ANSWERS: 51
  • It's a pride thing. men have a desire to be the best and first at all things. Hence the reason there are hundreds of different sports and competitive activities in this world. Also, its nice to be remembered as the first. Also, some men are self-conscious, they may feel inadequate in some way and a virgin may not know any better so the guy feels like a conquerer of sorts.
  • An untainted pink slit is beyond normal gifts. You know it will be tight too.
  • She will forget many of the men she sleeps with but never the first
  • I prefer experience. But would not pass one up
  • its a first time feeling and when its with the right person it makes it special
  • Because they like to have a feeling of power and dominance.
  • Most men seem to get a rise out of virgins because they have no idea how good it feels until they actually experience it. It makes it memorable for the rest of their lives. Yeah, there's also a sense of power, that they were the ones who saw you that way first.
  • it's a race to see who can get that first.
  • because all men have an innate attraction to corrupting something innocent... its like a blank canvas. contrary to that I like a woman with experience, but whom has had self respect to them selves and their body. The blank canvas has no comfort or experience with the matters of sex, and how to please the other. They usually just cry.
  • i dont !!!!
  • Who wanted to eat the left over.
  • Because they enjoy playing Pygmalion. They want to be able to mold the young girl's sexual techniques to fit with their desires. Also, they get an ego boost because they don't have to worry about being compared to another guy.
  • if the guy doesn't care about the girl/woman's feelings about her decision than its just a pride thing to be the first one to break her in. but if she's special to him than its more of a gift rather than a race.
  • Most men don't really like virgins in the way you may think. A man doesn't want to think of his woman with other men that's understandable that doesn't mean he wants a virgin. But those who like virgins only are a bit sick becasue that is about power, unless they are virgins themselves and then the equalness is there. just my opinion ...
  • I don't want a virgin, a virgin just means boring sex. I think other teens want a virgin because they are virgins as well...after that I don't see why they want it. Only in movies and tv shows we see the men craving for a virgin but in reality only the pedos and weirdo want em.
  • A: my only partner ever was not one so it is an experience I have not had B: the fact that she has not let a bunch of other guys enter her C: it means that not only does she share my values but the self control to hold to those values. D: her having that self control means she is more likely to resist durring my moments of weakness while waiting for our wedding day. E: purity F: it is a great gift... I regret I can not return because I gave it to my soon-to-be-ex-wife G: it is going to be tight.
  • If its with someone they have deep feelings for, its a feeling of being given something special I think. If it isnt, its conquest. being successful. not being just anyone. Also nothing to be compared with and found wanting. More mature men like to give pleasure and the first time for a woman may not be pleasurable.
  • I have never and will never have sex with a virgin. some men like the fact that the girls do not have anyother men to compare them to. They do not have to worry that the girl has had better sex then they give are that another man was bigger and longer then them.
  • i've never had a virgins but it's not something i look for.
  • I don't like virgins, they are immature and their vag is too small for my rocket
  • Because they still have their hymen which is very attractive. And its nice to be someones first i think.
  • They are clean and nice. As opposed to arrogant, loose, and haughty.
  • They make dragons happy.
  • Just think about it: It is her first time!
  • they come in handy to quiet the volcano God
  • Because they want to go where no man has gone before. Heh!
  • In Virginia it is the thrill of the 8 year old.......In Nebraska....COUGARS! 55 and panting!....
  • I'm a guy, and you're wrong about that.
  • because virgins don't know what to do. it gives the guys more control if they can say that's how they've always done it. the girl doesn't even know if it was good or bad, so she can't complain.
  • Not all guys do. In fact, there are guys who prefer girls who aren't virgins.
  • They only like them until they say no.
  • I understand most don't... most want a good lay who can surprise them. I value virginity because it shows they have the moral code to value their own virginity and the strength to stick to that code. I wish I could give my virginity to my next wife but I already gave it to my (soon to be) ex wife, who not only did not return the favor but couldn't even stay faithful to me and ran away 2290 miles with her 3rd xboxlive BF. the woman (27) I am presently interested in has saved herself for marriage and I am very anxious to exchange vows with her.
