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  • It's a legitimate concern you have. Being that your husbands are brothers, there are always traits that are similar to each other, perhaps those traits that attracted each of you to them are some of those shared traits. Are you and your sister-in-law anything alike? Your husbands may be attracted to the same type of woman. Though there is a comfort level there beyond acquaintances, there is always the threat of attraction to an in-law so judgement and balance are always a necessary. When you get together like that... where are you and your brother-in-law at that leaves your sister-in-law and husband alone together? It may just be very innocent time together, you don't always have to talk to form a bond. I'd always give the benefit of the doubt first until you have something more concrete than quiet time together. Maybe they are quiet because they are uncomfortable being left alone together...
  • Do you live near each other. or live fairly far apart and only get together occasionally? MANY people can spend hours talking innocently about a myriad of subjects if they only see each other occasionally. My parents went to bed at 11PM, most nights, but, at least the first night that relatives from "out of town" stayed over, they'd be up to 3 or 4AM talking. And when I was in college and after, I could do the same thing with friends of either sex. If you have other reasons for suspiscion, then I can understand your worry, but otherwise, don't be looking for trouble. ;-)
  • Well you can get a camcorder and tape them or a baby monitor and hide it in the same room as them...Keeping the other part so you can hear. You can also just trust them which does not work as we often see on Maury...
  • I love hanging out with my sister-in-law. I have stayed up chatting with her for a while. I wouldn't put too much stock in your fears. If you do have a fear, set up a nanny cam or set a trap for them. People having affairs will get sloppy and make mistakes.
  • What does your brother-in-law think?
  • When you go to bed, your husband should be going with you.
  • I'd stay up with them, if I had any reason to worry. Have you tried telling Hubby that it makes you uncomfortable?

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