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I am not married but I don't want a housekeeper - I want a companion. Relationships are about teamwork not domination or slavery.
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I expect nothin of my wife. Expectations can be very hurtful even if intended for good. I will have expectations of coworkers and my children, but my wife has earned the right to be a partner in this relationship the same as I have.
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If I was married, I would expect nothing. One thing, we must never want children.
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That might have worked in the 50's, but not now. Our household chores are split evenly...well, pretty evenly...I still do more.
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Actually, since I wanted an old-fashion marriage, I found a woman that wanted to do those things because she wanted to and because she loved me. And in return I give her everything I can, such as a nice house, security, love, loyalty, etc. Works quite well when that is what both want.
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You left out the best part... the sex kitten nymphomaniac who swings from the chandelier!!!
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I had something along those lines of expectations early on. Then she took a week to go see her family, and I stayed home with the kids. It gave me a huge appreciation of what her life is like at home. I recommend an experience like that to any couple.
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In short, yes. I'm traditional to the bone, so is my wife. She stays home and takes of the house, kid, and cats. I go to work, pay the bills, and take care of her needs. I believe if the wife is not working outside of the house the husband should never come home to a full laundry basket or a dirty house.
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To be my partner and supporter, and me hers. She expects me to go to work every day, every month, every year and never complain.
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cooking,care kid s study,only,servants are there for cleaning,washing,iron,buying.
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Like stabbing anyone who says it to me in the neck with a dull pencil. XD
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Feels fine to me. Thats where women should be. but then again im a misogynist, so i may be a bit biased.
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I've only heard that on old TV shows. Sounds rediculous now.
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Laughing. Like the Willie/Waylon song, "Put another log on the Fire." I'm rarely in the kitchen. I admire men who can cook. And men who have these beliefs, even a teeny bit, are no longer in my life. An island of Amazons would get them back into shape.
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Positrolled because I look forward to comments like Madame Fate's.
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well don't be mad if i burn your food on purpose. lol it makes me laugh. but both men and women should respect each other and help each other out.
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Great! I'm in the kitchen 24/7 and clean all the time. But where is the man? Serve me the man!!!!
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Makes me laugh, as if we obey to this these days unless of course your a muslim woman.
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Makes me feel like fitting you for cement shoes.
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It makes me think you should seriously consider a mail order bride.
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My wife would kick my ass if I said that to her lol.
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Utterly useless words uttered by mindless morons..usually religion based mindless drones.
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Yes dear make sure the Steak is cooked properly tonight and you clean the grill properly when you have finished please. Oh did you say something?
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The question itself is comical (hopefully that was what you intended) its some of the answers that are scary.
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You need to get your ass in the kitchen and get your own chow. You are talking to the wrong women.
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Makes me feel I like the person who said this.
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You better be out making me some money then!!!
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The way I see it, its probably a really lonely man.
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I am a guy and my situation is reversed. I do the cooking, cleaning and such and she is the major bread winner, at this time. Now, if the guy is smart, he better show you a little R-E-S-P-E-C-T and he better talk to you nicer. A woman of noble character is her husband's crown. He better treat his crown better. The bible says that husbands should treat their wives in a good manner.
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I hope you like your eggs seasoned with my saliva, buddy.
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Actually, it makes me feel like laughing. I mean, for anyone to say that today, that person would have to be completely loopy on drugs to be serious! If for some reason they were not - well - I will quote one of my favorite lines from the movie musical "Casino".... "Some guys just can't hold their arsenic! ...He had it comin', he had it comin', he had it comin' all along!"
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It makes me feel like I'm guest starring on Leave it to Beaver. Ahh, the 50s...
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Makes me laugh...any man who says that too me is gonna have fun living in filth and starving!
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Excuse me! Women don't only have to take care of the house! It's the mens' job too! If they want to be the man of the house, but just lay on their butts all day and do nothing, then they are obviosly doing nothing to support the house! So in this case, shouldn't the women be in charge?
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Like a pro wrestler ready to put him on the mat! If i have to work full time to help ends meet & because i do that the ends are meeting quite well then maybe i should be telling him "Get out there & knit me a sweater." If i have to do what they say is mans work & earn an income, i'll be darned if i'm gonna be the only one to bring home the bacon then fry it up in the pan too.
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ha if he wants food do it yourself! i see how my dad does that to my mom a lot and if he doesn't like the food he complains so im scared to cook for him lol :) but that would really make me feel like everything in the world is just sexist!
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lmao....like you don't know me very well ;)
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It actually made me laugh
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Makes me laugh. If they're making the big bucks, its allgood! Otherwise, honeny i don't think so, i'm washing, you dry!
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feel? nothing...i've been long gone!
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True
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I don't care as long as I am kind to others. It doesn't matter what my role is.
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That was what I wanted when I was younger. I can no longer make babies, but I do a lot of cooking and cleaning now, and you'll never hear me complain since I like living in a clean house and hearing Tom tell me how good the food is during supper.
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I know I would actually feel awful if those were the expectations of me, but some days when I'm at work I only wish!
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As long as I get to be his whore in the bedroom and he get's to bring home the bacon... That sounds like fun to me!
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That depends, would I have to have over 9000 babies?
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Probably sore. Because I would laugh hysterically for so long that my abdominal muscles would be tired.
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It can be fun to make babies in the kitchen.
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I have to make babies in the kitchen? Depends. Is there a bed in there?
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I have to cook b- what? Dude, no way.
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I'd actually like that.
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seems to me many woman prefer that role they just don't want to be told that is what they should be. Many woman I knew with advanced degrees and careers give it up as soon as they get married and have a kid and have no plans to return. There is plenty of room for women who want a career in my opinion. Most guys just need to know when they are going to spend time with you.