  • For me,they are challenging!Just think - your boat is sealing there FIRST! Like Columbus! Oi!
  • Not all guys do -- it's just an old fetish in our culture that's largely there because of Christianity and misogyny.
  • The "conquest"!
  • Not all do, seems like a lot of them want an experienced woman to show them some new things. I am a virgin, and so far i only know 3 men who don't mind that i am.
  • lol it doesnt matter i have found i think all these things ie what i like n dont like in girls but theres always one that disproves the rule for example i once met a girl who was jus short of amazin but she smoked at i always sai i would never like a girl who smoked but i couldnt help myself fall for her hope that makes sense
  • most guys don't, virgins of either gender are terrible in bed
  • Sure. I could careless though, as long as she is good looking.
  • Because she will have nothing to compare him too!
  • They don't know any better
  • Because they want to be the first to conqure and divide!!!!!!!
  • Virginity is like the ultimate sign of trust in relatioships. The gift that a woman can never get back. And it will be super tight. Lol. When my boyfriend found out that I was still a virgin, I thought he would be happy, but it was quite the opposite. He's had experince hurting other girls with the size of his dragon, so he's not looking forward to hurting me doubly.
  • i'd have to agree with CaptainHarley!
  • I remember a lecture not long ago by a visiting professor in Criminal Psychology and her comments on the problem of presumption of innocence being reversed in some cases to an almost automatic pretrial presumption of guilt. The comment here by hartdaniel, “I prefer experience, but would not pass one up” and a few others that expressed similar feelings is what brought back what she said. . - “All life on this planet is either plant or animal and the human race belongs to the latter group even though we may consider ourselves to be of some higher order. Some animals have a mating season with no sexual activity at any other time but the human animal is in the group where sex is, to use a military term, a ‘target-of-opportunity’ at any time without the necessity of the female being in an estrous cycle.” . I’m thinking that men have developed the practical habit of hooking up with virgins simply because there are so many more of them available as the group of non-virgins is reduced by marriage and old age. Men well past their teenage years are well aware of this shortage of available females when confined by proper society to “their age group” so they expand their sexual activities to include younger, more available females and this has absolutely nothing to do with them being pedophiles but only including such young “targets-of-opportunity”. The incorrect presumption, in this thread, is the fact that when MEN and VIRGINS are included in the same sentence it was assumed by many that the VIRGINS are underage,,, the usual assumption made by mature females.
  • Because you women supply this behavior. Women always say thir first date, their first kiss, their first penetration were unforgetable, don't they? All novels, all songs, all movies, all etc. mention about that. Men want to be remembered by women. Think yourself! How you feel if you are forgotten by your ex-man as if you have never been. In my country virginity is important either men or women. Women care to save their virginity for their husbands. And some men beat or kill or kick away their sisters or daughters because of they lost their virginity. Such as a brain sick. I have heard an idea about this situation: If baby girls are fingered by their mothers as just as they born, there will not be any problem. Brilliant, isn't it: Natural Born Women!
  • Because you women supply this behavior. Women always say thir first date, their first kiss, their first penetration were unforgetable, don't they? All novels, all songs, all movies, all etc. mention about that. Men want to be remembered by women. Think yourself! How you feel if you are forgotten by your ex-man as if you have never been. In my country virginity is important either men or women. Women care to save their virginity for their husbands. And some men beat or kill or kick away their sisters or daughters because of they lost their virginity. Such as a brain sick. I have heard an idea about this situation: If baby girls are fingered by their mothers as just as they born, there will not be any problem. Brilliant, isn't it: Natural Born Women!
  • This man doesn't. I prefer someone who knows what she's doing!
  • No one to be compared to.
  • I don't know these men.
  • It gives them a sense of ownership or possession of the female's sexuality; a sense of conquest. I'm sure there is some size or performance anxiety involved too.

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