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a pretty white dress
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"Is this really happening?" - How are you doing idne?
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That maybe he was the one you could grow old with. someone who you thought understood you. your one and only you soul-mate. such beautiful dreams come crashing in sometimes and those we thought were one way turned out to be something else altogether.
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LOL -- I can so relate we call it ' Love ' and then Boom Great to see you idne -- + 5
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I told that baker I wanted goldedenrod icing, not canary!!! He is so.... arrrrggghhhh, he ruined everything. And what is with this salad??? I demanded romaine, not iceberg!!! Oh, someone is gonna pay!!!!! And the balloons were supposed to be lilac, not lavander!!! Oh, he will be hearing from me!!! And this DJ........
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idne,you were thinking? maybe your hormones overpowered your brain.....or were you in love w/his hemi cuda? :-O}(i'm sorry i couldnt help it)
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The first time or the second?
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You were thinking " what comes on tonight?" j/k You were probably hoping you were making the right choice like most people.
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The same thing I was. I loved her enough to marry her and it was the right thing to do. Not knowing she would fuck me over later.
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Maybe it was how nice it'd be to have someone in your corner to share your life and whose life you'd be making better too. It'd be great to come home to someone who'd be interested in your day, celebrates your victories and scorns your enemies; someone to laugh & cry with and someone to tell you you're not so bad when you blow it. Your "in emergencies please call..." person, someone to drag to all the events you hate to do alone. Someone to shop for, care for and cuddle with... Am I close?
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You are marrying your soul mate.
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I have no idea what most people are thinking when they got married, myself included.
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Sweety when you figure that one out let me know so I know what the heck I was thinking!!!! :)
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the same thing we all were dont do it but we were thinking with our heart not our head
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I hear ya, we must have been taking the same drug...
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HAHAHA. I just saw this question. Without knowing who asked, I thought, "Wow, that sounds exactly like something my friend Jeanne would ask after being subjected to yet another evening of what's-his-name's endless barrage of yakking and jabbering to the air." And now I see I was right. After all, when you and I voice chat, I hear him in the background, babbling away. You must be one of the most incredibly frustrated people on the planet. {{{HUGS}}}
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The same stupid thing I must have been thinking!!!!!
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I imagine you would have been thinking *hey I can make this work*, but since then you obviously realized it actually takes TWO people to make a relationship work. Separations and all things involved with them can be very stressful, so now is a really good time to be taking extra special care of yourself (((hugs)))
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I hear you. I would love to be able to claim diminished capacity, but no such luck. I can only relate what I was thinking: he's sweet, comes from a stable family, handsome, good job, and loves me. What I should have been thinking: I need to get to know him better before I say "I do" and I am too young to be doing this. Note to self, listen to gut feelings and never use a magic 8 ball to make decisions for you when you're on the fence.
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I wasn't really doing that much thinking when I got married. Most of it was done before I got married. We dated for almost 5 years so there was no denying that we were meant for each other. Now almost 28yrs later I have never regretted that day. Sure we have had more than our share of problems, but they have only made our relationship stronger.
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probably the same as me..lol..marry in haste and all that!
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Haha. Only a good shrink has any chance of drawing that out of us. It's quite something. We think we understand ourselves but amazingly we do things that when we look back on seem to defy reason. Crazy humans! I like being one of these most interesting creatures.
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you were in love and needed the money. just kidding
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it was a good thing to do at the time?
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You were thinking, " Permanent sex for life!".
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Probably at that time everything was dandy and all your thoughts, decisions and action reflected what and how things were going at that particular time. So you were just right on. But if you--and all the rest of us-- could read minds or a crystal ball, then things would have been a lot different. So what you were thinking, at that time, was just right.
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You were thinking you really love and he'll make a good husband once you change him to your liking. Guess what? You can't change them!!! You have to live with what you marry. Sorry, old wives tale that you can change them.
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you wanted to get all up in dat rumpshaker!!!
