to, until about six months ago. She is the mother of my daughter. I adore her and think her current/last husband is the best thing that ever happened to her EXCEPT for our babygirl.

Copyright 2023, Wired Ivy, LLC

Answerbag | Terms of Service | Privacy Policy