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  • I could tell you but then I would be lying again...
  • This is a vicious circle, that really has no ending. one lie calls for another, and another, and another. a liar finally comes to the point, that he cannot remember the truth, if it hit him in the face. Habitual liars can never be trusted, period. Habitual liars may require psychological intervention, in order to break the circle. habitual liars are people that always wanted to be something, that they are not or ever will be. they will lie to achieve an end result, in their favor.
  • A large part of the pleasure of deceiving others lies in the sense of power, control and independence it gives you. This is especially true of people who lie for a living (i.e. con artists and spies). However, as you know, this is a very unsatisfying way to live, and is bound to take a physical and mental toll on you in the long run. Rather than focusing outward and investing all your energy in "putting one over" on other people, why not focus inward and engage in productive activities that make you happy which you can feel proud of? It could be anything: volunteer, get a new hobby, take a class in a subject you were always curious about. Doing things that help you find ways to connect with others can be very helpful and theraputic. Start small: every day, do something that makes you feel happy and good about yourself--and don't tell anyone! Know that your opinion is the only one that counts, and as long as you're willing to keep trying to be a better person, whoever you are is good enough. Eventually, you'll be relating to others in a healthy way, and you won't feel like you have to "prove" anything to yourself by fooling people. Good luck!
  • You start telling the truth more often and when you want to lie, then you think about its negative impact and instead, tell the truth, or simply say nothing at all. Good luck!
  • Have a bit of faith in yourself that you are worthy of someones attention and affection without having to make an alternative reality. When you start to value who you are and love yourself like you should, then there's nothing to lie about
  • being a habitual liar myself, i want to break this cycle extremely bad. I have destroyed many relationships, including my parents and my relationship. I dont exactly have an answer for this but I do believe that it starts with you and only you. Don't look to your inner defender, look to yourself and ask yourself, why do i lie? I lie because my life is so boring that i want it to sound more exciting. pathetic right? But I do believe that the cylce can be broken if when you feel the need to lie, dont say anything at all. Lately I have been doing this as and it is working out really good. I dont have to come up with alabys to when someone confronts me about something i have lied about. I hope all you habitual liars can overcome this and try to be more honest with yourselves, no lie.
  • I got a 100% foolproof method...Keep your mouth shut.
  • Start by apologizing for your past lies. It might be embarrassing, but it will leave an impression on you that will help you remember not to lie again.
  • simple....tell the truth
  • I don't know. I don't lie.
  • Practice constantly to tell the truth.
  • I HAVE THE SAME PROBLEM AND I REALLY WANT TO STOP AND NO MATTER WHAT I DO I STILL HAVE THE URGE:'( AND I REALLY WANNA STOP BECAUSE I WANNA GO TO HEAVEN AND I KNOW IF YOU'RE A LIAR, YOU CAN'T.
  • Never start..one lie leads to another then another then...too much work..if you don't start lying, it keeps things simple :)
  • find a reason to tell the truth.
  • If ypu keep lying, so there is a problem makes you keep lying...so try to solve that problem...maybe low self-esteem, or no faith in your self...blah blah blah....
  • Put duct tape over your lips
  • start telling the truth! It is so much easier just to tell the truth. You don't have to remember what lie you told to who and keep all that up! It's hard work being a liar!!
  • HAHAHA your larf at this i used to lie nonstop everyday and it got to the point where i didn't actualy know who i told what to and nearly got a good kicking over this, i used to lye as a normal person would speak it just used to come out and i coulnd't control it and i meen i rele wanted to stop but just couldn't, ended up thinking god help me im gunna get myself killed over this, so i went and told a doc about it and.... ended up liying about it, good job i had a good doctor becuase he knew when i was lying so i ended up getting sent to a special phyco doc who told me ive got Bipolar Disorder which basicaly meens low serotonin levels makes a person more prone to lie. Pills sorted it! off pill after 4weeks sorted havn't lied for 3years, thats a lie, i still tell the small white lie... but who doesn't? When i look back at this i think i might have had something to do with trying to be someone im not. Hope this helps, Sean

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