Ok, my boyfriend of 10 months is starting to act weird. He says Iam to touchy. All I do is try to hold his hand and/or rub his back or leg. He says"Why are you so clingy". and etc. What am I supposed to do? I just dont want to push it to far..
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What are you supposed to do? Make your relationship expectations, including touching, known to him. This should have been done at the beginning. Tell him how it makes you feel when he acts this way. Listen to his answer. After all this, if the behavior doesn't change to meet your expectations, you either need to change your expectations, or the person in your relationship. Which do you value more? Good luck!
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Whats guy doesn't want to be touch by his girlfriend??? You're ready to take the next level, he's probably not. It's not you, it's him.
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Need more information. Is this happening in private or public? Did he grow up in an affectionate household? Was he physically abused as a child? These and many other issues could play a part in why, as well, it could be he's just not that into you.
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He is distancing himself from you, and you have different needs. You need a partner who finds touching as important as you do. It's not necessarily "natural" to touch less as time goes on.
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