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Like I had stepped into a time machine and moved back 50-60 years
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I am gonna be a sad disappointment to you if that's what you really want~
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Who changed the question?
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I am okay with it up until the "make babies" part.
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Yeah, man! Seriously, whatever happened to the good old days when all you needed to get laid were a club and a cave?
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Yeah we should...but I hope you have a big enough bank account to support that Yo:)::)LOL:) Good luck with that:)
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That's how God wanted it to be. That's why men are more physical while women are capable of giving birth and feeding breast milk.
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Like D12 said: Women ain't good for nothing, just cooking, cleaning and sucking d*ck and that's it! (Go ahead DR me!)
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depends, how much money does he make?
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That went of style in the sixties. Has it come back?
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if that's what they want to do it's fine by me
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It makes me laugh because your ignorance is showing.
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Makes me happy.
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Makes me feel like I have been missing out on something. I do much of that for my wife! But, if you think that this is what should be, then your thinking is not wrong, but is about 70 years behind the times.
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(snicker's) yeah right!
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Yeah, yeah... it's the 21st century buddy! ^_^
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LOL That's a good one! :) But it's not really gonna happen
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No worries, since he will have to work 15 hour days to afford it he will be too tired to eat or make babies and will not notice if I clean or not.
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Where do you live? I am 56 years old and never lived that way.We always shared chores and child care. I would be angry if that was my partner's expectations.
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Never...I think that responsibilities should be shared. I guess if he expects me to do all that for him I expect ALL bills paid, very very nice house, he do all the "outside" maintenance work, automobile maintenance etc....
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That if this were true I wouldn't be with a man.
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That is rather provincial thinking. Most first world countries have gotten past that kind of closed-mindedness more than 50 years ago.
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Makes me feel great :)
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It makes me feel like I hope you remain single.
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Umm no, I like to cook. I do most of the cleaning. She can make the babies O.o i can't push out outta me i'm sorry :'(. I prefer pampering my gal in anyway i can
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Let's ignore all the jackassed implications of the question and focus on one thing. Do you really think the world's in such good shape that we can survive without 1/2 of our creative/productive potential?
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Depends. What does he think men should be?
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Hahaha; he's an idiot! He'll probably stay single for a long time; either til his attitude about women changes or he finds someone who is mentally challenged.
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It's no wonder your friend is still single with his attitude towards women. If he continues to go down that road of thinking might I suggest you think about investing in a lifetime supply of Vaseline and tissues as well as some pron magazines and dvd's as that is about as close to a real woman your friend will ever get with his attitude.
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im a guy single for now and i have a job clean and am learning how to cook girls ive dated see it as a plus and i think women who can do all three are amazing as well. A women shoulld do what makes her happy and find a guy who agrees with her becuz if shes not happy why the hell is she dating the guy in the first place maybe ur buddy should get his thinking straightened out a bit i mean cmon theres a reason hes single i mean heck im going on a date tomorrow but thats on my looks cuz i havent really got to know her yet but i hope ur friends good looking cuz he wont keep a girl for long with that attitude
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Some women like to do that, be the typical 1950's housewife...Most don't. Chauvinistic, misogynistic pigs like him that try and force that opinion on women aren't going to do themselves any favours.
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"(yes he's single)" LOL.
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It really depends on the woman. If that's what she wants in life, it's her life. If she wants to work like her husband and raise kids, its both there responsibility to do the chores evenly.
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No he isn't right and he is destined to be single for many years to come with an attitude like that. May I ask where he originates from though - this seems to be an Asian thing; in that culture it does seem that the attitudes of men are stuck in the 1950's.... I hope your friend is capable of doing his own cooking and cleaning - he doesn't sound qualified to be a dad!
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To a certain extent he is right, women are baby-makers by default, that's not something men can do half the work of. He also has a point with the "serving men's needs" part, but that goes hand-in-hand with men serving women's needs, that's what being male and female is all about, unless you're gay of course. You say that he's single, as if that's to be expected because of his opinion, so it would seem that women view being open and honest as a bad thing in a guy, he doesn't have to be right, but I always thought women saw those things as a plus, oh well, seems like I got that one wrong.
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What is a beby. Ask yourself if he is right.
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No, he is just a sexist idiot. I hope for other people's sakes that he remains single.
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I believe no - they shouldn't! If they want to, and that makes them happy, and it works for the relationship then there is nothing wrong with that, at all. However it should not be imposed on any woman who does not wish for it. We are not in the 1800's anymore. I don't see your friend finding a happy relationship with an attitude like that!
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No, he's utterly wrong & is destined to stay a bat-boy for a very long time!
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LMAO The fact hes single says it all BUT if I have a man, I do like too cook for him, and clean for him, and make him feel looked after
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Better question: Is he rich? There aren't many guys out there who can pull down enough dough to ALLOW a wife to cook, clean,make babies and do nothing else. Your friend is either completely stupid or he's just not interested in what he finds out there in modern womanhood. So, he has his standard line, guaranteed to repel most women. Sounds like it's working for him.
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Hell no! I'll grant you that bearing babies is, so far, the exclusive responsibility of women, but the rest can be and should be shared responsibilities.
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That is a womans choice but me personally do not agree with it. Men should help with chores and dinner, and taking care of the children also.
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What a load of tosh!!!!!!
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Shut up and get me another beer!
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hahaha your friend is an idiot
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No that is not right. If that is all he wants from the woman, than he doesn't care truly for her. I don't mean the woman can't be a stay-at-home mom....nothing wrong w/that. But the attitude you state in the question is is not good.....thinking that is all women are for.
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Except for the baby part, he's describing a maid. I'd wouldn't mind being a maid and a baby-maker. It's too bad I have the career, make more money and provide the health insurance. My husband does the cooking and cleaning in our house.
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