you should be careful about the people that you bring into your house, especially when bringing them in your house in a more perminent situation. your son will start to get attached and will be really hurt if they leave.

Men are always looking for a mother, and you being home with a 2 year old, cooking real food now, and doing all those motherly things, AND having sex too. I'm surprised there is no lineup of men outside your door. Roommates means he is going to be dating and screwing other people, and he may be bringing them home. Yet, if the date goes bad, he has you at home, being domestic and available. But that's not your question is it? Your little boy will be happy to see anyone that is nice and wonderful to him, but I don't think at this age he would imprint on anyone, maybe around 5 or 6 yrs he would.

his casual sex will turn into daily and nightly sex. you need to think of your son's welfare. he needs your attention the most. frankly, i think his desire to move in, is inconsistant with having a youngster around. he could have a background check done first.

You son will get attached to him - provided he likes him. I guess the question should be - Is this a good idea overall? - your son being so young and impressionable - and considering how well you know this guy.

this sounds like a trianwreck waiting to happen. when you say roomates, do you mean sleeping in seperate bedrooms and splitting everything in half? Or together as a couple? huge unmistakeable difference. Make sure you clearly define this. Does this other guy know that potentially he could be a surrogate daddy? You might want to mention this to him prior to him moving in so that things dont get confused and you dont wind up resenting him when he's had enough and wants to move out.

Your son *will* make him into a father figure whether he *wants* to or not. He's TWO(2)! . You'd do far better to find some other single mother, one you're compatible with but still has a good head on her shoulders, and have her as your room mate. You could trade off nights babysitting for your social lives. .

this was my situation; sons father disappeared when my baby was 4mos old. i had to get a male roommate because i moved into a home that needed alot of work and i worked night shift so i needed a handy person/night baby sitter. i had this friend who ive known for years move in to help out. my son grew attached he taught him to walk, talk, sing, pee-pee standing up, all the stuff his dad should have been doing, anyway 2 years have passed we still live together as friends,my son cant function without him now, as a result i had to get another job so i could spend more time with my son during his wake hours to break this attachment to my friend. i cant date or anything because my friend goes nuts. we are the best of friends and we do have sex occasionally, and thats where the problem is. my son regards him as a father he is the only man in his life doing fatherly things. it is confusing to the child, he sees you together but you are not really together. if i speak to a man my 2yr old threatens to tell daddy, this is my own fault. my friend thinks we should be together but we dont like each other like that, he thinks he likes me but he doesnt because under different circumstances i wouldnt even be his type. this has complicated our friendship,but he is my best friend and my son loves him. so i do not date,talk on the phone, entertain, i just work and take care of my son and play with my friend, what a life

Well... He's hardly a "friend" to begin with then, is he? He's practically stepdad.

its possible

Haven't you made enough errors?

Haven't you made enough errors?