Honestly, you don't "convince" her. Simply ask her if she would like like to try it and if she doesn't, let the subject drop. Men need to understand that anal sex can be very painful for women unless the woman is willing, ready and completely relaxed. And for goodness sakes, never try to guilt her into it or pressure her. I've had friends dump their boyfriends over things like this. Just take your time, be tactful and she'll eventually come around. If she doesn't, well, anal sex just isn't for everyone.

Unfortunetly, there are a lot of women who are NOT open to new things, and thing that is an "exit" only. There is a right way and a wrong way to try it. If you do get her to agree to try it once, you MUST go SLOW and use A LOT of lube! The women (like myself) who enjoy anal took it slow, relaxed, and "tried" it more than once. My first time hurt a little, until I learned to RELAX and have more control of those muscles. YOU, as the guy, must realize that it can be painful the first couple of times and be patient and aware of what she's feeling. Go get a cucumber and see how long it takes you to comfortably stick it up your ass!

I think I answered this like 4 or 5 times in the last few weeks. Stop trying to convince someone to do something they don't want to do. She is probably afraid or has had a bad experience and/or thinks it's dirty and something only gay men do. It could be a lot of reasons and harping on it or being pushy about it will never get you there. It has to be a process of discovery for her. A slow process, you have to show her that you are in it to please her and not just yourself. Show her that the anus is a very sensitive part of the body by performing analingus during cunnilingus. Once you break that barrier you are on your way. It may take a year for you to actually get to penetrate her. Once she learns that it feels good to have your tongue in there you can take the next step. Make it part of your love making. At first she may feel funny because of hangups and inhibitions. Like I said it may take along time. After a tongue maybe a finger, then a small butt plug until one day she's screaming "fuck my ass baby, shoot your cum in there." It also helps to use a vibrator on her clit with any finger penetration. Associate pleasure with her anus so that she can associate the two together. But if you don't want to lick, you just want to fuck it, then forget it.

Have her preform anal sex on you first with a vibrator,and see how you like it at first. It will take a few weeks for you to enjoy it even with a small vibrator in your ass, so she will not enjoy your penis in her ass pounding in and out at first. So try a slender vibrator in her ass at first go slow and not deep, until she gets comfortable with this.

Get her drunk.... lol

Learn to perform, and enjoy, anal sex on yourself first. Show her your (genuine) enthusiasm for this nifty way to give and receive pleasure. Don't try to "convince" her to have anal sex. This will net you maybe one unpleasant experience with her. What one should do is to gift her with an amazing night of new sensual delights.

come on it is not naucural

You dont have to convince her when your doing her just pop it in her ass and go for it. Thats what I so and it works