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you had a fantasy world in mind
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I know I was thinking, "Wow, she is so strong and beautiful." Then I thought, "Wow, she is a controlling #$%^." Now I am thinking, "Thank god that is over with."
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You were thinking it would last forever?
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"wow.. never done THIS before :)" right? lol
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LOL..Temporary insanity? :)
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At least I won't get stuck with the bills.
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you coulda had a v8
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perfect answer divorce dont look bk and learn from ur mistakes lol
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I hope she has a trust fund, because we didn't sign a prenup:)
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You were thinking with the head located about 30 some inches below the one on top of your shoulders. It used to swell and turn purple, but it probably doesn't get the chance much any more.
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You probably ate a British Hamburger that year and got a temporary case of mad cow disease. When he asked you to marry him, you meant to say NO, but you said MOO and he thought you were playing and you got sucked into the hell that is marriage. Ha-ha, just kidding. How bad is it? Are you a girl or a guy?
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Happy ever after? I see you have awoken.
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You *weren't* thinking! ;-)
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Hahaha! I can't help you, Idne. I think the same thing. Must be a Sagittarius issue.
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Hi. I am not an expert in this area, but I found a great website where you can go and talk to a therapist for free. It's FeelBetterNetwork. com and they have free online support groups, free tools, and an Ask An Expert feature, where you can talk to an expert therapist online. Hope this helps you!
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You were thinking about being happy ever after. You were thinking about how much you loved that man and how he was your knight in shining armor. You were thinking about spending the rest of your life with him and about how much he cared for you. You were thinking about safety, security and not having to play the singles game anymore.
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LOL. I think that same thing many times.
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I am SORRY to say this Idie. But from what I've seen, with many of my FRIENDS. Was that most of them, never took the time. To think hard & long beforehand. About what the consequences, for doing this to soon could mean. Maybe because I've seen so many get hurt by it. Just may be the reason, I stayed single. Don't take me wrong here. Being single, can give one a lot of freedom. But it also can be a lonely life.....I just wish people would take the time, to know the other person first. And to really know what they are doing. When it comes to getting married. I believe it would save alot of broken hearts from happening.....As always, this is just my point of view tho.......Take care Idie my FRIEND;-)............M.C.S.
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I feel ya lady!!! Been married 2 months, and im right here with ya. Why do you suppose they leave stop being a part of the relationship as soon as they get married???
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you maybe had your mind and heart on all the hopes and dreams that marriage starts with. there is so much promise for happily ever after.
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Wow I have been there. I am on my third marriage. The first I asked that question after 6 months. And the second after 1 month. But in my third marriage we are going on almost a year and i havnt asked that at all. It just feels different. I guess I must be a glutton for punishment, LOL. All i know is if this one doesnt work out I wont do it again.
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lol little too late to think about this. you can plead temporary insanity.
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do you have any children or not cause the solution is only divorce but not regrate.do not waste your time but i like to hear more about your problem before the comment.........
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let me guess, you were in love?
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You were thinking that u finally got ur man. But if ur asking this question im assuming ur having second thoughts. Well dont worry, ur gonna be one among the many people to divorce now-a-days cause marriage just doesnt seem to be such a big deal anymore (If it was u wouldnt have had any second thoughts cause u would've thought about it for a long long time).
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That you'd get half his stuff if it didnt work out?
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That you would be happy ever after ?
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You used the wrong head to think with! Better luck next time! Never been there, never will!
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Apparently they can because so far you have acquired 189 points girl. +6
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Was it, "God, what am I doing?"
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If the answer to the question was something that goes a little like "how much money does this guy/girl really have", obvioulsy you married the wrong person. Money is NOT a sign of true love. But I don't know anything about you, so I'm sorry, if it isn't.
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OF LITTLE HOUSE ON THE PRAIRIE!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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It's just like the first time doing extacy it's great while lasts, it's so much fun and everything is just so great until the high wears off, and you find out you sold your $35,000 car for sixty bucks. You pay big to learn a valuable lesson
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I got married in front of a judge... I should have requested a jury.
MrJosh 
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