Is married sex really dull, boring, infrequent & monotonous?
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Only if you allow it to be, in which case I ma guessing it would be that way for you married or not.
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It is what you make it....
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Lol!Hell,no!
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No way! If it is, you're not doing it right!
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It can be if you feel less attracted to your spouse or if your spouse has a low sex drive. Sex can become monotonous and boring if that spark dies out. Perhaps you're lacking passion, maybe you could use a little more foreplay to spice things up. Sex can get dull and boring if you're not with the right sexual partner. You can always have a quiet affair :O or use sex toys to keep you fulfilled... or perhaps a 'frank' discussion would do the trick. Married 'sex' doesn't have to be dull and boring but, lets face it, it can be. The question is... what are you going to do about it if it does reach that point? -
Only if you let that happen.
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It shouldn't be.
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No. As then you're obviously not doing it right.
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6-16-2017 It is if your spouse does not pay attention to responsibilities.
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Definitely not the first two years! After that it takes a little more creativity and effort.
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Often sex in marriage can become boring and dull. Sex like anything else in marriage can have its moments of boredom. It takes work to keep sex interesting even then it becomes "Ho Hum". People like variety in what they do. Although not for everyone, swinging and polyamory are viable alternatives. Neither of these is considered "cheating" or "Adultery". If entered into with proper knowledge and understanding they can liven-up a marriage and sex. The biggest hindrance to these alternative lifestyles is jealousy. A couple must always strive to stay together and continue their marriage. It must be looked at as sex and not love. Sex washes off but love endures. Never enter an open lifestyle unless you thoroughly understand it. The benefits can greatly fulfill a boring sexless marriage. The Lord God has no problem with extra-marital sex as long as all parties agree (consensual) and are not seeking a divorce.
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